Do You See Yourself Getting Married?

[#BOTHSIDES]

Nah. That marriage life ain’t easy…”happy life happy wife” fukk that my world ain’t revolving around a woman’s emotions.

Happy dude happy mood

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Been married. It was a bunch of bullshyt. Tainted my view. I still think it's the most ideal arrangement to have kids under and honestly, the best arrangement to reach your max potential in your career. But again, I'm skewed.

With a long-term girl I live with now, but it's starting to fall apart. We'll see.

Care to give details as to why the married life was difficult?

 

[Sassy]

You're going to die old and alone

And? That doesn't bother me lmao. People die old and alone all the time - even if they're married

 

[Swirv]

Marriage is work, but I love it. It’s made me a better version of myself. I’m really thankful for the wife I have. I hope y’all can experience the beauty of marriage when it’s time.

 

[Vandelay]

Care to give details as to why the married life was difficult?

When you marry the wrong person, for the wrong reasons, you set yourself up for an inevitable downfall. It's obvious now, love isn't the only reason you marry someone. Love, compatibility, attraction, mutual goals, mutual outlook on life, being each other's support system, having complimentary personalities all matter.

I married the fun chick, little else was in common when you got past surface level shyt. We got married because we both were in shyt spots in our lives, and looking back we probably thought being married would make our situations better. No where to go but "up", right? WRONG...lol...

I could say a lot of negative shyt about her, but I won't. In hindsight, I had a lot of latent shyt wrong with me that probably made her act in a certain manner. The further away from the marriage; 8 years now; the clearer I see this now. I kinda evolved past talking shyt and just like to say we were never right for each other. I wish her well, but I don't even acknowledge her anymore.

The silver lining for me was, I learned so much more about myself and grew so much from it. I used to just let life happen to me before. I'm not perfect at it and I probably never will be, but I take a lot more shyt head on now.

 

[Easy-E]

Yep. Talking about Prenups on the 1st date...

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

No, but given how life works and given my age, if I did get into another long term relationship and the woman was a good woman, I’d consider it seriously.

Wouldn’t make that the objective of my next relationship though. I’d much rather prefer to realize I’m in a situation where I’m happy and feel good about my woman and it’s been some time that’s passed instead of looking to that next woman immediately hoping she’s marriage material.

But for now, I’m not looking, just trying to enjoy my life and don’t hurt nobody

 

[maxamusa]

I want to find a wife. But it's not looking good.

 

[maxamusa]

The great irony here is that you more than likely won't get to smash much after the first 2 years. Better make the most of it while she still acquiesces to you



Those stories of sexless marriage are real breh. Don't matter how good you are in bed or what random sht you do to "spice it up" . Women get bored or lazy too. Sex with you becomes a chore to the woman, and the frequency drops from weekly , to monthly, to less... especially once she realizes you won't leave no matter what.



Stop it. You know damn well most of the men of our grandparents and parents generation had side chicks for the same reasons.

Arguably, our grandparents gen and earlier were even worse cause they would have whole other families on the other side of town or other side of state while preaching imaginary morals to the youth.


@Dray5K , is speaking from the position of actually being faithful . There is nothing wrong with his honesty. He is describing a legitimate biological need that can be found on Maslow's pyramid.

the top part about the sex drying up is always the mans fault. everytime.

the only guys I hear complaining about it; get married; let themselves go; and think now they can turn their game off cause they "got her."


everyone else who is still maintaining doesn't have those issues. thats a dummy's problem.

 

[AtomicUse]

Thought I’d never get married, then I met my wife.

It helps that she’s a doctor and earns 2x

I already did it once.

I never say never, but I might. I mean my current GF and me are on equal footing. we both are homeowners, both have money, and both have assets. plus she has no BD drama cuz she's a widow, so that's a non-issue. also, neither of us want kids, cuz we both did that already as well.

then again, I known her since I was 15, so even longer than I known my ex-wife.

Why didn’t you marry her 1st?

 

[LOOPY]

 

[The BasedFather]

HELL NO!

I’d rather jump into a volcano than get married. All the guys I know who are married are miserable. Sign a death contract brehs

#GMB4LYFE

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Im open to it. These days women arent wifeable. These women are traumatized,imprinted,mentally screwed. Majority of men arent marrying the best version unless she is truly rare jewel . A womans love is condtional she can give you a baby thats great but she can also take that child away and turn that chilld to despise you. We as men have to do everything in relationship/marriage. Women just reap the benefits. This is why i say Respect is bigger then Love. A man should never worry about dying alone . Death is an solo ticket. Men arent loved for who we are unless you made impact in your kids life. Marriage is a thots retirement plan.Face it we are in co parent generation.Life is hard,short and goes by fast why be tied to someone who wouldnt take a bullet for you

 

[Finesse]

the top part about the sex drying up is always the mans fault. everytime.

the only guys I hear complaining about it; get married; let themselves go; and think now they can turn their game off cause they "got her."


everyone else who is still maintaining doesn't have those issues. thats a dummy's problem.

Naahh that happens in all relationships, not just marriage.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Women always use cliche "Im not perfect" .Obviously no one is but women use the cliche to excuse and warn of future dirt they will do.