Does anybody feel like most dating advice is made to keep people single?

[The ADD]

a lot of popular dating advice seems to come from a place of "me, me, i, myself" which doesn't translate well in a relationship scenario

A lot of it is intended to give one side the best outcome and negelects that two people are involved.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

A lot of it is intended to give one side the best outcome and negelects that two people are involved.

i look at dating as fun, nice and easy. idk how people can take it as the opportunity to determine who has the higher value, who brings what to the table, who holds the control, what can i "get" from this person even though i know they aren't the one i want to be with, etc. who would want to be involved in that?

 

[Koli_Kat]

Well duh. How are you going to come back for more dating advice and keep the business going if you're happily married?

 

[The ADD]

i look at dating as fun, nice and easy. idk how people can take it as the opportunity to determine who has the higher value, who brings what to the table, who holds the control, what can i "get" from this person even though i know they aren't the one i want to be with, etc. who would want to be involved in that?

Yep. Hard to even call it “dating”

 

[Wildhundreds]

a lot of popular dating advice seems to come from a place of "me, me, i, myself" which doesn't translate well in a relationship scenario

Thats because people seeking advice aren't completely honest about their relationship situation.

 

[Thanos]

You getting advice from people who they early 20s and down, who haven't experienced good friendships/good relationships.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Everyone is jumping on the redpill/dating or true crime podcast game

None of those folks are actually out here dating/or attempting to meet people

The viewers and the content creators both
just sit home and watch countless videos on dating

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