Do you think the internet is to blame for average dudes having extremely high standards?

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After reading all of these "kissless virgin" threads on the internet it always seems that the dudes suffering worst are the ones chasing after pornstar looking broads. After some thinking, i think the internet has a lot to do with it.

I can totally see how looking at broads like this can change your standards....
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Young brehs who broswe the internet everyday get used to looking at all of these pornstars,instagram thots,fake asses etc..that it becomes the norm in their heads. When you got average everyday chicks on his level who he could smash if he put his mind into it.

I'll admit that i post instathots,pornstars and other "models" up here all the time but those are just fanatasies, i know my limits, i know who i can obtain and who i can't.

What do yall think?
 

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Nope, from someone who had unrealistic standards well before the advent of social media, I don't think the internet really changed anything.

There will always be guys who want the top 5% of women. You don't need the internet, when you can go to school, church, the club, mall, and see women out of your league.

They may not be built exactly like Miracle Watts, but they still will be unrealistic for the common man.

Honestly, I think very few men base their standards on what they see on the internet. They base it on women they find attractive in the real world.
 

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I think people who spend their lives on the internet or engulfed in media are more prone to have unrealistic standards. If you were a social and outgoing individual, you'll learn through experience where your social wheelhouse lies. You'll know who to hit on or who to approach for greatest success. Hell if you are a socially gifted individual, you will even score outside of what most people consider your standard.

In short, guys who sit around moping, speculating, and talking about their dating prospects instead of actually actively engaging in meeting women are the only ones who have these unrealistic expectations because they fill their lives obsessing over the most available women online and in magazines who have no chance in hell dating them.
 

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You can only have standards for things that are capable, or things you have actually done.

You confuse Internet nikka standards for what they find ideal.

It would be ideal to have a perfect 10 with perfect t*ts and perfectly symmetrical lower back dimples:

That's not the standard though, most would be more than happy with an average girl who cares.
 
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Nope, from someone who had unrealistic standards well before the advent of social media, I don't think the internet really changed anything.

There will always be guys who want the top 5% of women. You don't need the internet, when you can go to school, church, the club, mall, and see women out of your league.

They may not be built exactly like Miracle Watts, but they still will be unrealistic for the common man.

Honestly, I think very few men base their standards on what they see on the internet. They base it on women they find attractive in the real world.
How old are you? :leostare:
 

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It's more women who have unrealistic standards. How many dudes are really saying theyll only date Draya or else. Men are much too horny for that. Men are happy with a chick that's drama free, not a hoe and passes the boner test. Ask men what they want in a woman, they'll say like 3-5 things. Ask women and its a list of 100 things. A dude that's that perfect doesn't want some average broad. I mean Sex and the City has tricked a generation of women into believing that a Mr. Big is waiting arounf to marry them. A 6"6 handsome confident lady killer with a high powered job and a penthouse in the city.....waiting to marry some average 30 year broad. Come on. In real life Sarah Jessica Parker's husband is Matthew Broderick. A 5"8 beta elf on the shelf that wouldn't be touching any woman without his money. A far cry from Mr. Big :heh: Yet millions of women wasting their life on the fantasy
 
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men aren't problem, women are...... you think the whores you posted have normal standards? :skip:
in high school, this chick in a passive aggressive way dump me because she thought she was "going places" and was waiting for a Chris Brown/Drake to wife her. That glo up never happen and her best days are behind her :mjlol: Now she's liking my pics on IG putting emojis under my pics
 

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Nope, from someone who had unrealistic standards well before the advent of social media, I don't think the internet really changed anything.

There will always be guys who want the top 5% of women. You don't need the internet, when you can go to school, church, the club, mall, and see women out of your league.

They may not be built exactly like Miracle Watts, but they still will be unrealistic for the common man.

Honestly, I think very few men base their standards on what they see on the internet. They base it on women they find attractive in the real world.
One thing us guys do tho is we settle when we find something we really.

Chicks have a mindset of not wanting to settle with you because her prince charming might still be out there to save her.
 

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A store has just opened in New York City that offered free husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:

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- blackierobinson
 

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Women have unrealistic standards as well, but many of them have the opportunity to have sex with men out of their league, while guys cannot.

Some of them really think they are on that level, and others just don't want to adjust to what they can get long term.

Some women would rather be an elite man's jumpoff vs. being an average man's wife.
 
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