Do You Instantly Sexualize Any Half-Decent Looking Chick In Your Mind?

[philmonroe]

Yes

I 100 percent look at an woman that is attractive at some point and think "I'd.... I bet... I wonder how... mmhmmm" 100 percent.

However that's just the man in me, if I want to go any further completely depends on how attracted I am to their personality. Even the baddest chick...if she has a ugly attitude or personality is a complete turn off to me. Complete, like she could be butt naked ready to go and I'd be

Their personality? nikka you only talk to chicks,you know? Seems limiting but everybody gotta do what works for them. As far as the topic a lot of dudes do it,even these fake phonies in here kicking otherwise. I've saw all types from virgins to dudes getting girls look at women that had a nice body in that way. Its human nature to look but them doing more than looking isn't usually the case unless its at a club type environment.

 

[platinum f1a$k]

yeah, especially if she has some big titties or a really nice curvy shape to her

 

[freetroit]

Well come on now it's a litter deep than "you should know better." The most explanation that girls/women receive about men is that they are "gross, dogs, pigs etc" and the only way that most woman keep pursuing relationship is to believe that their significant other is somehow special and not like those "other" men. Couple that with the fact that it culturally looked down upon to be with someone is sexually not committed to you. And I actually do think that women are come into aware about the "predisposition" of men. They are just not accepting and it and thereby choosing feminism and some to a further extent lesbianism.

I mean humanity in the context of deserving respect. Respect as in not to be used or mistreated. Humanity might be the wrong word.

So women know the truth about men buy refuse to respect it or accept it

You ladies would be much better off accepting us for what we truly are first then maybe once our sexual needs are met we can show you other sides to us.

I always find it funny when women walk around flaunting their sexual energy as empowering and evolving

But when us men express our sexuality and we are looked at as animals that are unevolved and unworthy of respect

A lot of you women are truly hypocritical in your thoughts

Wanna wear yoga pants to provoke our sexual thoughts then want to become lesbians because you are in fact provoking our sexuality

Ladies please put some respek on my sexual thoughts about you all god made us this way

And if we didn't have this unyielding attraction to you alot of you would be on the streets homeless

I mean having sex with you is the only reason for us to simp and trick on yall

 

[The Mad Titan]

Their personality? nikka you only talk to chicks,you know? Seems limiting but everybody gotta do what works for them. As far as the topic a lot of dudes do it,even these fake phonies in here kicking otherwise. I've saw all types from virgins to dudes getting girls look at women that had a nice body in that way. Its human nature to look but them doing more than looking isn't usually the case unless its at a club type environment.

I'm only sexual with chicks I know or have some kind of relationship and I only want a "relationship" be it sexual or other with chicks who I'm attracted to on more than a physical level.

 

[philmonroe]

I'm only sexual with chicks I know or have some kind of relationship and I only want a "relationship" be it sexual or other with chicks who I'm attracted to on more than a physical level.

Like I said do what works for you but I throw the challenge flag on dudes saying they only fukk with chicks they know personally. I think its more likely you scarred to talk to chicks you don't have an in with. Its not just you I feel this way about it all cats on this stuff but hey whatever works for you. I will say an actual relationship I understand that logic of "knowing" them but outside of,that nah and how will you get to know people if you don't talk to them? I don't get it but I think this is one of this things I'm not supposed to get either.

 

[Action Mike]

can believe this is even a topic.
almost as funny as some grown women saying "OMG I CANT BELIEVE MEN THINK ABOUT SEX ALL DAY"

wow

 

[The Mad Titan]

Like I said do what works for you but I throw the challenge flag on dudes saying they only fukk with chicks they know personally. I think its more likely you scarred to talk to chicks you don't have an in with. Its not just you I feel this way about it all cats on this stuff but hey whatever works for you. I will say an actual relationship I understand that logic of "knowing" them but outside of,that nah and how will you get to know people if you don't talk to them? I don't get it but I think this is one of this things I'm not supposed to get either.

I think you missing the part about being sexual or starting a relationship with them.... I make female friends really easy. I'm just not interested in them sexually unless I vibe with their personality... For me personally that goes hand and hand...

 

[Ziggiy]

Yes and I'm not even gonna lie.

I'm in ATL. The Mecca of dark skinned goddesses with big asses. My ABSOLUTE favorite flavor of Black woman


Now simply because I may admire the black female physique and fantasize a bit doesn't mean I'm going to disrespect her or do anything to even outwardly to show her I'm in that mode. Hell most of the attractive women I come across in life I'll probably never even speak too, because at the end of the day. It takes a little bit more than a fat ass for me to approach you, you gotta have something else that attracts me (good conversation, reading a book I've read or found interesting, etc) for me to feel like we might hit it off.


So for some of you women thinking "Oh how indecent of you vermin to sexualize me. You roughish vagabonds you!" Just understand yes, MOST men who find you attractive are going to fantasize about you maybe once or twice, but we're not all ravaging animals whose first inclining is savagely rip your clothes off, we're just enjoying the view

 

[kuts]

I blame internet porn and masturbation. Porn preys on the fantasies of young men and encourages even further kinks. Once your hands start exploring and you allow yourself to release to visual depictions of sex your brain starts to trigger arousal at any suggestive visual, including tight-fitting garments and skin IRL.

Additionally, it takes a while and some intimacy with a women to realize that they don't think like you. They aren't constantly fantasizing about getting it in with every guy, the way many men do with women. This fact is the biggest issue with relationships because this kind of lust brings recklessness and rudeness. Also, it breeds insecurity because if you'd freak most girls then you'd likely project this mentality and assume most girls want to freak most guys just on-sight. You wouldn't trust this woman because you wouldn't trust yourself if you were so capable of getting sex from the opposite gender the way women are capable of.

And I guess lastly I'll add that a hard truth men must realize is that biologically we are superfluous as one man can impregnate many women, and that's really the only thing a woman can't get from another woman. We must work hard to make ourselves decent so that this grim scenario isn't realized.

 

[Concerning VIolence]

No.

 

[Suleiman Bey]

I have never sexualized a woman, not even one I'm fukkin. I guess I'm a weirdo.

 

[facemask]

If I like the way she looks I go out of my way my to dismiss her existence completely. Don't want to give her the power.

 

[Neuromancer]

I think most women who use sexuality in order to get what they want do so b/c it is the most effective/efficient means to getting the desired result. I don't necessarily think it a woman's first instinct in to use sexuality but something learned overtime.

As far as the last statement, from the other side of the coin what is the point of "holding down the fort" for a man that will ultimately be unfaithful you when you can do it by yourself. You can be the best woman in the world and still be cheating on because of the sheer "nature of men".

Not all men cheat sis. Some of us may want to but we try our hardest and stay faithful. Will power sometimes trumps urge. Doesn't stop us from getting cheated on though.

 

[philmonroe]

I think you missing the part about being sexual or starting a relationship with them.... I make female friends really easy. I'm just not interested in them sexually unless I vibe with their personality... For me personally that goes hand and hand...

How sway? I mentioned them parts maybe you just are paying attention to my post. You make female friends easy? Oh ok. You different from me cause I don't and its not because I can't its just no reason most of,the time. We don't have the same interest and on top of I got female friends. Also we gotta really define friends cause no offense but some of you cats be exaggerating the word "friend". I have female "friends" but my true blues are all mainly dudes except two chicks I grew up with.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Thread kinda turns me on.

A part of me thinks this is healthy. I like men who are sexually attracted to women.

The problem comes in when you can't appreciate a person beyond one aspect of them, in this case their sexuality.

That's when u run the risk of turning entire live human beings into objects...whether she becomes just a huge vagina on legs or whether he becomes a walking ATM machine.

We all interact with others based on their perceived worth to us and how they can take care of our needs. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

But the most tragic part of life is to have an amazing human in front of you and relegate them to one narrow role while ignoring or denying their ability to be anything else.
Ironically objectifying others in turn objectifies you as well because you limit urself when you limit the scope of what others can give or do as well.