Do You Instantly Sexualize Any Half-Decent Looking Chick In Your Mind?

[Tenchi Ryu]

Not even half decent, just not ghouls level ugly and it's too late

 

[Fani Willis fan]

shyt, women do that to men, . Nothing wrong with it.

I can bet they dont do that to slobby or goofy looking men tho

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

I do. Any woman I see with a decent butt I fantasize about hitting from the back.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This happens to every woman that thinks they understand men and every man that thinks they understand women.


You become jaded subconsciously because you accept and know how a man or woman mind thinks but we really dont understand why and it annoying as hell.


I completely agree with you though, the problem is both gender's want things that conflict with each other. Women want that raw rugged protector and man's man... Well that type of boss and man usually comes with the side dish of aggression, unfaithfulness or lack of emotions.

Men want a stay at home wife that's smart educated out going and driven that's also a freak and a health nut....That type of woman usually isn't trying to be a stay at home mom and even less emotional and supportive of the typical idea of a family lifestyle.


We want a freak thats a virgin, and virgin that's a freak. The odds...

Yall want a boss, that's balling and aggressive. That's caring and emotional towards you and faithful. The odds...

True. I go by what men say which usually comes down to "that's just the way we are." And yeah I will never deeply understand that feeling. But I do accept it. But at the same time what is the solution?

 

[Jamal514]

Only 7s and above

 

[Forlife44]

Yes and I don't see nothing wrong with a little sex in mind

 

[Drake is God]

No. Most women in this country are fat..

 

[Mr. Negative]

nah.

I may look at her like she's attractive and try to keep the look off my face, might even strike up a conversation if I see them again.

I'm not thinking about fukking chicks right off the bat, though. It may pop into my head days, weeks, months later.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yeah, it's very interesting.

Woman use their sexuality openly without issue before men then get upset to find out that we just want to sex you up from the get go.

My grandmother talked about how she met my grandfather..she basically more or less, had to civilize his ass. She had skills that demonstrated that she could back him up and handle the household..there was much more to her than just her looks. When my grandpa got sick, she ran the farm..took care of my aunt's and uncles, cooked, cleaned..delegated assignments amongst the kids, etc.. Most of these new age women would balk at this. The fukk? Some can't even cook..what do you have to bring to the table that will make our household operate smoothly other than sex? What the fukk else?

I think most women who use sexuality in order to get what they want do so b/c it is the most effective/efficient means to getting the desired result. I don't necessarily think it a woman's first instinct in to use sexuality but something learned overtime.

As far as the last statement, from the other side of the coin what is the point of "holding down the fort" for a man that will ultimately be unfaithful you when you can do it by yourself. You can be the best woman in the world and still be cheating on because of the sheer "nature of men".

 

[SheWantTheD]

No. Even if I'm on nofap and my dikk gets hard randomly throughout the day most I do is just check out a chick's ass and titties while out and about. I don't fantasize about sex in public lol.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Are they really "Overall qualities" tho, or are they centered around what you can get from a man financially/socially?

As for the last sentence: Society puts men in a box as to how little emotional reaction we're allowed to express, and sadly many women take this as a green light to carry on with childish overreactions/pouting/guilting, realizing that if their partner reciprocates even a little society has their back raking them over the coals for it, so to speak

Well as an attractive woman, all men want to fukk you (in theory). Would it not be wise to have sex with the "best" man for you. Not to say woman use the best criteria, I'll give you that, but I'd rather in the nice house than struggling in the trailer park. If the nature of men is to cheat would it not be logical to at least in some why benefit you?

As far as the last statement, I agree. But both men and woman adhere to this societal "rule".

 

[BlackAchilles]

Well as an attractive woman, all men want to fukk you (in theory). Would it not be wise to have sex with the "best" man for you. Not to say woman use the best criteria, I'll give you that, but I'd rather in the nice house than struggling in the trailer park. If the nature of men is to cheat would it not be logical to at least in some why benefit you?

As far as the last statement, I agree. But both men and woman adhere to this societal "rule".

With the first part, thing is I can't really fault women for thinking that way, my problem is more with them being honest about it.

As for the latter, the way I see it men comply with it due to social pressure, whereas women are more heavily invested in it.

 

[The Mad Titan]

True. I go by what men say which usually comes down to "that's just the way we are." And yeah I will never deeply understand that feeling. But I do accept it. But at the same time what is the solution?

I think the solution is right under our nose and its just acceptance, much easier said than done... but I think its a beautiful and humbling thing to be able to accept and love someone knowing that they see things differently than you but you can work in tandem with each other.

We also have to be aware that hey if you like super freaks, please be aware that usually that comes with history and or stigma's and you need to be ok with that, and hey if you like Bosses and aggressive guys...Again that usually comes with a side dishes that you need to be aware of or ok with.



I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic though... I'm a realist but a hopeless romantic at the same time so take that for what its worth .

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

It's because everything is sexualised to us. There sex in every film and TV show, every half decent athlete, to personality etc ends up in some sexualised photo shoot, every female music stars sells sex more than they sell their actual music. We even sexualise cartoons. If every decent looking female in the public eye is sexualised at one point it teaches us to do the same

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

With the first part, thing is I can't really fault women for thinking that way, my problem is more with them being honest about it.

As for the latter, the way I see it men comply with it due to social pressure, whereas women are more heavily invested in it.

Well I don't think it's anymore dishonest than men lie to woman in order to have sex with them.

But I think men are just as invested. It's wrong on both accounts though.