Downstairs neighbor left a note..

[Dameon Farrow]

I get it, but still..

Personally, I would work with the neighbor, but no need to say "please be mindful.."

Comes off as a soft lecture or scolding like what a teacher says to a young student who was misbehaving...

It could just be the way she speaks and it doesn't mean anything. Take it to a positive spot not a negative one.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Complaint over footsteps unless someone is wrestling every day is bytch shyt

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I mean, it is a soft lecture. I think that I why I was saying it was handled more maturely than I have handled things.

When people are being rude and inconsiderate, my tendency is to match their down and the handle the resulting conflict.

Not in the business of offering up reminders and relying on their sense of decency.

Walking around your apartment isn't being rude tho

 

[Umoja]

Walking around your apartment isn't being rude tho

It depends on how much noise you're making.

Feel like I'm looking at a bunch of social retards to be honest. I don't think anyone would expect someone to walk around on egg shells in their apartment, but there is a general understanding that you adjust your step after a certain time is noise carries.

Your response is exactly why I started making noise in response to my neighbors. Some people are incapable of understanding compromise and consideration until they're on the receiving end of someone showing none.

 

[The_Sheff]

I had one of them shyts too. I worked overnight and would get home around 4am. Apartment complex was older so any movement I made they could hear below.

That's the type of shyt you need to take into account when you don't get the top floor apartment.

 

[King]

You smashing or nah?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I had one of them shyts too. I worked overnight and would get home around 4am. Apartment complex was older so any movement I made they could hear below.

That's the type of shyt you need to take into account when you don't get the top floor apartment.

@hood b. goode

How much noise are you making?
What are you doing during those times?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It depends on how much noise you're making.

Feel like I'm looking at a bunch of social retards to be honest. I don't think anyone would expect someone to walk around on egg shells in their apartment, but there is a general understanding that you adjust your step after a certain time is noise carries.

Your response is exactly why I started making noise in response to my neighbors. Some people are incapable of understanding compromise and consideration until they're on the receiving end of someone showing none.

You feel like being a dikk this morning, but I won't let it affect me when I'm responding to you

I've dealt with much worse neighbors than this recently, and even posted about it on here

I've also been addressed about having people over at night and making too much noise(and politely adjusted when addressed) so I've been on both sides

If OP is just walking around getting food, or cleaning, and not stomping around, I think it's too much to dictate what time someone does that shyt

But since I've been on both sides, I'll say OP should adjust if he can

But if he gets off work late

Fukk it

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Show up to her door with some flowers, apologize, and offer to take her where she likes (find out what she likes in this convo) you"ll be slapping them cheeks in no time.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Last time I lived under someone in an apartment, I had a noise issue. I dont think I ever left a note though because I was scared of who lived in the apartment.

It was a couple, and not even one week after they had moved in, I could hear them fighting. After one got done beating on the other (you could hear the screaming and crying), 30 minutes or so later, you would hear the mattress squeaking and the loud moaning. I was perplexed.

This went on for months; they truly seemed crazy to me, always fighting then fukking. Sometimes I'd hear the one crying while the abuser walked around singing gospel very loudly; he was very heavy-footed and his voice would echo all over the apartment.

One day they came out of the apartment, and I saw it was actually two men...who I thought had been a woman screaming all that time was really a man - very petite and cute. The other man was quite large and slovenly. I looked at him and was wondering why these two were a couple in the first place. Lookswise, they didn't seem equally yoked at all, but I digress.

One day, I saw the smaller one land past my patio railing. He had jumped off the second floor patio upstairs to get away from his boyfriend. Early morning, afternoon or nighttime, they didn't care - they kept the antics going.

There was no way in hell I was going to confront these folks, and even if I did, I would not have known what to say. I figured, if the big one would regularly swing on his own boyfriend/ lover, there is no telling what he would do to a woman he didn't know.

This is when you submit a noise complaint to the front office. This is what most women would've done.

 

[Prodyson]

I don't care obviously. It will be what it is.

But I'll match the energy being brought. That's not a friendly letter. That's conflict being brought, because the next thing is they'll run to the management because they hear a floorboard creak.

So we're already at war. I might as well give you what you want. You start it, I'll finish it.

We''ll just get there quicker than you wanted.

How are old are you, if you don’t mind me asking

 

[Blackrogue]

So she not complaining about the noise you make when you fukking?

 

[Chip Skylark]

I would have stopped reading it at the first sentence and got to stomping.

This is an apartment. You can't have it your way. This is how it is. I can't help they were cheap and used wooden floors instead of reinforcing it.

no lie my wife and I had an apartment for 6 months in college after that we said fukk that cause of shyt like this. Ive seen dudes straight up brawl over who makes the most noise lol

 

[fifth column]

Absolutely nothing wrong with that note. Social media really turned everybody into weird ass nikkas if this is something to even debate about

If that note ain’t come with the rent payment then everything is wrong with that note. People will control you if you let them

 

[basedlawd]

That passive aggressive shyt right there

What would be a non-passive aggressive way to take care of this in your opinion?