Does the Older Man/Younger Woman Relationship Actually Work?

[Sterling Archer]

Sex is the easy part. It’s all the other shyt. When I would go out with younger chicks they’d complain about the music in my car. I ain’t trying to hear no NBA Youngboy

Complain about me not being on social media. Complain becuz i no longer can live off 5 hours of sleep anymore. Complain becuz I wasn’t trying to spend mad time on the phone talking about a bunch of nothing.

Spot on. The key is for the woman to be mature. People can crack jokes about maturity like dudes are talking about teenagers and shyt but the fact is if you are in your 20s, your maturity level should already be that of a 30-something year old, otherwise you are adulting wrong.

 

[-deleted-]

Okay. You know I don't really care about all this shyt. I see you though breh.



But I'm not trying to talk about all that right now. How are you breh? Good morning so far?

Great morning. No work today, got to sleep in. Body aches from all the work I been putting it through but nothing I can’t handle ​

 

[Youngblood Priest]

It's not weird. Age difference is a only wires if they're still in their teens and a nikka 30+

 

[Mac Brown]

Sex is the easy part. It’s all the other shyt. When I would go out with younger chicks they’d complain about the music in my car. I ain’t trying to hear no NBA Youngboy

Complain about me not being on social media. Complain becuz i no longer can live off 5 hours of sleep anymore. Complain becuz I wasn’t trying to spend mad time on the phone talking about a bunch of nothing.

Man you need to make a thread about your dating adventures after divorce. Sounds like you got some stories of fukkery.

Of course keep it general cuz its a small world.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Rabbits are not telling lions how to kill them. Remember that.

Isn't that because Rabbits can't talk to lions though... Rabbits might not be able to tell a lion how to kill them, but if a rabbit could talk, I bet that Rabbit would have some good insight for that lion on the fastest and "easiest" way to kill it without all the fuss. That rabbit knows it's weakness, might even teach the lion a thing or two. But I see you. Lowkey all these "coli gems" your trying to drop for the fellas is turning me on.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Great morning. No work today, got to sleep in. Body aches from all the work I been putting it through but nothing I can’t handle ​

Muy Thai last night?

 

[-deleted-]

Isn't that because Rabbits can't talk to lions though... Rabbits might not be able to tell a lion how to kill them, but if a rabbit could talk, I bet that Rabbit would have some good insight for that lion on the fastest and "easiest" way to kill it without all the fuss. That rabbit knows it's weakness, might even teach the lion a thing or two. But I see you. Lowkey all these "coli gems" your trying to drop for the fellas is turning me on.

If rabbits could talk a lot might be on that because they know which continent has the most lions

 

[mag357]

Ok... I dnt want to make this long but I have alot of personal insight on this...
I've dated older my entire life... like maybe in my mid 20's I was wide 30's and 40's...
That's always been my preference...
They know how to treat a man. And they have good calm energy. I've always been a calm person, so even since I was young. I've luvd that about them.
But After awhile I started to see the same issues...
Either they dont want more kids, cant have kids, been thru abusive relationships, cheaters, broke niggsz etc...
All those experiences stay with them and the scars the come with those are hard to heal....
And also, breaking thru all the relationship tendencies shes learned with other men is also an issue..
So I had an epiphany.... "I should date younger females "
Been doing that for like the last 3yrs
I usually stayed around the 22-26yr range...
I did have a few 18-20s
So what I learned... and this is the most important thing,... I was willing to put up with alil more bullshyt with younger females than I would with older. And they both have their bullshyt... just different type of bullshyt.
Younger females have a billion more options, which makes the game harder...
I would equate dealing with older women like the D league... (I know ppl will debate this) but these women are usually ready to settle. They know they dont have alot of options left (even tho they try to lie to themselves)
Younger females have the world at their fingertips... ur competing against a bigger field of dudes... younger guys and older guys with bread... trying to snatch this girl up early.
That's tough competition...
It's also difficult cause these younger chix are growing up in a world that's filling their head with a bunch of feminists bullshyt.
In conclusion...
It depends on what ur life is already like as a man on what u should go for... if u already have kids and are looking more for stability, and dont care about molding someone... u want someone already pre-packaged and ready to go...
Obviously, get u an older woman.
But if u care about experiencing things for the 1st time with someone, growing with each other, being able to mold someone to fit u specifically...
Fertile and keeps u filled with energy... and doesn't have a unhappy energy...
Go younger

 

[murksiderock]

I think an age gap of 10 years or more is probably not the best idea

Knowing what I know about women, if I were a guy I'd probably avoid women 8+ years younger.

I would avoid anything younger than five years. Youngest women I dated, was when I was 24 she was 18, and when I was 26 she was 19. Absolutely never again, woman I'm with now is pushing it, turned 25 three days ago and I'll be 30 in June. She has matured some but I don't know if I'll even go this low again lol...

Some of the shyt @Deacon Frye mentioned is relatable. She fuss about me being tired, always wanting to argue dumb shyt and needing shyt broken down to her in the most specific ways. Later for all that shyt lol...

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I still don't believe 35 is old old.

If he's not flabby n sick why can't he fukk her for free?

What I meant was if a dude is gonna pay he might as well go to different women instead of taking care of one who's playing him and have a gf around his age.

Just giving a girl money to be with you is sad.

I have not yet met a man in his mid thirties that I'm attracted to. But constantly see and meet men under 30 that I am attracted to. I be forgetting that I'm as old as I am, sometimes, because I cringe when older men approach me, because I don't find them physically attractive the way I do younger men. Like I've said before, younger is usually physically better, and that doesn't just go for women. The average middle age man looks like it. Women are visual creatures too, the type of men we're attracted to and aroused by, are typically not men that aren't at their physical best. A young 20 something woman is not as likely to be attracted or aroused by a middle age man--but again, a lot of these men realize that. They're okay with providing resources, and she's okay with sleeping with him= even exchange.

 

[Ezus Jezus]

I’m 36. My lady is 24. She’s not American tho. Her parents basically trained her to be a wife. She’s incredibly sweet and submissive. Yes I deal with the usual young girl shyt, but overall we work.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

If rabbits could talk a lot might be on that because they know which continent has the most lions

i'm having a slow ditzy moment right now, explain what you mean.

 

[Balla]

Where the fukk do you live where nikkas @ 35 look old as shyt????



There's no way most dudes you see that age are so flabby and sick.

They must be drinking and are fat as hell because I refuse to believe that they are that way because they're 35.

So if he's in shape you'll let a man 35 and above hit 4 free??

I have not yet met a man in his mid thirties that I'm attracted to. But constantly see and meet men under 30 that I am attracted to. I be forgetting that I'm as old as I am, sometimes, because I cringe when older men approach me, because I don't find them physically attractive the way I do younger men. Like I've said before, younger is usually physically better, and that doesn't just go for women. The average middle age man looks like it. Women are visual creatures too, the type of men we're attracted to and aroused by, are typically not men that aren't at their physical best. A young 20 something woman is not as likely to be attracted or aroused by a middle age man--but again, a lot of these men realize that. They're okay with providing resources, and she's okay with sleeping with him= even exchange.

 

[LunaticVillage415]

I think it depends on a lot of things. Some dudes are legit old by the time they're 35, completely bald or extreme gray hairs on head and face, wrinkles everywhere, fat as fukk hella flabby and sick. While other dudes can literally be 50 years old and be in better shape and health than most 20 year olds. I know this one 55 year old breh who just wifed up a pawg in her early to mid 30's. But bruh is in better shape than most 20 year olds stay in the gym, has a full head of hair with minimal grays and keep a fresh cut and has a good career. If you treat your body right, don't abuse drugs and alcohol, excerise and eat right and stay spiritually healthy, you'll stay young. I'm turning 36 at the end of the month and hella people think I'm 23.

It all depends on the maturity of the chick as well. Not all 20 something women are IG thots who live to get drunk at the club every night of the week. If I mess with a younger chick in her twenties, she better be smarter than me when I was in my 20's. They say women mature faster than men, I don't know how true that really is. I don't want to be with someone who listens to 21 Savage all day, can't go two hours without smoking a blunt or drinks like they got a liver manufactured by Ford and wants to fight random bytches for trivial bullshyt while out in the town.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

I can only go by my own personal experience. If you take care of yourself and got your shyt together and not completely out of touch with there generation it can work. Before I met my current I was smashing a few 25 yr olds and I was 37. I get shot on alot by females that's in there early 20's because they say I lookaround my late 20's(whatever works tho). But noway in hell I could see myself entertaining locking one of them down. Even tho I could have a great conversation, a good time, etc with them and them wanting to cater to me I just couldn't do it. Those life experiences in certain situations just played to much of a key factor. This isn't always the case but for me personally this is why I knew I had to be with a woman around my age.