Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?

[Coco Loco]

Attachments isn't the same as love though. I had a dog I was very attached to but still gave him away when I had to.

The problem with men is you think by getting someone young you can shelter her and keep her away from other men. That is not the case at all. People grow up. Just because you get her at 20 doesn't mean she's gonna be the same person at 25.

30, 38 might be a bit more passable but it's still 2 different generations.

This is what a lot of them don't realize or haven't even thought about, some may not even care. They think she's young and I can mold her into what I want but even within that molding, she's going to mature and grow into who she wants to be. Rarely, who she matures into and who he wants form into the same person. It's like they get off on having all the power and control but how long will that last?

 

[murksiderock]

This is what a lot of them don't realize or haven't even thought about, some may not even care. They think she's young and I can mold her into what I want but even within that molding, she's going to mature and grow into who she wants to be. Rarely, who she matures into and who he wants form into the same person. It's like they get off on having all the power and control but how long will that last?

On top of that, I never got into molding or controlling women. Not my style at all, I want you to be who you are and if that organically works for us, all the better. If it doesn't, it just wasn't meant for us...

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

My man is about to be 21, im going to be 30.. even though hes younger, we have and understanding of the roles each of us are supposed to be playing. hes still the “elder” im in subjection to in terms of how i treat him

and its because he asserted it in the beginning.. he wasnt on no “we equals” bullshyt. i submit to him but that doesnt mean he walks all over me.. he submits in his life and our relationship, as well, but in a different way.

its hard at times, im not going to lie. i wont sit here and lie and say its easy to submit cause its not because how my mother is and things i learned from her, my ego and getting in my feelings but its fullfilling

its still presesent in many cultures mostly ones that have some spirituality or still believe in traditional roles that are rooted biblically.. Sarah was calling her husband, Abraham ‘Lord’ out of respect to show her reverence to him.

Damn you got the idea down pact. Please please PLEASE can you talk to my hard headed ass girlfriend?

 

[truth2you]

It depends. If the guy is just a 9-5 guy who just goes to work, looks older, and maybe hang out sometimes, then it does look weird

If the guy has money(not necessarily rich), is in tuned with what's new & happening while still maintaining his wisdom he should have gained over the years, then as the man you would be admired, and she would be seen as lucky for having you

Chicks say they don't want an older guy for something more then a sugar daddy, but that is just talk, once she gets good dikk, and a nice lifestyle, she is choosing heavy! Most women are not that complex, they want security, good conversation, fun, and some good sex, as long as you don't look like her daddy she could care less about your age.

How you look is very important to them, so you young guys better make working out, handling your finances, and being as stress free as possible, your goals. If you do you will ALWAYS have options! I'm telling you from firsthand experience, ALL ages want you(no one under 21, though, we gotta be able to drink legally). Just don't tell them your real age until you dikk them down. That is, if you have good dingaling

 

[QuintessentialBM]

I'm in a new relationship.... I'm 36, chick is 26.

She chose

No further comment at this time!

 

[Gunz&Butta]

Foreign gang taking no losses. Westerners got so many things backwards.

 

[MikeOck]

Truth of the matter is the cheat code to a long lasting relationship is for a financially well off man to hook up with a woman with a body count that's less than 3. That meant older men hooking up with women below 25 like Jay did to Bey. Unfortunately in this smartphone feminist age women got too many options, so the hot ones probably cross the 3 body count by 20 years old.

 

[MikeOck]

It depends. If the guy is just a 9-5 guy who just goes to work, looks older, and maybe hang out sometimes, then it does look weird

If the guy has money(not necessarily rich), is in tuned with what's new & happening while still maintaining his wisdom he should have gained over the years, then as the man you would be admired, and she would be seen as lucky for having you

Chicks say they don't want an older guy for something more then a sugar daddy, but that is just talk, once she gets good dikk, and a nice lifestyle, she is choosing heavy! Most women are not that complex, they want security, good conversation, fun, and some good sex, as long as you don't look like her daddy she could care less about your age.

How you look is very important to them, so you young guys better make working out, handling your finances, and being as stress free as possible, your goals. If you do you will ALWAYS have options! I'm telling you from firsthand experience, ALL ages want you(no one under 21, though, we gotta be able to drink legally). Just don't tell them your real age until you dikk them down. That is, if you have good dingaling

While this is true, let's be real, it's less than 10% of men who can stay fit past 40. Even most athletes get flabby and sick in their 40s and 50s. For me once my bones give out and I can't push the weights, I'm going back into skinny territory. Skinny is the best look for older people.

 

[Sniper]

It works if two people want it to work the same as it’ll work with people the same age.

Every couple has different issues. There’s no one blanket statement to apply to every type of relationship.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

not in this generation of young women being raised as “independent” who “dont need a man” feminists..

you have a few types of women fresh out of or in college these days

a. the independent combative feminist

b. the girl with tons of debt, struggling, using men for meals, with cash app links in her bios

c. this can be the same one as b but taking it further will date an older men for financial reasons but doesnt respect him, has no loyalty and is smashing a less financially stable dude on the side because he “excites her” and the finanically stable shes with is “boring”

d. the girl who cries about not being able to find a nice guy but when one shows interest she pushes him away because her idea of a nice guy is one thatll let her pall into a pit due to her bullshyt, she believes a “nice guy” is only one that will buy her flowers and be a gentleman.. she doesnt want the other aspects of a relationship with a nice guy, only one that feeds her ego

Read this and I was like "This dude more or less gets it, there's another category 2 'normal, down to earth girls focused on their grind and not obsessed with their relationship status, but loyal when they meet the right dude who doesn't need to be a total jerk but has to have something a little edgy (a backbone)"

Looked at the avi, thought "who the breh?"

BISCUITSNBANGERS

 

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[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I've seen all combinations work.
Older men/younger women
Older women/younger men
Same age male and female

It really depends on the personalities of the people getting together.
I've also seen all combinations crash and burn.

I will say whichever partner is older has to be more realistic about why their significant other is with them. It's a lot of older people getting straight played.

I know chicks dating old dudes with entire boyfriends...old dudes literally spending his pie crust check on his chick and her skinny jean wearing, Dorito eating, boyfriend with a PSN gamertag named "BigFeetLilMeat".
I also know some cougars getting fooled out of their bra money by some young bucks too.

True stories.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

See u talk some good, real shyt...
But u gotta see things from another perspective....
It ain't really about looks when it comes to women, right? Its means alot but it ain't as big of deal as it is for men...
U could have the coolest energy in the world but if u an ugly fat bytch...nikka ain't gonna be checking for u.
Like u said, a older bro is an older bro...
my hairline ain't exactly in the same position as it was back in my better days...
But for every millimeter my line-up went back lmao...
My confidence and swagger went up 1000%
And I think women, at all ages digg confidence damn near more than they do looks.
Now I would usually call bullshyt on a theory like that, but this gets proven everyday by me ..
I'm a 37yrs old.. could probably pass for late 20s...
Ppl are obviously surprised at my real age.
But I work around a bunch of young dudes.. actually mid 20s...
And they all know if a new young girl come to the job who she is going to wanna talk to...
I believe that women really just luv a real man...
This is what my young girls tell me... even tho I know my "Real man confidence, grown man money, and hairline issues" is competing a against "young man looks, swag, energy" and them having certain things in common...
At the end of the day, I like competing on this level... hopefully that doesn't sound cocky... cause I know my flaws..
But me just settling down with a 37-45yr old single mother, was something that when I thought about it....didnt sit right with me

I see. Can’t argue with that. If it’s working for you, I see no reason to judge it. It is true that there are other factors that contribute to attraction for women. As much I talk shyt on here about older men’s looks, to be honest, there are other components that tend to matter much more to me, so your right.

 

[King Poetic]

Some do/Some don’t

Please don’t base shyt off a celebrity or tv

You’ll be amaze by the number of smart young chicks compared to older broads out here

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I should send you a couple of pictures.

Okay.