Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
My love knows no bounds
Dudes nowadays...
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My love knows no bounds
not saying you should do anything. it's your life. all i'm saying is that the type of guy who wouldn't care about getting a pic from you or isn't into social media is typically not very outgoing and more introverted not all the times but a lot of times). so the odds that a guy like that who is single notices you and actually approaches you...and then you gotta add the odd that you actually find said guy attractive...I mean i'm just pointing out how it is.
also, i don't think it's that you don't want to send pics that's turning them off. i think they see it more like they feel like they're putting in work trying to get to know you, and maybe they feel like you're not putting in work so they cut their losses early. if i ask a chick if she could do something and she just said no, i don't do that, i'd just reply back "cool" and that would probably be my last words to her if she doesn't say anything else or bring some other energy to the exchange so that's why i was saying i kinda see where they're coming from..
Kenny West
Veteran
Depends on the girl and the situation. Like if we seen each other in person already and aren't reluctant to do it again then idc, but I'd prefer you do it cause I like having my way. If I only seen you the day we exchanged numbers , then you might not be that into me/playing too hard to get so it's time to fall back. And if we haven't met at all or met at a bar on a drunken night then it's type suspicious and I might have to drop it.
In general the average female takes tons of pics and if they fukk with you have no problem with it sending another
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
NotAnFBIagent
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this. if im talking to a chick and she cant even do something as simple as send me a pic then why should i continue putting effort into starting a relationship. if u already acting like that they can only imagine how difficult you'll be later on
NotAnFBIagent
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It's not even like that though. But oh well...
thats how the dudes looking at it tho
think about it from their perspective its not that hard to send a simple pic
I personally prefer chicks who don't use social media because, in my experience, the ones that are active social media users can't hold a good conversation or are glued to a phone/tablet, etc. during pretty much every activity and just respond emptily ("yeah" isn't an appropriate response when you're asked for your opinion 
) and then I'm just like 
. @tater my advice is to not settle if you don't want to; you'll find someone who isn't wrapped up into the social media age.
) and then I'm just like . @tater my advice is to not settle if you don't want to; you'll find someone who isn't wrapped up into the social media age.it depends though. i could understand a chick not liking to send pics. what i meant is that after declining, if the chick doesn't propose another option or energy, just straight "no, i don't do that" and doesn't say anything else, this only leaves me with three options:
1. continue the convo and try to find another way for to strengthen the connection i'm trying to make with her while she just accepts or declines the options i'm proposing.
2. make a joke about it and try to entertain her hoping she warms up to me.
3. just dead it.
1 and 2, you're basically a sucker serving the queen. dudes are in a position where the only acceptable option seems to be to throw her in the bushes unless she says something else. If it was me in her shoes, meaning if i'm vibing with a chick and i'm interested in her, and suddenly she asked me to do something that while not disrespectful, is just something i don't feel like doing, then i wouldn't do it (so in that sense, i agree with her). but at the same time, i would decline in a charming way (something too many women lack). i wouldn't just say no in a very dry way and then expect the vibe to be exactly the same.
So let me get this straight....
Women cream in their pants all fukkin day on social media over pictures.
But the second a guy asks you to send a pic, you're baffled/shocked/turned off/etc....
There isn't a girl around who doesn't check her Instagram every 12 minutes.
The threads that see the most female activity on TLR are those "show your pic" threads.
Do you bytches not see how irrational you are?
Nevermind, I just remembered.
It's not your fault.
Women cream in their pants all fukkin day on social media over pictures.
But the second a guy asks you to send a pic, you're baffled/shocked/turned off/etc....
There isn't a girl around who doesn't check her Instagram every 12 minutes.
The threads that see the most female activity on TLR are those "show your pic" threads.
Do you bytches not see how irrational you are?
Nevermind, I just remembered.
It's not your fault.
This is true. I usually try to segue into something else. I try not to be rude about it, and I absolutely dread when I'm asked because I have to think about how can I get out of this smoothly. Sometimes it ends well others, not so much.
So let me get this straight....
Women cream in their pants all fukkin day on social media over pictures.
But the second a guy asks you to send a pic, you're baffled/shocked/turned off/etc....
There isn't a girl around who doesn't check her Instagram every 12 minutes.
The threads that see the most female activity on TLR are those "show your pic" threads.
Do you bytches not see how irrational you are?
Nevermind, I just remembered.
It's not your fault.
I'm guessing you didn't read the thread. I don't have an Instagram. This is the only social media I use. I'd assume most people would like to see how people look on this website because unlike Facebook and Instagram consists of users you most likely don't know and haven't seen. And let's not take a gander at the plethora of threads and posts begging female posters for their pics. Online dating and things of that nature are different IMO.
But it's okay, you just wanted to post about the irrational female psyche and fish for daps.
this...and sometimes i legit forget how good looking the girl was. I mean i trust my judgement, but you have to gauge how much effort she is worth sometimes and if you bag/talk to multiple chicks that becomes difficult without seeing them regularlyonly times I ever asked a chick to send me a normal pic was so I could show my homies the new bytch I just pulled.