Do you think this is disrespectful?

[Sex Luthor]

Though you're correct. She's going to second guess you now. Should've just said yep. So when she potentially entertaining the advances of other men you can't get mad because she's going to bring this up. Classic case of putting your foot in your mouth.

If she's entertaining other men I wouldn't want her anymore which would make me just saying yep a lie. I'm not going to base my relationship on a lie. What's the point of that?

It's just like a job. If you have money and still work there it's bc you want to be there. You go there with love for the job in your heart. If you need the job, you only go bc you have to. Most of the time you don't want to be there. Why live like that?

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

If she's entertaining other men I wouldn't want her anymore which would make me just saying yep a lie. I'm not going to base my relationship on a lie. What's the point of that?

It's just like a job. If you have money and still work there it's bc you want to be there. You go there with love for the job in your heart. If you need the job, you only go bc you have to. Most of the time you don't want to be there. Why live like that?

I'm with you brotha...people always talk about being honest but then they want to get selective. You hit her with the truth and that doesn't mean you don't love her but you respect and even love her more than she may realize because you are 100% with her. A lot of people can't handle the truth and then want to say mean things as a way to get back at the person....thats childish

I Respect the realness

If you can't be 100 with your partner than its a waste of time imo

 

[old pig]

If she's entertaining other men I wouldn't want her anymore which would make me just saying yep a lie. I'm not going to base my relationship on a lie. What's the point of that?

It's just like a job. If you have money and still work there it's bc you want to be there. You go there with love for the job in your heart. If you need the job, you only go bc you have to. Most of the time you don't want to be there. Why live like that?

OT but I didn’t realize how much I disliked my job until I didn’t need it…spot on analogy

 

[Ashley Banks]

that’s over the top but hilarious af !!!!!!!

A little dramatic but I would feel like a man that told me he doesn’t need me and doesn’t care about losing me would NOT protect me if it came down to it. I’m clearly of no importance to him, he just likes me around for now but it goes no further than that.

Also y’all get on women for not letting a man lead them or not being submissive but y’all are literally telling them they’re not a priority for you so who wouldn’t be reluctant to be submissive to or be led by a man like that.

 

[old pig]

A little dramatic but I would feel like a man that told me he doesn’t need me and doesn’t care about losing me would NOT protect me if it came down to it. I’m clearly of no importance to him, he just likes me around for now but it goes no further than that.

Also y’all get on women for not letting a man lead them or not being submissive but y’all are literally telling them they’re not a priority for you so who wouldn’t be reluctant to be submissive to or be led by a man like that.

can I dap half a post lol?

the bold makes sense to me

“priority” and “need” aren’t necessarily synonymous

 

[colicolicoli]

You sound annoying as fukk.

 

[Maddmike]

I've been married for 15 years and my wife knows I wouldn't care if she left

 

[WaveWhisperer]

A little dramatic but I would feel like a man that told me he doesn’t need me and doesn’t care about losing me would NOT protect me if it came down to it. I’m clearly of no importance to him, he just likes me around for now but it goes no further than that.

Also y’all get on women for not letting a man lead them or not being submissive but y’all are literally telling them they’re not a priority for you so who wouldn’t be reluctant to be submissive to or be led by a man like that.

he didnt say he didnt care for her he just said he didnt need her. And i dont think just because he said he didnt need her dont mean he wouldnt protect her

 

[Ashley Banks]

can I dap half a post lol?

the bold makes sense to me

“priority” and “need” aren’t necessarily synonymous

Not the need part it’s the not afraid of losing you part. How is someone a priority but you don’t care if you lose them?

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

I've been married for 15 years and my wife knows I wouldn't care if she left

How miserable are y'all

 

[Ashley Banks]

he didnt say he didnt care for her he just said he didnt need her. And i dont think just because he said he didnt need her dont mean he wouldnt protect her

He also said he isn’t afraid to lose her, how are you not afraid of losing someone you care for? How can I trust someone to proceed me and love me if they tell me they dont need me and they’re not afraid of losing me and life will go on without me. Like damn, do you even like me.

 

[Ashley Banks]

How miserable are y'all

Right like he hasn’t heard from his wife in a week and he’s just like

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You said the quiet part out loud, breh.

Women need to feel cherished. Like they actually need to believe they are the best thing to ever happen to us for some reason.

Anyway, it doesn't sound like you fukked up because as you said, you don't care whether she leaves or stays.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Right like he hasn’t heard from his wife in a week and he’s just like

 

[Maddmike]

How miserable are y'all

Actually we have a wonderful marriage.

The way I feel is how I feel about everyone. Even my mother. Being without someone and them not being in my life isn't something that bothers me.


Edit: I take that back. My kids are the only ones.