Does the amount of time a woman takes to let a dude smash really matter?

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Bad example. His mother knew he had problems. And he was extremely introverted to the point he never talked to people. There were signs. Obviously not that he would shoot up a school but people knew he had issues.

You're trying to say I can't even trust one of my friends over a random person on the street? I'm assuming either you don't talk to people or you don't ever make the effort to get to know anyone. Its easy to pick up on crazy once you start looking for the signs.
Everyone has issues. Everyone is a genius in hindsight. The signs are always there and always so clear after something happens. She probably had no idea he was capable of murdering her because if she did she'd likely be alive right now. This is a woman that raised him and she really didn't know him deep down. All she ever knew is what he allowed her to see.

It's your decision to trust whoever but your friends, you only know what they expose you to be it accidentally or intentional.
 
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Everyone has issues. Everyone is a genius in hindsight. The signs are always there and always so clear after something happens. She probably had no idea he was capable of murdering her because if she did she'd likely be alive right now. This is a woman that raised him and she really didn't know him deep down. All she ever knew is what he allowed her to see.

It's your decision to trust whoever but your friends, you only know what they expose you to be it accidentally or intentional.

Most of us have established a level of trust with certain people. You'd let your friend borrow your car right? Would you let some guy you met on the street do the same?
 

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probably been said...

but nikkas dont even realize..a girl can make you wait three months, all the while letting a different man she met three months ago hit in the meantime :manny:
 

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it really depends what your goal is.

as far as if a guy will wife a chick or not, the amount of time really doesn't matter that much. A guy will wife a chick if he likes her. "Likability" is the most important factor when it comes to making a chick your girl. If i sleep with you on the first date and i like you like that, i'll probably want you to be my girl. If i don't like you that much, no matter how much time you make dude wait, he'll still put you in the jumpoff category or just throw you in the bushes.

however, say for example, i meet this girl and i don't like her to the point of making her my girl but i am sexually attracted to her. If she likes me like that, then it would be in her best interest to find a way to make me like her like that before sleeping with me. but the problem is that most girls make the dude wait but don't use that time to make the guy like them. they just use it to try to get more attention/gifts/dates (but it's mostly for the attention). then once they sleep with the guy, the guy resents them even more for everything he had to go through.


most girls play the game backwards and that's why they end up losing. They make a dude wait until she falls for him and then sleep with him hoping he feels the same way and after that they feel like they're owed something. If they want a relationship with the guy, then they should make him wait until he falls for her. not the other way around.

Let's keep this hidden truth in this forum tho :shaq:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/61848-soon-i-bust-my-nuts-i-give-zero-fukks-about-girl-2.html
Youre making it worse on yourself. All you do is make a nikka fiend and annoyed more. There is no benefit believe us.

It switches from, "I like this girl and want to have sex because she arouses me " to "what the fukk is wrong with this girl? fukk it, I invested all this time and effort, so I'll be damned if I dont hit."

Thats when the lies and fake affection may come.

The dude hits, and he got what he wanted....to increase the body count so he leaves. Dude may even leave out of spite because you made him wait.

You women really have fairy tales in your mind eh?


they still dont hear us :wow:
 

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They don't hear us because they are looking for a "rule" or a "formula". They want to be able to say "well if i wait X amount of time and then sleep with him, then he HAS to want to wife me or else HE's the a$$hole and it's not my fault." They want a rule that can help them avoid thought and self-improvement.

See what we're kicking to these girls on here they don't want to hear because suddenly it puts them in a position where maybe they didn't get wifed because they're not that likable. it forces them to be more introspective and put in more work (but for higher rewards!). They'd rather stay stabbing in the dark hoping and praying happiness falls in their lap and if it doesn't, it's the many guys' fault for "using them". it's their dad's fault for not being there. it's society's fault for keeping them down. But never their own fault for not taking charge of their destiny.

The amount of time a woman takes to sleep with a dude doesn't directly matter when it comes to her getting wifed. Timing however is crucial. It's like a time window. If they sleep with the dude before or afterwards, they're in trouble because that's when we don't like you. You should sleep with us while we really like you.
 

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the amount of times doesn't really matter. its really whether or not u actually like the person. I smashed my old lady on the 3rd meeting. didn't matter that that was within a week. and that was like 10 years ago and what not.
 
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