Do you talk to your lady about your problems?

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The Bible speaks of this ...

Proverbs 10:19
When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent

 

[rabbid]

Last time I did that she just stared at me like I was a wild racc00n trying to get something to eat out of a dumpster. I dont know if women are really interested in the aftermath of that behavior. Plus what good will come of talking around her?

It is what it is. As men we can't be out here openly wishing things were better or a certain way like some women do. We have to be of action.

 

[desjardins]

Yes but I don't have serious problems like that and I def don't burden her by constantly complaining or talking about problems

In a world where men legit be moving in with single moms, I'm not really buying the idea that a man can't share his issues with the woman he's involved with
I think men naturally keep shyt to themselves regardless if it's family, male friends, females etc. But whatever they do share I think in general they can share that with their woman

 

[RiverCity916]

This is not luck or a flex. Talk to your dog or goldfish.

I'm black no pets in the house

 

[Jasonmask]

Surface layer problems yes but not the real issues

 

[bigde09]

Yes because I have a good one

 

[KidJSoul]

No, I dont see the point.

When I have problems I figure out how to solve it. Worst case scenario I can explain the issue to her and ask for a solution.

But I don't bother opening up emotional or anything like that.

Even when she opens up, I can listen/support but I usually just give a solution.

 

[folasade]

If you can't talk to your partner about your problems you pretty much chose wrong, or you need to seek out a therapist.

 

[Pistolvania Prince]

I been married to a marriage & family therapist for 8 yrs…. I don’t tell her shyt bout my problems She’ll come to me for advice before I’d ever go to her. She comes to me at least 3x a week to ask if she was trippin at work lol I work on Wall Street so I’m gonna be more pragmatic than anything in any scenario whereas she knows emotions can lead people astray 9/10

 

[WesCrook]

No, I dont see the point.

When I have problems I figure out how to solve it. Worst case scenario I can explain the issue to her and ask for a solution.

But I don't bother opening up emotional or anything like that.

Even when she opens up, I can listen/support but I usually just give a solution.

Manhood must be maintained at all times

 

[null]

if your OH even understands when you talk about heavy stuff, don't waste it by talking to her about heavy stuff.

if she understands, she is like hen's teeth, she is worth her weight in diamonds, she is a doggone keeper ...

 

[Dont@Me]

i honestly wasn't expecting this many yes votes

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

If you can't talk about your problems with her, what's the point?

 

[WIA20XX]

We need more breh's linking up IRL.

All them bowling leagues and Prince Hall Mason Lodges were excuses for brehs to get together and fellowship.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

I'm like Larry David. I dont confide in any woman im with. Out side of generic complaints, i aint saying shyt.