Done focusing on getting a girlfriend?
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5'3-5'4. I'm Chinese though.
I'm probably gonna get negged to hell for this.... You have options and will have more if you drop the weight. Women are basically stalking dudes that have STEM/Engineering jobs or degrees now because they're tired of the lottery/rat race for athletes/entertainers that only the finest of finest women are winning; plus it makes them look better just in case they want to get real career while not looking like golddiggers and whores on social media which will burn them later. I read somewhere the Asian female IR rate is going down, so get fit. Getting a Chinese/Asian chick may still be in the cards for you.
Here are your other options.....
There are some Latinas that romanticize and actually like Asian dudes, simply for the fact that you make pretty babies with them. You got money, but to attract latinas, you have to be at least not overweight or fit in order to pull a attractive latina. Don't show that you have too much money, but dress nice and take her out on elegant, but cost-efficient dates.
If you like black women, the black anime chicks these days are fineand there's a small, but growing movement for Black Women with Asian dudes... (Chinese and Japanese dudes are favorites of BW IR). Regardless, these chicks are choosing because they want a man that shares that interest (and they want....... well, nevermind).
In the extreme cases, you can go abroad to Africa where rich Chinese men are feasting, or if you really want a white women, go to Australia.
Females respect dudes with money because it shows you have discipline and drive.
Females don't respect dudes who give them money cuz it shows them you're a trick ass nikka with no self respect.
Doesn't matter if they're a dime or not. Only female i give money to is my main chick and i've known her for years and shes spent thousands on me too. But simply having money is enough to attract females. You don't need to actually give them anything. If anything you're supposed to get money out of them.
I can guarantee you dude that this is not the case. I'm a slim guy with broad shoulders who doesn't look totally weak (at least for my height). I can tell you that I've been everywhere from the Bronx to Jackson Heights to Washington Heights to Staten Island. Latinas are not receptive to Chinese dudes. Those who want mixed babies want a white guy (and given the state of hypergamy, there are no shortage of suitors). You want to talk business, let's talk business ::Michael Corleone voice::
There are more Latinos than NYC..... Sorry that I didn't specify though. Try Southern Flordia. Cubans.... Anywhere except South Beach.
I've actually messed with models, lawyers , beautiful azz women if a woman is truly interested in you as person, it doesn't matter your "status" the amount of cash in your pocket,

What's wrong with South Beach? I'll give it a try. Was planning a trip to Costa Rica this Spring.
Your status, bank account, and appearance directly correlate with who you are as a person.

If you have no status that means people don't like you. If nobody likes you its most likely because you have a character flaw.An interesting viewpoint you have there. Please carry on.![]()
Your status, bank account, and appearance directly correlate with who you are as a person.

If you have no status that means people don't like you. If nobody likes you its most likely because you have a character flaw.
If you have no money its because you're lazy, dumb, undisciplined, or a combination of all three. In modern society money is sustenance. If you can't even provide yourself with sustenance no female is gonna want your lame genes. No you don't need to be rich. Not everyone is focused solely on cash. But you need to be able to show that you have that ability.
Appearance tells people everything they need to know about you. If you're fat and sloppy that tells people your undisciplined and lazy. If your face is completely asymmetrical and deformed that tells people you have bad genes. If you dress like a bum that tells people you don't care about your appearance.
Popular, wealthy, attractive men attract their female counterparts. Just the way it is.