" Don't text guys back right away"

Hikki

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I have heard this many times mainly from other girls. When a guy texts you, don't text him back right away. He will want you more if you give him a while before you text back.

Guys, is this true? If you really like a girl would this even matter?
 

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There shouldn't be a hard and fast rule for it. When you are out of High School, you are less likely to ponder over the woman

and more likely to mentally cancel her contract. Then again, I used to do similar shyt and not open a message or accept a phone call

unless I had absolutely something to say. Wasn't mean't to be a game so much as minimize potential "dead air" and make sure that

when we did speak, there was shyt to talk about. Even then, cut that shyt short. Gotta measure how far you go, cause some people

call you clingy and you will never even know why, hence people pulling this stunt.
 

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It seems as if guys only like the chase. Once you show interest back they run off. That has been the case for me and many of my friends. This probably the reasoning behind this.
 

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Just another part of the inconsiderate, insensitive, manipulative tactics men and women both use to their advantage, from time to time, and I am no exception, but I really make every effort to just be straight forward, if my phone rings I pick up, if I get a text I return it within a reasonable time period, 9/10…let people play their games….be above that shyt is my approach. But analyzing or obsessing over the time stamps on text messages isn't really a healthy approach to anything, be aware of peoples behavior, don't get wrapped up in it though.
 
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