Does anyone here do good deeds and stuff?

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oh snap! :salute: i wish i had something like that when i was growing up. the streets can be rough. are they girls or boys or is it mixed?

Initially, it wasn't mixed. The parents were skeptical having a 21-22 yr around their daughters. I'm 25 now. That has changed. My only job was to show and prove. But, I've been apart of it since I was 15 (in the program), been mentoring for almost 5 yrs now. Started out in a program called the Black Male Institute in my middle school which influenced me to what I'm doing now. There are other elders that offer different classes on different topics...whether it be health, history, science, civics..etc I mainly focus on civics, law and some history trying to get their mind away from what's outside and interested more into studying and becoming productive in life and to their community. I spend the first 1 1/2 talking about the lesson plan and the other 1 hour just building with them.

The main thing I tell folks is to love what you do and don't expect anything but the enjoyment and fulfillment it brings to you.
 

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On the coli? Just get an alias account and start over.

On life? Try to make reparations to the people you screwed over. Apologize, even if they don't forgive you, it's still your duty to apologize. You know what you did wrong. Don't do it again.

I could say more, but not sure if trolling and don't want to waste my time.
Don't listen to her, she's 18 and she doesn't know shyt. fukk that if they got screwed, then they deserved it.

Anyways just help people out.
I mean shyt when I'm at the library studying and someone next to me leaves to go wherever and they left their laptop there like an idiot and didn't ask me or anyone else to watch it(school library notorious for stealing shyt) I make sure I watch it, shyt even when I'm bout to leave I make sure I take my time(as I can depends if I have to take the train) so it gives the person enough time to come back.

If u can, go volunteer.
 

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:wtf: is this one for? i'm trying to do better.

Initially, it wasn't mixed. The parents were skeptical having a 21-22 yr around their daughters. I'm 25 now. That has changed. My only job was to show and prove. But, I've been apart of it since I was 15 (in the program), been mentoring for almost 5 yrs now. Started out in a program called the Black Male Institute in my middle school which influenced me to what I'm doing now. There are other elders that offer different classes on different topics...whether it be health, history, science, civics..etc I mainly focus on civics, law and some history trying to get their mind away from what's outside and interested more into studying and becoming productive in life and to their community. I spend the first 1 1/2 talking about the lesson plan and the other 1 hour just building with them.

The main thing I tell folks is to love what you do and don't expect anything but the enjoyment and fulfillment it brings to you.

but the only thing that fulfills me is feeling superior to handicapped people and women. i'm hoping that by putting myself in various situations that i'll be able to kind of force my heart to realize the true power of love.
 

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:wtf: is this one for? i'm trying to do better.



but the only thing that fulfills me is feeling superior to handicapped people and women. i'm hoping that by putting myself in various situations that i'll be able to kind of force my heart to realize the true power of love.

Sounds like you are depress. You cannot buy love. Love is learned.

The reason I'm saying that, because I'm in the same boat. I do so much for the people around me and it gives me a high you wouldn't believe. But, when I stare at the reflection in the mirror, I see greatness in myself, but I also see someone who's empty. You often ask yourself is that same love reciprocated.
 

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Sounds like you are depress. You cannot buy love. Love is learned.

The reason I'm saying that, because I'm in the same boat. I do so much for the people around me and it gives me a high you wouldn't believe. But, when I stare at the reflection in the mirror, I see greatness in myself, but I also see someone who's empty. You often ask yourself is that same love reciprocated.

:sadbron: you hit the nail on the head. damn, i need a moment. not even the pictures of kids with down syndrome and progeria that i have open in another tab (and have been laughing at consistently for the past 45 minutes) can take my mind off the knowledge you just dropped right here, breh.

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and the irony is that i'll never know joy like this until i face down that man in the mirror.
 

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Don't listen to her, she's 18 and she doesn't know shyt. fukk that if they got screwed, then they deserved it.

Anyways just help people out.
I mean shyt when I'm at the library studying and someone next to me leaves to go wherever and they left their laptop there like an idiot and didn't ask me or anyone else to watch it(school library notorious for stealing shyt) I make sure I watch it, shyt even when I'm bout to leave I make sure I take my time(as I can depends if I have to take the train) so it gives the person enough time to come back.

If u can, go volunteer.

Yes, because as people grow older and wiser, they learn that owning up to their mistakes and apologizing for them is a bad thing. :stopitslime:
 

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Do you need me to spell it out? I told him to apologize. You said I was too young to know shyt and to fukk the people he screwed over. I sarcastically attempted to bring your attention to the fact that as people mature, they tend to learn to apologize.
 

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Do you need me to spell it out? I told him to apologize. You said I was too young to know shyt and to fukk the people he screwed over. I sarcastically attempted to bring your attention to the fact that as people mature, they tend to learn to apologize.
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So now you're the big strong learned elder patting the little girl condescendingly on the head?

Wisdom only works if you actually show it. I had a point, you said nothing to counteract my point besides ''I'm older, hence I know better''. Now spare me your bullshyt.

EDIT: I'm not even going to waste another post on this condescending, deliberately obtuse man. Let it just be said that he's what, twenty-something? Most 40-year-olds and 50-year-olds would tell you there's nothing wrong with apologizing.
 
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So now you're the big strong learned elder patting the little girl condescendingly on the head?

Wisdom only works if you actually show it. I had a point, you said nothing to counteract my point beside ''I'm older, hence I know better''.
Exactly! I'm happy we was able to come to an agreement.
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