Do you talk to your lady about your problems?
- Thread starter Dont@Me
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IIVI
Superstar
Man, if you canāt talk to your lady about your problems you might want to rethink who youāre choosing. Two heads are better than one.
Maybe itās the Engineer in me, but itās no different than any other form of critical teamwork. The less we got to āread each othersā mindsā the better.
Maybe itās the Engineer in me, but itās no different than any other form of critical teamwork. The less we got to āread each othersā mindsā the better.
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RiverCity916
South Sacramento
Im lucky to have a woman I can talk to of necessary. Knowing you're partner has your back all the way is very reassuring.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
I just vent on the coli 
No...for the most part i deal with my issues, my wife and BM have enough to worry about with the household and kids. Too many nikkas are ok with crying on they wife shoulder and gossiping like some hoes 
man up and deal with it.
man up and deal with it.
Rule #1. Don't ever, ever, ever be vulnerable to a woman
This is propaganda. Ask Shaq
CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
Yes.
Do yāall date women you actually like, and actually like you? Iām talking, she ride passed your house, and you happen to be outside level like?
Do yāall date women you actually like, and actually like you? Iām talking, she ride passed your house, and you happen to be outside level like?
Toe Jay Simpson
Searchinā
No, because my problems are usually another woman
This is not luck or a flex. Talk to your dog or goldfish.
Kenny West
Veteran
No
Get a dog nikka
Get a dog nikka
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
You should keep that between you and got, somebody you can actually trust to not stab you in the back. 
Trusting these humans will get you got.
Trusting these humans will get you got.
Yes but not in the sense that I just dump them in her lap.
1. If what I'm going through is going to be affecting my mood, and in turn how I'm dealing with the people in close proximity, I can at least let them know, hey I'm kinda going through something, if I seem irritated or short with you, IT'S A ME THING, not your fault. I do this with my kids, my lady, my friends, anybody that could have the displeasure of having my struggle projected onto them.
2. I offer to talk about certain things only in relation to how it may help someone else, particularly the women in my life feel seen, empathized with, understood. Like if they come to me with a problem, rather than immediately jumping to solutions I might offer up a similar challenge or pain point to let them know they aren't incompetent or alone in how they feel or what they're going through.
You can be vulnerable without handing your pain off to someone who's prone to emotional overwhelm, which is the REAL reason why being vulnerable with women can go left. A good portion of them already have trouble regulating and processing emotions.
1. If what I'm going through is going to be affecting my mood, and in turn how I'm dealing with the people in close proximity, I can at least let them know, hey I'm kinda going through something, if I seem irritated or short with you, IT'S A ME THING, not your fault. I do this with my kids, my lady, my friends, anybody that could have the displeasure of having my struggle projected onto them.
2. I offer to talk about certain things only in relation to how it may help someone else, particularly the women in my life feel seen, empathized with, understood. Like if they come to me with a problem, rather than immediately jumping to solutions I might offer up a similar challenge or pain point to let them know they aren't incompetent or alone in how they feel or what they're going through.
You can be vulnerable without handing your pain off to someone who's prone to emotional overwhelm, which is the REAL reason why being vulnerable with women can go left. A good portion of them already have trouble regulating and processing emotions.
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This is how I see it. A woman that truly loves you and sees you as an important component of we, will also feel your problems are her problems. So, if she is just a woman you are messing with for sex, then no. If you are married to her and you vetted well, then yes.
A good woman will be there for the good man she has married and vice versa. Oustide of that dynamic, your problems are your own.
A good woman will be there for the good man she has married and vice versa. Oustide of that dynamic, your problems are your own.