Do You See Yourself Getting Married?

[CopiousX]

Me personally, I've accepted the evanescent and fleeting nature of marriage. I'm calculating from the position of my life being net positive after the divorce. I wont be blissfully running into matrimony expecting it to last. We simply don't have the restrictive economic and social institutions that forced women to stay married in prior generations, so I'll let the marriage do whatever.


I'll do it, but My conditions for marriage are social. I'm pragmatic. I'll only do it if my career requires it or if her family is in an industry I need to get into.

In both scenarios, I wouldve personally grown from the marriage in a tangible way. For example, if simply being in a union with her family nets me 200% increase in my income or in my business connections then I'll still be netpositive when a divorce inevitably cuts it in half to a respectable 100% increase from pre-marraige.


And no, I don't believe children alone make you net positive after a divorce. You can still get them biologically through a surrogate, abiologically through adoption, or biologically through civil union. So they aren't a good enough justification for marriage.

 

[Bboystyle]

Me personally, I've accepted the evanescent and fleeting nature of marriage. I'm calculating from the position of my life being net positive after the divorce. I wont be blissfully running into matrimony expecting it to last. We simply don't have the restrictive economic and social institutions that forced women to stay married in prior generations, so I'll let the marriage do whatever.


I'll do it, but My conditions for marriage are social. I'm pragmatic. I'll only do it if my career requires it or if her family is in an industry I need to get into.

In both scenarios, I wouldve personally grown from the marriage in a tangible way. For example, if simply being in a union with her family nets me 200% increase in my income or in my business connections then I'll still be netpositive when a divorce inevitably cuts it in half to a respectable 100% increase from pre-marraige.


And no, I don't believe children alone make you net positive after a divorce. You can still get them biologically through a surrogate, adoption, or a civil union. So they aren't a good enough justification for marriage.

ya'll some fukking weirdos

 

[Artificial Intelligence]

Nah.

 

[CopiousX]

ya'll some fukking weirdos

I'm pragmatic. I'm not a romantic. Life is not a sitcom to me

 

[mag357]

I personally couldn't imagine myself smashing the same girl more than twice a week for the rest of my life. Doing that once seems like a challenge unless she's crazy thick with a great body.

If she's the above with a good personality, THEN I'd be willing to acquiesce and allow her to be in my personal space for an extended period.

Lil kid mentality

I guess

It ain't no kid mentality.

Most Men would love to fukk a different sexy bytch all the time. That's just nature.

But Most men don't have the opportunity to fukk a different woman whenever they want to.

So they get a gf or get married to secure consistent p*ssy for themselves.
Women get a man to secure a consistent sucka

Everyone wins

 

[Marks]

No philosophy or GMB shyt behind it, but I just don't think it's in the cards for me. I can't see myself in that life. I've spent too much time alone.

 

[Fill Collins]

OP:

But to answer your question, hell naw

Black, white, hispanic, asian, rich, poor; ever since I was a kid I'd always hear men say some variation of, "don't get married", even to this day

Plus I really don't see myself getting married or having kids, I just don't want to do either, I have to get myself in order

If/when I have the money, I'm gonna start up makerspaces for Black kids, I want jits playing with those huge tubs of legos, learning how to code on youtube and notepad, build stuff for their parents, do shyt a lot of kids should be doing and not behind an algorithm

 

[GoFlipAPack]

No, I'm a childfree woman ...and for starters, most men and women want kids. That is one thing I am not willing to compromise on. So that makes finding a suitable partner (for marriage at least) difficult for me just for that reason alone. That and I honestly like doing whatever the hell I want without having to answer to no one.

I'll be fine though

You're going to die old and alone

 

[beenz]

wrong thread

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

i'd only get married if i meet an attractive down to earth woman from a rich family. like a billionaire heiress or some shyt? you'd be stupid not to

i had a paag like that when i was young but i fukked it up cuz i wanted to be in the streets fukkin hoes

 

[The Radiant One]

i'd only get married if i meet an attractive down to earth woman from a rich family. like a billionaire heiress or some shyt? you'd be stupid not to

i had a paag like that when i was young but i fukked it up cuz i wanted to be in the streets fukkin hoes

Damn you fukked up breh

Being married is hard especially with kids I can see why a lot of married men cheat on their wives

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Damn you fukked up breh

Being married is hard especially with kids I can see why a lot of married men cheat on their wives

we fukked a few times and she was feeling me but i didn't find out she was rich (has an elevator in her house rich) until a friend of a friend started dating her a few months later

plus she was cute but not quite attractive enough for me to wife.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup I'm getting married next year God Willing

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yup I'm getting married next year God Willing

nikka left his soul in uganda

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

I did then i divorced her

What happened