Do You Instantly Sexualize Any Half-Decent Looking Chick In Your Mind?

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Yes 100%.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Women were created to serve us.

 

[BlackAchilles]

This is why when I make comments about the hypersexuality of men and then 5 or 6 posters come in gasping with the "how dare you?" and "that's only the men you know" BS comments I just laugh.


Most women have no idea how men think. The process is so vastly different it's amazing. I'm glad I was made aware. It truly changes your prospective when dealing with men and I use it to my advantage all the time. Flirting goes a very long way with men.



However I will say that it has kinda jaded me. I have no problem seeing the humanity and individuality of people on a case by case basis however I do struggle with seeing men as deeply emotional beings as a whole. And I think this comes from seeing women want a diversity of things from men whether it be money, love, commitment, protection, companionship etc. While men only seem (notice I said seem) to be motivated by sex which from my protective (and I believe many other women feel this way) is shallow and I hate to use this word but a bit lowly.

I honestly think this is why a lot of women quickly gravity towards feminism. They don't see the humanity in men. They see them as the opposition only out to use them sexually, lacking the ability to see women outside of that.

Though I am not a feminist I would be lying if I were to say that I don't understand where they are coming from.

If a dude ruins or potentially ruins a situation over sex like his relationship, job, or living situation I instantly lose respect for him to a high degree (women too).

Again I know it's not right and I struggle with it.

Not denying the one-track male mind, but you do realize y'all directly contribute to/facilitate men resigning themselves to a limited emotional range, right?

Also from my perspective being drawn to a man's status and the implied protection it bring is at least as shallow/selfish as being drawn to someone primarily for sex ... Y'all will talk a big game about wanting to grow with a man emotionally but let him express the smallest bit of doubt/fear without being prompted to do so by you

 

[The M.I.C.]

This is why when I make comments about the hypersexuality of men and then 5 or 6 posters come in gasping with the "how dare you?" and "that's only the men you know" BS comments I just laugh.


Most women have no idea how men think. The process is so vastly different it's amazing. I'm glad I was made aware. It truly changes your prospective when dealing with men and I use it to my advantage all the time. Flirting goes a very long way with men.



However I will say that it has kinda jaded me. I have no problem seeing the humanity and individuality of people on a case by case basis however I do struggle with seeing men as deeply emotional beings as a whole. And I think this comes from seeing women want a diversity of things from men whether it be money, love, commitment, protection, companionship etc. While men only seem (notice I said seem) to be motivated by sex which from my protective (and I believe many other women feel this way) is shallow and I hate to use this word but a bit lowly.

I honestly think this is why a lot of women quickly gravity towards feminism. They don't see the humanity in men. They see them as the opposition only out to use them sexually, lacking the ability to see women outside of that.

Though I am not a feminist I would be lying if I were to say that I don't understand where they are coming from.

If a dude ruins or potentially ruins a situation over sex like his relationship, job, or living situation I instantly lose respect for him to a high degree (women too).

Again I know it's not right and I struggle with it.

Women not understanding, especially in this modern age, that men are predisposed subconsciously to wanting to procreate and extend their genetic lineage is a major fault within their own thinking.

Here's a better question..define what is humanity.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

I stay violating woman with my thoughts and my eyes all the damn time

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Not denying the one-track male mind, but you do realize y'all directly contribute to/facilitate men resigning themselves to a limited emotional range, right?

Also from my perspective being drawn to a man's status and the implied protection it bring is at least as shallow/selfish as being drawn to someone primarily for sex ... Y'all will talk a big game about wanting to grow with a man emotionally but let him express the smallest bit of doubt/fear without being prompted to do so by you

Please explain the first sentence.

I honestly don't see how being drawn to the overall qualities of a person rather than one aspect is being superficial. Maybe you can explain that a bit further. Also what is "status" to a woman varies greatly.

Also I have no idea what you mean by the last sentence.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Not denying the one-track male mind, but you do realize y'all directly contribute to/facilitate men resigning themselves to a limited emotional range, right?

Also from my perspective being drawn to a man's status and the implied protection it bring is at least as shallow/selfish as being drawn to someone primarily for sex ... Y'all will talk a big game about wanting to grow with a man emotionally but let him express the smallest bit of doubt/fear without being prompted to do so by you

Yeah, it's very interesting.

Woman use their sexuality openly without issue before men then get upset to find out that we just want to sex you up from the get go.

My grandmother talked about how she met my grandfather..she basically more or less, had to civilize his ass. She had skills that demonstrated that she could back him up and handle the household..there was much more to her than just her looks. When my grandpa got sick, she ran the farm..took care of my aunt's and uncles, cooked, cleaned..delegated assignments amongst the kids, etc.. Most of these new age women would balk at this. The fukk? Some can't even cook..what do you have to bring to the table that will make our household operate smoothly other than sex? What the fukk else?

 

[PlainSight]

I don't do this as much as I used to anymore, I've become a lot more discriminating nowadays. Before it was pretty bad, 75-85% of women I'd see, I'd be like "what if? " and re-enacted an entire porn movie in my head over the space of 15 seconds. It takes a while before you realize that it has an effect on your relationships (and friendships) with women, so I had to at least unlearn some of it. Now it's simply women I'd be attracted to anyway that it happens with - and I've been learning how to channel that better too, which has been helpful.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Yes

I 100 percent look at an woman that is attractive at some point and think "I'd.... I bet... I wonder how... mmhmmm" 100 percent.

However that's just the man in me, if I want to go any further completely depends on how attracted I am to their personality. Even the baddest chick...if she has a ugly attitude or personality is a complete turn off to me. Complete, like she could be butt naked ready to go and I'd be

 

[Redwood]

shyt, women do that to men, . Nothing wrong with it.

 

[|r|e|a|d|]

... and completely unapologetic about it

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women not understanding, especially in this modern age, that men are predisposed subconsciously to wanting to procreate and extend their genetic lineage is a major fault within their own thinking.

Here's a better question..define what is humanity.

Well come on now it's a litter deep than "you should know better." The most explanation that girls/women receive about men is that they are "gross, dogs, pigs etc" and the only way that most woman keep pursuing relationship is to believe that their significant other is somehow special and not like those "other" men. Couple that with the fact that it culturally looked down upon to be with someone is sexually not committed to you. And I actually do think that women are come into aware about the "predisposition" of men. They are just not accepting and it and thereby choosing feminism and some to a further extent lesbianism.

I mean humanity in the context of deserving respect. Respect as in not to be used or mistreated. Humanity might be the wrong word.

 

[Neuromancer]

Wait I thought about it, most of the time yes. If she has qualities I find attractive them yes. But isn't that part of biological imperative?

 

[The Mad Titan]

This is why when I make comments about the hypersexuality of men and then 5 or 6 posters come in gasping with the "how dare you?" and "that's only the men you know" BS comments I just laugh.


Most women have no idea how men think. The process is so vastly different it's amazing. I'm glad I was made aware. It truly changes your prospective when dealing with men and I use it to my advantage all the time. Flirting goes a very long way with men.



However I will say that it has kinda jaded me. I have no problem seeing the humanity and individuality of people on a case by case basis however I do struggle with seeing men as deeply emotional beings as a whole. And I think this comes from seeing women want a diversity of things from men whether it be money, love, commitment, protection, companionship etc. While men only seem (notice I said seem) to be motivated by sex which from my protective (and I believe many other women feel this way) is shallow and I hate to use this word but a bit lowly.

I honestly think this is why a lot of women quickly gravity towards feminism. They don't see the humanity in men. They see them as the opposition only out to use them sexually, lacking the ability to see women outside of that.

Though I am not a feminist I would be lying if I were to say that I don't understand where they are coming from.

If a dude ruins or potentially ruins a situation over sex like his relationship, job, or living situation I instantly lose respect for him to a high degree (women too).

Again I know it's not right and I struggle with it.

This happens to every woman that thinks they understand men and every man that thinks they understand women.


You become jaded subconsciously because you accept and know how a man or woman mind thinks but we really dont understand why and it annoying as hell.


I completely agree with you though, the problem is both gender's want things that conflict with each other. Women want that raw rugged protector and man's man... Well that type of boss and man usually comes with the side dish of aggression, unfaithfulness or lack of emotions.

Men want a stay at home wife that's smart educated out going and driven that's also a freak and a health nut....That type of woman usually isn't trying to be a stay at home mom and even less emotional and supportive of the typical idea of a family lifestyle.


We want a freak thats a virgin, and virgin that's a freak. The odds...

Yall want a boss, that's balling and aggressive. That's caring and emotional towards you and faithful. The odds...

 

[BlackAchilles]

Please explain the first sentence.

I honestly don't see how being drawn to the overall qualities of a person rather than one aspect is being superficial. Maybe you can explain that a bit further. Also what is "status" to a woman varies greatly.

Also I have no idea what you mean by the last sentence.

Are they really "Overall qualities" tho, or are they centered around what you can get from a man financially/socially?

As for the last sentence: Society puts men in a box as to how little emotional reaction we're allowed to express, and sadly many women take this as a green light to carry on with childish overreactions/pouting/guilting, realizing that if their partner reciprocates even a little society has their back raking them over the coals for it, so to speak