Do’s and don’ts when you bump into your ex?

rabbid

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This.

Act like they're dead. When I turn the feelings off they're off.
Eh. I can't be out here treating someone that i nutted in like a pauper on the street. I'll try to initiate eye contact, if she's bugging or i get ANY weird energy whatsoever its a dub.

ran into one ex at the farmers market, my friend spotted her and to be fair he was acting weirder than her like nikka chill i know her ass still fat. She was avoiding eye contact but getting mad close so i just rolled my eyes and kept it pushing. (Ended up seeing her later and she apologized, but still)

another ex i spotted her at the mall, she's flashing this overly goofy smile and big ass eyes from mad far away, so im like ehhh, 👋 but I'm not trying to do the fake energy shyt so i bounced.

any other exes i usually can say hello and have a short convo, maybe grab on her booty if we're both on demon time but usually just hello and catch up like anyone. its really not a big deal, whats done is done, we had our engagement. no need to try to summon old feelings and pretend. if that was the case you could've been texted or called me and vice versa. 🙄
 
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Ladies love to see a man sweat. If they see an ex and he's in his feelings or not acting normally, they see it as a win.

Do you want her to have a win over you, OP?

If not, then get it together cac.

Go in there and be your normal self. Do your thing. Pretend like she don't even affect you.

Act like she doesn't matter now, cause she never mattered.

That's how YOU win. Be smooth, cac.
 

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Unless you the one that fukked up you ain't got shyt to worry about. If she see you bothered one way or the other about her presence she won and she will know it. If your girl is real she will do things that assert ownership when the other chick in her presence because that's what they do......flex on each other...... Don't trip, go along with it and don't make it weird. Let her do her thing and more than likely you gone have to beat her off you that night because she gone do some aggressive sucking and fukking on you......may the sex deities provide you the strength to endure
 

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Invite one of her friends to a dinner just to see how she is doing (purely friendly) and then say “oh shyt I forgot something real quick” and bring the friend to the mutual engagement and watch your ex melt :myman:
 

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Ran into my ex at a Bulls game last winter, we were in the same row coincidentally

She was with her dude, I was with my girl. Said hello and KIM

Our situation is different because we grew up together and our moms are friends. Hold no ill will towards her, just didn’t work out :yeshrug:
 
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Be casket clean and look your happiest.
I'm gonna give you a gem that I lucked
up on by accident.
One night i was getting dressed for
one of my homie's (ole lady's) mixers.
She knows a shyt load of bad women
so they are always there.....(ive ran through)
Long story short her one homegirl
that stopped fukkin with me because i
wouldnt commit and i hadnt seen for a year.
She's sitting at the table and acting like
she barely notices me......cool.

(back to me getting dressed before going)
I wore a cuban bracelet and a ring on the
(married ring finger) because it always fitted better.
so she's trying to ignore me but peeped my hand
and freaked the fukk out in front of everybody
crying and cussing me out on some.
(so i'm not good enough to be your bytch but
you married somebody)
( is she here )
(I wanna meet the woman that's so much better than me)
acting a damn fool!

wear a ring on your ring finger if you want adventure.
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