Theres the aggressor(usually a woman), and theres men defending themselves who sometimes go too far,in which case its no longer mutual.
To be mutual the strength would have to be equal which we know isnt the case. If a man is using his full strength that woman is fighting for her life,which i doubt is what she signed up for. And if a man isnt using his full strength and is holding back, Chances are he is in self defense mode which isnt mutual at all. Although a woman can still be hurt in that scenario. Which is why its best to just leave when you feel it in the air. Not every woman beater knew they had it in em
