Sweetheart, my reading comprehension is fine lol. Nice try though.
Your arguments are convoluted. The intent behind the wait is what I've been talking about all along. The problem is you are prone to read the intent as negative and biased against you when there are a plethora of reasons why a woman wants to wait to meet her needs. You both have a right to your needs. Your interpretation is different from hers and you let that steer your actions, which is fine, but that doesn't mean the wait wasn't worth it to her. But if the sex isn't worth it, what's the point in talking about it? The whole gist of this is that you assume the sex is worth it. If you want to move on because it isn't fast enough then we are both beating a dead horse and can agree to disagree that men and women see things differently. Our realities are our perceptions.
Also do you not see the contradictions between arguing that women shouldn't make men wait (maybe they think the sex isn't worth it too) but women who don't make men wait are slutty tarts? Your premise is you want a woman to open up to sex quickly, because it's probably not anything special anyway ("it's just sex gimme what j want"), and stay faithful or loyal and have low body counts- for sex that's "not even worth it anyway". If sex isn't special why not sleep with a ho? You don't want her to regard it as special and to wait for it, whether you like it or understand or not, this is important for some women. Easier to try to understand. At least try.
