Don't Get Into A Relationship With Single Mother Unless She Has A Good Career

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I tried and dated a woman with a great career and a child. Problem is I came second to her career AND child. And it makes sense too.

But factor that in with the time you will lose, it doesn't matter if she has a good career. Her time and emotional state will always be an issue.

That's the perfect relationship if you only want to fukk:blessed:
 

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Been there, done that. Too much shyt to deal with, if it ain't the ex trying to tear you down and get back with her, it's the emotional baggage she hasn't let go of, then the attachment to kids. The one I dated within the 1st month wanted an engagement ring a year from when we started, and idea of when I would move in, and plans on adopting kids. That was just the tip of the iceberg of problems :camby:. We were better off as friends, weekly sex was the only non-stressful activity we both enjoyed.
 

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This is a the harsh truth.
:smh: yall sick acting like because someone has a kid/kids they have the plague :mjlol:
plenty of good women that are single mothers
plenty of thots with no kids
judging a woman off her having kids is foolish
get to know her u might be surprised
plenty of bum bytches with no kids will ask u for money
 

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:smh: yall sick acting like because someone has a kid/kids they have the plague :mjlol:
plenty of good women that are single mothers
plenty of thots with no kids
judging a woman off her having kids is foolish
get to know her u might be surprised
plenty of bum bytches with no kids will ask u for money

Of course they might be amazing people, no one is saying anything different.
But there is nothing "foolish" about taking into consideration the fact that she has a child. If it matters to you,l you shouldn't ignore it.

If it doesn't matter to you, then by all means do you
 

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Of course they might be amazing people, no one is saying anything different.
But there is nothing "foolish" about taking into consideration the fact that she has a child. If it matters to you,l you shouldn't ignore it.

If it doesn't matter to you, then by all means do you

I did not say not to consider that a women has kids
I said judging them without knowing them is foolish
yall are making assumptions about them before u meet them
but I'm just saying yall missing out on good women by making false assumptions about every single mother
u project alot of things i didn't say at all
 

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I did not say not to consider that a women has kids
I said judging them without knowing them is foolish
yall are making assumptions about them before u meet them

but I'm just saying yall missing out on good women by making false assumptions about every single mother
u project alot of things i didn't say at all

The only assumption i'm making about a single mother is that she has kids... :dahell:
 

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no so the only thing your willing to share is your dikk? but everything else is off limits. this why members of the third world do not respect the black man because he is compliant with white men taking care of the black women
a motherfukker in a third world country has alot more to worry about than black men
 

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:smh: yall sick acting like because someone has a kid/kids they have the plague :mjlol:
plenty of good women that are single mothers
plenty of thots with no kids
judging a woman off her having kids is foolish
get to know her u might be surprised
plenty of bum bytches with no kids will ask u for money

look at this simp prob canoodling and cavorting with a single mother

I always laugh when nikkaz are so quick to judge brehs who don't want to associat with single mothers pathetic azz simps, women won't date you if your unemployed or a menial job, if you don't havea car, if your not a certain height and this and that, but its ok to judge a man off stuff like those right?

let single mothers deal with single fathers

as a single black man with a career and no kids why lower yourself why stress your life over ish like that.

Every man who wants a kid should see his firstborn coming out of a vagina that a baby has never come out of it, to see the look on your wifes face when she holds her firstborn child

but nah y'all sloppy seconds ass nikkaz dont want it that way :scust:
 

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Of course they might be amazing people, no one is saying anything different.
But there is nothing "foolish" about taking into consideration the fact that she has a child. If it matters to you,l you shouldn't ignore it.

If it doesn't matter to you, then by all means do you

that nikka that's 5'6 making 10 a hour is prob amazing to you think these chicks are giving him a chance?
 

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This is stupid. Chicks without kids need help too. For some people It's hard paying bills on ya own, kids or no kids.
 

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look at this simp prob canoodling and cavorting with a single mother

I always laugh when nikkaz are so quick to judge brehs who don't want to associat with single mothers pathetic azz simps, women won't date you if your unemployed or a menial job, if you don't havea car, if your not a certain height and this and that, but its ok to judge a man off stuff like those right?

let single mothers deal with single fathers

as a single black man with a career and no kids why lower yourself why stress your life over ish like that.

Every man who wants a kid should see his firstborn coming out of a vagina that a baby has never come out of it, to see the look on your wifes face when she holds her firstborn child

but nah y'all sloppy seconds ass nikkaz dont want it that way :scust:
Plenty of jobless, dead end job having nikkas got multiple bytches, nikkas driving they bytch car and shyt
 
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