Does she have a point?

[DEANBIGBROTHERALLMIGHTY18]

Every man should want to have children. That’s literally why we exists.

Exactly. Everything that you do in life whether directly or indirectly helps facilitate or take away from this process.

 

[Roger king]

Hoe babble nonsense.

 

[Diondon]

Where her OF leaks?

 

[F*ckthemkids]

 

[13473]

Since when is a man with no kids considered dl?


I can name plenty of childless men that nobody think of as DL. Those same men also went on to do great things of humanity. You gotta hang around ignorant to hear that.

American Women starting families with any man, let alone a foreign man is dangerous. They don't know what foreign dudes are capable of and foreign are more often way stricter on women. It's not easy for women to find a good husband and father, otherwise there wouldn't be many single mothers.

after a certain age people start to wonder why u haven't settled down n started a family

it depends on the type of american woman. there are a lot of conservative women.

 

[Contrefaire]

not really, you can always just date younger...which is a concept a lot of people get pissed about. For some reason people want you to be stuck between dating people with kids and being miserable. The obvious alternatives cheat the imaginary system they have in their heads.

Eh... I think this mentality could also be a part of what she's talking about. In the past yeah (some) men could afford to put children and marriage off until their late 30s or even 40s and just "date younger" when they were ready to settle down but times have changed and a lot of younger women are no longer buying into the bullshyt that older man automatically = wise savior or marriage material. When and if they DO date older men it's often just a stopgap. They're not trying to marry these oldheads let alone have their kids, they just want to go on 'Instagramable' dates with "mature" nikkas who are willing to pay for their dinners, excursions and lifestyles.

The reality is there are a lot of men who believed the lie that once they turned 35+ and finally hit their stride there'd be a long line of 22yr olds with daddy issues begging to date, fukk and marry them and that's just not been the case.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

Eh... I think this mentality could also be a part of what she's talking about. In the past yeah (some) men could afford to put children and marriage off until their late 30s or even 40s and just "date younger" when they were ready to settle down but times have changed and a lot of younger women are no longer buying into the bullshyt that older man automatically = wise savior or marriage material. When and if they DO date older men it's often just a stopgap. They're not trying to marry these oldheads let alone have their kids, they just want to go on 'Instagramable' dates with "mature" nikkas who are willing to pay for their dinners, excursions and lifestyles.

The reality is there are a lot of men who believed the lie that once they turned 35+ and finally hit their stride there'd be a long line of 22yr olds with daddy issues begging to date, fukk and marry them and that's just not been the case.

everything you said can be applied to older women as well, in fact a lot of older women were the same 22yr olds you described and a now the same 30/40yr olds. Just because she's older and has a kid doesn't mean she's more likely to love you or less likely to manipulate you. Maybe she's just using you for 'Instagramable' dates, maybe she's just looking for someone to help her raise her kids in a struggling economy.

A lot of dudes buy into the logic women use in the dating scene, and the "sad faces" they put on to make you think they're being altruistic in their concern. Forgetting these women typically have an agenda, and conveniently have something to gain from limiting your view on dating. I'm just saying, old women typically complain about men not dating old women. Fat women typically complain about men not dating fat women. Women with kids typically complain about men not dating women with kids. It's convenient that they're always complaining about something that coincidentally applies to them.


I'm not saying you can't date older women with kids, I'm saying use your best judgement and explore your options.