Does anybody feel like most dating advice is made to keep people single?

[The ADD]

The problem with advice is that it’s usually devoid of context and then the person taking the advice doesn’t use common sense relative to their situation

 

[Shang Tsung]

Everyone is jumping on the redpill/dating or true crime podcast game

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

Y'all don't have family members in successful relationships to learn from? Serious question.

People have unfounded expectations and nit pick every thing in a union that they wouldn't do

despite the fact they don't even cut they elf or a potential partner slack to get to the first date

 

[Reflected]

Could be, or it could also be that most people just don't know what the fukk they are talking about.

A likeliness of stupidity over malice situation.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Could be, or it could also be that most people just don't know what the fukk they are talking about.

A likeliness of stupidity over malice situation.

People know what they’re doing stop blaming ignorance.

 

[Reflected]

People know what they’re doing stop blaming ignorance.

It's Hanlon's razor.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

It's Hanlon's razor.

Don’t care what you’re intellectual coping mechanisms are. People know what they are doing.

 

[Reflected]

Don’t care what you’re intellectual coping mechanisms are. People know what they are doing.

Ah, so you can't be reasoned with? Enjoy the block.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Ah, so you can't be reasoned with? Enjoy the block.

Like I said coping mechanism. See something you don’t like block it out.

 

[Wildhundreds]

People have unfounded expectations and nit pick every thing in a union that they wouldn't do

despite the fact they don't even cut they elf or a potential partner slack to get to the first date

Relationships is a game of reasonable compromise. Everyone who finds a mate they like will ultimately play the game.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Relationships is a game of reasonable compromise. Everyone who finds a mate they like will ultimately play the game.

Are you married?

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Everyone is jumping on the redpill/dating or true crime podcast game

Cause single people have more disposable income.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Are you married?

Yes.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

2 problems.

1. They don't separate dating advice from people who are simply looking to sleep around and get as many digits as possible. The approach is different depending on if you are looking for a serious relationship or just trying to smash.

2. It starts with honest self reflection and understanding where you fall in the market. Advice varies based on the category you fall on. An average breh trying to use advice that works for high value men will fail. Average women thinking they can get away with what dime pieces can will fail also.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

a lot of popular dating advice seems to come from a place of "me, me, i, myself" which doesn't translate well in a relationship scenario