Do you think its unmanly to take paternity leave?

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

I got 2 more paid weeks and 5 unpaid left fukk yeah Im gonna use all of them

 

[Paper Boi]

i’m sure some coli bootlickers and deadbeat fathers do, but no, it’s not.


bonding with your child making your boss who doesn’t give a fukk about you happy

 

[Spliff]

Imagine tying your manhood to how obedient of an employee you are.

 

[Edub]

Kinda dumb ass question….

 

[Micky Mikey]

Kinda dumb ass question….

Its a very American question

 

[Edub]

Its a very American question

Breh, Wtf does takin leave as a father to rock wit ya seed have to do wit manhood, especially if you can afford it and or gettin paid for it….


We need to do a whole dissertation on what manhood and masculinity is….cuz it ain’t that fragile

 

[lightskin jermaine]

My woman had a C-Section. She could barely walk. I was making the bed, tidying the place, spraying the place with lavender, making her food...

I don't care if that's not considered manly.
. It's caring...

Same....and our son was a preemie so he was in the NICU for 4 weeks after his birth. Had to drop my wife off at the hospital every morning before work and then pick her up. I didn't use my leave until he came home and thankfully my mother in law was in town for a couple weeks to help.

 

[Yinny]

It’s not. It is YOUR child.

 

[Tigron]

OP is basically asking if it’s unmanly to take time off work

only bytch ass nikkas take days off

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Nah it’s one of the best things you can do as a dad. Plus you get paid 70% of your salary. I stayed home for 3 months with my daughter. My wife got a chance to rest and heal and refocus on her career.

 

[Black Panther]

nikkas more concerned about being manly than being fatherly

 

[Supa cat]

nikkas is immature and ignorant. I get 5 weeks (at 5 days per week, so 25 days) of PTO a year and another 10 sick days. And while I may not use them all, its ignorant as fukk to say that if I did I would be "lazy" or some shyt. Some of these cats are remedial as fukk.

Imagine prioritizing something over bonding with your newborn child. nikkas is legit confused man. Its so fukking sad. Not using your PTO makes you a man but spending bonding time with your seed doesn't?

@sayyestothis

 

[Lord_nikon]

Basically if you a man it should be called Leave of absence




I go on paternity leave next week sounds kinda cozy i guess

imo lol

 

[Genos]

There are many brehs in here who are proud bootickers of their bosses. So you may get a lot ok no's

It's not about being manly. It's just a lame excuse lazy ppl want to use...

I had both mine on a Friday early AM and was back at work Monday

if you had a spouse that was also working then yes its unmanly, but if you were the sole breadwinner before the child then no but keep at work you will still be doing the most at nurturing a stable upbringing for the child.

let the Ma stay at home its traditional lol.

Case in point, a lot of subservient brehs here

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Men be out here scared of using pto cause they gonna think it makes them look weak. Work yourself to the bone like a idiot brehs