Does this count as blue balling?

[Ms.CuriousCat]

A guy who likes a girl, texts her etc he probably sees her as a long term sort of thing. The girl likes him back but isn't sure about the long term (he's younger than her and fresh out of uni, college for yanks, the way things are looking she's probably going to be making more which let's face it is never the ideal for a relationship)

Short term they both know nothing is going to happen i.e. he's not going to get the chance to "tap that". Still he pays attention and she flirts back


Blue balling or all's fair in we like each other but nothings going to happen world?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Blue balling, the pay shouldn't matter honestly.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

It's not blue balling, he's a fool. If he knows he's not going to tap that he needs to delete said girl's number. I wish my dudes @kevm3 and @Emperor_ReinScarf could speak to every young man fresh in to the dating game, for every girl who thinks her p*ssy is too good for you there's another one who would buy you dinner, ride you like you've never been rode, and roll you a blunt right after

 

[Ray_Ray]

How about you jus hit it and KIM? Win-win situation.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

He has a lot of girls ready to jump him and probably get's regular access

He's the one who initiates contact with this girl. She likes him but no sex and probably no marriage, a grown man should be able to handle that right, friends with flirting?

Blue balling, the pay shouldn't matter honestly.

The pay ends up mattering a lot, why go there in the first place

 

[MAKAVELI25]

He has a lot of girls ready to jump him and probably get's regular access

He's the one who initiates contact with this girl. She likes him but no sex and probably no marriage, a grown man should be able to handle that right, friends with flirting?





The pay ends up mattering a lot, why go there in the first place

Only if he's a sucka

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

He has a lot of girls ready to jump him and probably get's regular access

He's the one who initiates contact with this girl. She likes him but no sex and probably no marriage, a grown man should be able to handle that right, friends with flirting?





The pay ends up mattering a lot, why go there in the first place

Have you been married before?
It only matters if you make it a matter, but you're loveless, why prevent love from coming into your life because one person makes more pieces of paper than the other.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Really? If you're not hitting it she's not worth being around?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Have you been married before?
It only matters if you make it a matter, but you're loveless, why prevent love from coming into your life because one person makes more pieces of paper than the other.

That's kinda deep


But what happens when you have kids and someone has to stay at home for a while and losing her income will make things difficult? Does she do it anyway or does he become a stay at home dad? When you have it, money is just paper but when you don't it can complicate things.

 

[Taadow]

He's a goooooood duuuuuuuude, fresh outta Uni
He's a goooooood duuuuuuuude, young and in love...

*beat kicks in*

He's a goooooood duuuuuuuude, calls her and texts her
He's a goooooood duuuuuuuude, ignores all the rest
And she's a baaaaaaaaad girl, 'cause it don't even matter
She's a baaaaaaaaaaad girl, for playin' with his heart.

And she's BLUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUE
BLUE BALLIN'

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

That's kinda deep


But what happens when you have kids and someone has to stay at home for a while and losing her income will make things difficult? Does she do it anyway or does he become a stay at home dad? When you have it, money is just paper but when you don't it can complicate things.

It's love, if the dad must stay home so that the family will be in a stable position, then I see why not.

This is coming from me, not him, so you're probably better off pursuing a relationship with me.

But I feel like pride is great, but when it comes to family then just put it to the side and play your part.

 

[ORDER_66]

what a sucka, if she not giving it up, whats the point??? friendship???

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

That's kinda deep


But what happens when you have kids and someone has to stay at home for a while and losing her income will make things difficult? Does she do it anyway or does he become a stay at home dad? When you have it, money is just paper but when you don't it can complicate things.

It's love, if the dad must stay home so that the family will be in a stable position, then I see why not.

This is coming from me, not him, so you're probably better off pursuing a relationship with me.

But I feel like pride is great, but when it comes to family then just put it to the side and play your part.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

It's love, if the dad must stay home so that the family will be in a stable position, then I see why not.

This is coming from me, not him, so you're probably better off pursuing a relationship with me.

But I feel like pride is great, but when it comes to family then just put it to the side and play your part.

lol thanks

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

The message here is, unless you're going to sleep with him don't get friendly