Does anyone feel weird when they let their woman pay for her own stuff?

[Mr swag]

Why would you? Smh

 

[West Coast Avenger]

....fukk no!!!.....

 

[Colicat]

Me and broke nikkas we don't get along

 

[Ron Fox]

Feeling like a pimp/Mack is weird to simps/squares.

 

[Mr. Negative]

you don't feel bad about her doing it.


you fee bad about how others see you for letting her do it.

 

[AB Ziggy]

My husband loves that shyt.

At restaurants when the waiter/ess brings the bill and puts it down in front of him he happily slides it my way.

Mostly because when he gets paid 90% of it goes to me anyway. Lol

Child support payments huh

 

[Mowgli]

I was out with my gf and she bought some jeans, and she paid for them herself. She didn't expect me to pay, but I still felt weird about it because I felt like I should, not because it's my duty but moreso societal expectations. I usually let her pay for shyt that benefit her, and anything mutual I pay for. Like for example I went to get an oil change and she needed some windshield wipers and she paid for them. But if i suggest something for I I'll get it.

Anyone else feel weird in these situations?

What kind of man has a woman that has a job but still decides to pay for everything. Makes no gat damn sense. If your worth to your woman is only measured in what you buy you have a hoe for a wife.

 

[Yesterday]

you don't feel bad about her doing it.


you fee bad about how others see you for letting her do it.

Not even going to lie It's a combination of both. My GF still has professional football players hitting her up from college and all kinds of rich nuccas who could easily fund a lifestyle I couldn't, but I;m also not one to measure my own manhood in solely providing for a woman, let alone one not my wife. My mother always instilled not to cake on women and to have self worth.

So it's a little insecurity when out and having a very attractive woman pay for her own stuff, when I know people who see us think she's likely the house wife of a rich man.

 

[Yesterday]

you don't feel bad about her doing it.


you fee bad about how others see you for letting her do it.

Not even going to lie It's a combination of both. My GF still has professional football players hitting her up from college and all kinds of rich nuccas who could easily fund a lifestyle I couldn't, but I;m also not one to measure my own manhood in solely providing for a woman, let alone one not my wife. My mother always instilled not to cake on women and to have self worth.

So it's a little insecurity when out and having a very attractive woman pay for her own stuff, when I know people who see us think she's likely the house wife of a rich man.

if she was basic I wouldn't gaf

 

[Sauce Dab]

Nope if anything she should've felt obligated to buy you something since y'all were in the store together

Right feminists?

 

[TheIsleofMan]

Gotta spend some cash on your main. Gotta make her feel like she's special. She'll respect it more. If you don't care about her, don't. bytches be watching

 

[TRUEST]

I was out with my gf and she bought some jeans, and she paid for them herself. She didn't expect me to pay, but I still felt weird about it because I felt like I should, not because it's my duty but moreso societal expectations. I usually let her pay for shyt that benefit her, and anything mutual I pay for. Like for example I went to get an oil change and she needed some windshield wipers and she paid for them. But if i suggest something for I I'll get it.

Anyone else feel weird in these situations?

yeah. i feel weird too. but depending on the woman, i dont mind paying. if its a chick that thinks just because she looks good everyone should kiss her ass, yeah, she's paying for everything. if its one of those nurturing women that like to take care of their man...i.e. cooking, always at his beck and call, yeah, i'll reward her with whatever she wants really, if its within my ability to do so.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

No. I manage and pay all of the bills so he just gives me his check for those purposes.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Lol no

 

[KOOL-AID]

Depends on the mood but 50/50 is where its at