Do’s and don’ts when you bump into your ex?

[JA_Carter]

First time I’ve been in a relationship with someone in the same social circle. Haven’t seen each other in almost a month but we’ll be at a mutual event tomorrow.

Advice on how to behave? I dumped her and have no desire in getting back with her, but I still have love for her and feel a level of guilt for hurting her even though she betrayed me (no cheating).

 

[Heavy_Handz]

Act normal. People can sense when you are either in your feelings or being disingenuous

 

[Spence]

Yeah, just go with the flow and be normal, you already won with a new girl and moving on. Don’t be surprised if she tries to flaunt some new Nga around to try to get you in your feelings or say some sideways shyt to get a reaction out of you.

 

[Fiji Water]

Feel her out and see if she still wants to fukk on the side. This will strengthen your relationship with your new chick and let everyone involved know that you are the prize.

 

[Givethanks]

The last time I seen one of my ex's was at an event. Grabbed and just started dancing Bachata and when she realized it was me she hit the . She hadn't seen me in like 5 years, she said she thought she seen a ghost lol.

Whenever I see ex's it's all good, it's like seeing a coworker you used to be cool with. Girls I hooked up with treat me like stranger tho, like I did something wrong to them, why don't they wanna acknowledge me man

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Feel her out and see if she still wants to fukk on the side. This will strengthen your relationship with your new chick and let everyone involved know that you are the prize.

Whatever you do don't fukk her. LOL lessons my younger hornier ass should have heeded to way back when.

 

[BurstWicks]

I just completely ignore them and thats that

 

[Blessings]

TheColi Teen Edition....
nikka she's your ex, do you not have any emotional intelligence or awareness?
Act like you know her...you know her better than we do.

 

[The ADD]

I just completely ignore them and thats that

 

[Heafcliffe]

Act normal. People can sense when you are either in your feelings or being disingenuous

This.

Though can be tough, the ether seeping out of an ex from you simply acting like your past "connection" was a blip on the radar is .

Plus, nothing can be said about your actions. "Look at him! All cool, calm and collected and that's just so....BAD."

 

[Apprentice]

TheColi Teen Edition....
nikka she's your ex, do you not have any emotional intelligence or awareness?
Act like you know her...you know her better than we do.

Damn nikkas can’t ask for advice?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

This.

Though can be tough, the ether seeping out of an ex from you simply acting like your past "connection" was a blip on the radar is .

Plus, nothing can be said about your actions. "Look at him! All cool, calm and collected and that's just so....BAD."

This.

Act like they're dead. When I turn the feelings off they're off.

 

[Giselle]

First time I’ve been in a relationship with someone in the same social circle. Haven’t seen each other in almost a month but we’ll be at a mutual event tomorrow.

Advice on how to behave? I dumped her and have no desire in getting back with her, but I still have love for her and feel a level of guilt for hurting her even though she betrayed me (no cheating).

How did she betray you and how did you hurt her?

 

[2ATMsYouSteppinOrWhat]

say hello and keep it moving. you said you still have love for her so you have no reason to be acting like a lame or like she never happened

 

[JA_Carter]

How did she betray you and how did you hurt her?

Won’t go into the details but we had an argument over something she did. She then decided to air something I confided in her to someone else which caused all kinds of drama. She refused to apologize so I broke up with her.

My mutuals told me she’s taking the breakup hard so I told them to tell her I still love her but there’s no point continuing a relationship once trust and respect is gone.