Do you plan on getting married?

[SouljaVoy]

The fact that Black Men debate whether or not they are getting married is a huge problem..... White men do not question IF they are getting married, but WHEN.

Our communities will continue to fall without the establishments of MARRIAGE and Black Families... You nikkas are still slave minded, and you disgust me.


Find a good Black Woman, marry her, and raise a family... Can you nikkas be normal for a change?

 

[ALonelyDad]

The fact that Black Men debate whether or not they are getting married is a huge problem..... White men do not question IF they are getting married, but WHEN.

Our communities will continue to fall without the establishments of MARRIAGE and Black Families... You nikkas are still slave minded, and you disgust me.


Find a good Black Woman, marry her, and raise a family... Can you nikkas be normal for a change?

it's more 2015 mentality than black/white mentality.. I have seen plenty of white men say they would rather not marry

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You have to pick the right one. I don't know why you dudes just base an entire sex off of a few females. It baffles me, its like you don't even leave your phone, like the Coli is the only way you make conversations with human beings

 

[Rich Spirit]

Marriage is fine.

Weddings are 100% bullshyt.

this. I don't mind getting married one day. Its just the whole wedding ordeal ughh like hurry up and get this shyt over with

 

[SouljaVoy]

it's more 2015 mentality than black/white mentality.. I have seen plenty of white men say they would rather not marry

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A few white dudes do not represent the millions who get married daily...

At the end of the day Cacs get married. And thats why they are generally better off than us..

this. I don't mind getting married one day. Its just the whole wedding ordeal ughh like hurry up and get this shyt over with

I feel like I'm the only guy on the coli who dreams of a big white wedding at a beautiful church.
Somebody gotta feel me on this...

 

[NERO]

I will but I am waiting until I am in my mid to deep 40s to do it. No reason to get married right now. A brother still has too much maturation and financial development to do to bring children into the world in the next few years. As long as I am vital enough to operate my business, handle business in the bedroom, fix some things around the house and roughhouse with my sons/carry my daughter on my shoulders during her early years, thats all the physical strength I will need. I am getting my long term money and land situation sorted out first so I can properly take care of my black queen and our children.

 

[Redguard]

The fact that Black Men debate whether or not they are getting married is a huge problem..... White men do not question IF they are getting married, but WHEN.

Our communities will continue to fall without the establishments of MARRIAGE and Black Families... You nikkas are still slave minded, and you disgust me.


Find a good Black Woman, marry her, and raise a family... Can you nikkas be normal for a change?

You have to pick the right one. I don't know why you dudes just base an entire sex off of a few females. It baffles me, its like you don't even leave your phone, like the Coli is the only way you make conversations with human beings

Its too risky out here for men to get married.

I don't trust most people. I definitely don't trust most women. Its easy to say pick the right one but in today's society its almost impossible. I may sound pessimistic but I have seen too much shady shyt happen with friends, relatives, and coworkers that makes marriage seem like a bad idea.

 

[Paradise]

I'll get married when the time is right. Right now being married is a bad idea. I still have some growing to do....

 

[DrX]

i want a wife and kids deep down but that prob wont ever happen

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

I want to get married and have children

 

[#StarkSet]

Only if she makes more then me






Gotta be protected if divorce comes later

 

[no.]

Tbh no.

My parents' divorce rid me of any sentimental attachment I had to the idea of being a married couple.

So it's whatever. Not something to plan for because it's not something I'm aiming for.

 

[MikelArteta]

The hell?

The whole pua, the whole mgtow, the whole manosphere is like 98% white men

The fact that Black Men debate whether or not they are getting married is a huge problem..... White men do not question IF they are getting married, but WHEN.

Our communities will continue to fall without the establishments of MARRIAGE and Black Families... You nikkas are still slave minded, and you disgust me.


Find a good Black Woman, marry her, and raise a family... Can you nikkas be normal for a change?

 

[miranda]

yes im back on the baby fever train hard, so i plan on getting married.

thats true, i should have pointed that out. a small family gathering would be perfectly fine.
thing is, in 2015 women get what they want and looking for someone who would be good with a small wedding would lessen our numbers even more
coli ladies, if you want to get married, would you want a big wedding?

yes i would want an elaborate wedding. I want to wear a beautiful dress, in the church, fresh flowers everywhere. I dont need bridesmaids or whatever, but definitely a traditional orthodox church service .
The reception is what actually costs a lot, and I know that one up to my standards would be in excess of $35,000 and I dont want my parents to waste that on a 8 hour party. We can just have bbq at the park or in one of my grandparents back yards.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Its too risky out here for men to get married.

I don't trust most people. I definitely don't trust most women. Its easy to say pick the right one but in today's society its almost impossible. I may sound pessimistic but I have seen too much shady shyt happen with friends, relatives, and coworkers that makes marriage seem like a bad idea.

Its not easy to say pick the right one because the saying itself is enigmatic, but its an answer to life. Its a risk, but so is being black, drinking, smoking, clubbing, going on bike rides, etc. But taking risks is what keeps my world spinning..
I might be hopping on a plane in a few minutes too.