When you see a cute girl on the street, & she makes eye contact & smiles at you.. Do you go up to her & try and get the number or do you usually just keep it movin?
i approach them with high success and they approach me with high success
Do you regularly approach attractive women?
- Thread starter ChrisDorner
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i approach them with high success and they approach me with high success
606onit
Superstar
I took a small L @ Target on Friday.....I saw a juicey Pawg 
and I was like "I like ur shape......made her laugh @ some improv sh1t, but I think I startled her.....and I know I had that THIRSTY ENGERY permeating. 
and I was like "I like ur shape......made her laugh @ some improv sh1t, but I think I startled her.....and I know I had that THIRSTY ENGERY permeating. 
I took a small L @ Target on Friday.....I saw a juicey Pawg
I know what you mean by that. Hard to conceal sometimes
BLAZO da GAWD
Superstar
whats your go to opener?
I know what you mean by that. Hard to conceal sometimes
I swear to God, that's one of the things I'm trying to work on
I hope I grow out of it, I'm decent with women and comfortable conversing but I still get that butterflies in the stomach feeling around chicks I'm attracted to. I'm good socially but I still have to force myself not act like a groupie around women I'm extremely attracted to
Keep it Movin.. Let her approach a nikka
it's 2 many women out here to be chasing after 1 tail.
it's 2 many women out here to be chasing after 1 tail.
great post breh. I used to do it for sport too, it's enjoyable talking to/meeting new females just to do it sometimes
No doubt. The thing that humps my bumps is:
When dudes say, I dont approach women. I wait to see if she feeling my steeze and Ill initiate something when she gives me the green light. John Legend.
See, yall type of dudes are lucky because I dont have that luxury. Im not that good looking, so its basically up to me to catch a women on a good day and hopefully, I am able to instill attraction in her, suave up her psychological silhouette with some insatiable speech, seductively.
Actual spit? If I sat and played the waiting game, not only is my 401K gonna kick in, but Ima be alive to see the Maggie Simpson go to highschool (and she still looks 2 years old after 3 decades!!!)
On the flipside, I choose who I think strikes MY fancy. Im ultimately in control of the sitchayshun and maneuver it to my liking/abilities/pace.
The lady Im dating now would have NEVER made any kind of pass at me (not even a hint, shiit I bet even if she had two watches on, wouldnt care to give me the time of day UNLESS I initiated). The reason why were together now is because I made the conscious decision to show her a world that would have never existed in her callow minds society otherwise.
Creating attraction by approach is such a powerful method because it conveys the message to a womans brain by instilling the idea that you are the man, that you were bold enough to jump at the opportunity to open her eyes to a man who is comfortable enough in his own skin and willing to open himself up to her mind, body and soul.
Write your own letter, create your own invitation, control your own love destiny...
And trust, shell let you in with open arms (and very possibly her thighs).
:PikDatAzz:
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Openers should be expressed to mirror your personality.
Like my posting style, I’m very goofy/ridiculous. But my approach works for me because it’s indicative/a reflection of my attitude/disposition.
*sees a beautiful woman walking dog, taps her shoulder and…*
Me: Excuse me…
Her: Yes?
Me: My goodness, I should have brought some buns with me.
Her: Excuse me?
Me: Well, i just figured, what else to better compliment that wiener your with! Eh heh heh.
Her: *giggles out of shock value, but at the same time, astounded by how bold this stranger is*
Me: I’m just yanking your snatch. What’s his/her name?
________
Bam. Ice is broken. Now it’s up to you to gauge her interest levels and whether its worth it or not to continue the conversation.
Why the above works for me is because its not cliché. Most guys play it waaayyyy too safe sometimes when they’re making that first step. My mantra is to “be bold, be assertive, be unique.”
Once again, what’s effective for one initiator may not be applicable to the next guy cuz it may not be in their flare to incorporate such methodology in their execution repertoire.
If it works on her, I know she has a sense of humor and ultimately, that’s the kind of woman I want to be with (if anything, it helps me filter out the prospects who probably wouldn’t calibrate their personae’s to mines and it saves me a ton of time).
And I never have a go to opener; I tailor my approach to the scenario/situation, so it varies – just like my internet jokes.
I’ve been posting so long and producing material for y’all for over a decade, I just decided to translate it onto the field fortunately, met with desirable results. I.e. when y’all dap me, I know its something I can apply to the ladies in the real world. By the end of the day, funny is funny, I don’t believe in political correctness and I’m secure enough with myself that anything goes, deal with the backlash later and modify/adjust accordingly to ensure future success rates. I just keep in mind to just not be too crass (just enough to moisten their appetites and keep ‘em interested) and if its going to be corny, it MUST be original.
Women like to have fun and they admire fun guys.
I started my 20’s having way more guys friends than female friends. Now it’ vice versa with a 5 to 1 ratio (women to guys, to confirm the perm).
This fleet of female comrades keeps me sharp, I can always play with my material around them, tell them stories (either true or fabricated) and inquire about their opinions on ideas I have to take over the world, fly stringless kites or tips on how to turn my venus fly trap into a bonafied vegan, etc. The rapport is good for reference and it doesn’t hurt to have multiple ones for qualitative reasons.
If I made more money, I think I would do wild things and even attain women beyond my wildest dreams (maybe I’ll be there one day, who knows).
But for now, all I have is my mind to take me places I’m not able to transport myself to financially. Because it’s my only asset/resource, I depend on it a lot and enjoy sharing it with people I’m around (can’t wait to travel and meet more people, I so I can share it with the world).
In the mean time, my journey is here and here is what I will make the most out of.
If a woman will take the time out to be entertained by it, that, my friends… I will certainly do.
Just like i do for you. The Coli.
You know, the crazy thing is that when i was younger, momma said i'd grow up to be a rollingstone and believed her...
... don't be wrong, she's still far from the truth - but i do what i can in this world.
One approach at a time.
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god shamgod
Veteran
You droppin gems in here but this shyt? 
@ I should of brought my buns
Damn, breh. Carlton Banks wants his openers back
Slaimon Khan Shah
SLAIMON KHAN SHAH = SHAOLIN MONK/S OF ISLAAM
THAT WOULD BE A WOMAN I MAY TRY TO GET MARRIED TO.