Does this count as blue balling?

[ORDER_66]

The message here is, unless you're going to sleep with him don't get friendly

LOL no. i think the message to the guy is dont be a SIMP if she's not feeling you...

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

She's feeling you but you're not going to get to close the deal, drop her?

 

[ORDER_66]

She's feeling you but you're not going to get to close the deal, drop her?

He's an adult, she's an adult... She's the one hesitant to close the deal... Why should he waste his time. She clearly sees he likes her and yet she's playing games for whatever reason. She's just not into him. Guys shouldnt have to play guessing games with these females.

 

[karim]

a grown man should be able to handle that right, friends with flirting?

There is no such thing as friends with flirting
There are woman who like their ego stroked by guys paying them attention though. Plus isn't one of the things that keeps said girl from sleeping with him the fact that he isn't a grown man?

 

[karim]

a grown man should be able to handle that right, friends with flirting?

There is no such thing as friends with flirting
There are woman who like their ego stroked by guys paying them attention though. Plus isn't one of the things that keeps said girl from sleeping with him the fact that he isn't a grown man?

 

[karim]

If yo

Really? If you're not hitting it she's not worth being around?

If you're not hitting it but she keeps flirting with you even though she knows you're never going to get some, then no, she's not worth being around. She's a clear case of a woman wanting to have her cake and eat it too.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

When did people start sleeping together just because they can? Lifestyle choices, not everyone sleeps with whatever gets their attention

 

[karim]

When did people start sleeping together just because they can? Lifestyle choices, not everyone sleeps with whatever gets their attention

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Why flirt with a guy you know you won't sleep with? Especially if you know he sees you as a long term thing?

plus didn't you just tell me when i said i turned down p*ssy?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

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Why flirt with a guy you know you won't sleep with? Especially if you know he sees you as a long term thing?

plus didn't you just tell me when i said i turned down p*ssy?

That's different I'm female, I have self control

You can't help the flirting when you're around someone you're attracted to you can either let your body speak for itself or shut it off by force and probably go down the bytch route since you're trying so hard not to flirt

 

[1thouwow]

If he know he not gonna tap that then he's doing it to himself

 

[karim]

That's different I'm female, I have self control

You can't help the flirting when you're around someone you're attracted to you can either let your body speak for itself or shut it off by force and probably go down the bytch route since you're trying so hard not to flirt

Doesn't that contradict the self control argument you just made

 

[andre patton]

I think its pathetic you have to lead guys on to get attention.

I also think its pathetic you wont pursue a long term relationship with a guy you're attracted to, but thats a few years younger than you, and MIGHT not make as money as you in the future.

I'm all for practicality when it comes to long term relationships. But I dont see the reasons behind your decisions as practical. I just see them as....snobbish.


and wtf is blue balling? blue balls is what i get when a stripper grinds on my dikk for hours at the strip club and i dont bust. You're just a tease you're not blue balling.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Doesn't that contradict the self control argument you just made

There's a difference Mr. Smarty pants

What my body does when it sees someone it/I like which is the stupid smile face and the eye contact and the voice change, yeah the words are ultimately my choice

But that doesn't mean I'm going to put myself in a hotel room alone and let my body decide for me. Close but no cigar monsieur

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I think its pathetic you have to lead guys on to get attention.

I also think its pathetic you wont pursue a long term relationship with a guy you're attracted to, but thats a few years younger than you, and MIGHT not make as money as you in the future.

I'm all for practicality when it comes to long term relationships. But I dont see the reasons behind your decisions as practical. I just see them as....snobbish.


and wtf is blue balling? blue balls is what i get when a stripper grinds on my dikk for hours at the strip club and i dont bust. You're just a tease you're not blue balling.

Pathetic is just harsh

I've been the one to text him a total of 1 time. I suppose I could give one word responses and be a bytch/blank him when I see him but how is that better?

He's 4 years younger, his mom's would probably kill me

It's not MIGHT it's 90% certain. I wouldn't have minded if he were the type to accept help because he's got bags of potential but I offered it once (on a job app) and he looked at me like . So I can already foresee the frustration on both sides. A guy who refuses to accept help and a girl who wants the guy to achieve his best and sees help (practical and otherwise) as standard (whether or not he's already "made" it)

If we did end up together we'd be that couple who do amazingly well in the bedroom but just drift apart otherwise, why do that to him? Why do that to me?

 

[karim]

Pathetic is just harsh

I've been the one to text him a total of 1 time. I suppose I could give one word responses and be a bytch/blank him when I see him but how is that better?

He's 4 years younger, his mom's would probably kill me

It's not MIGHT it's 90% certain. I wouldn't have minded if he were the type to accept help because he's got bags of potential but I offered it once (on a job app) and he looked at me like . So I can already foresee the frustration on both sides. A guy who refuses to accept help and a girl who wants the guy to achieve his best and sees help (practical and otherwise) as standard (whether or not he's already "made" it)

If we did end up together we'd be that couple who do amazingly well in the bedroom but just drift apart otherwise, why do that to him? Why do that to me?

What stops you from telling him "listen dude, it's not going to happen" instead of one word responses? You know you're leading him on, otherwise you wouldn't have made this threat.