Dudes who peak at 18. How do they cope?

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

But dudes who just pull bytches and are popular? Nah. Most of them remain popular throughout life. Charm is like a skill you have to learn. And you never lose it..

In many cases you are confusing charm with some sort of social status. Once the status is gone it's story time.

 

[Couth]

In many cases you are confusing charm with some sort of social status. Once the status is gone it's story time.

Most people with status also have charm. People don't look up to you if they don't like you.

And status isn't something that automatically changes when you leave high school.

If you were a loser who got drunk all the time, flunked a bunch of times, and only had status among underclassmen cuz they saw you as "cool". Then yea once you're out of high school you're in for some harsh realities.

But if you were just a popular person, talkative, an athlete, get money nikka, or whatever thats not gonna change when you get older.
you guys are confusing popular losers with actual popular people. Theres a difference.

 

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hit the gym flabby i see how shytty i look if i dont work out in some days i can imagine how u look after years
u could still reverse it tho
dont know bout the hairline thing tho
what had u stressed?

Imma def hit the gym and start eating better but I doubt working out is gonna make me look better. I'm not fat.

As far as stress it's mostly money issues, bills, family bullshyt, living in a bad part of town, having nikkas out for me, etc.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

If you were a loser who got drunk all the time, flunked a bunch of times, and only had status among underclassmen cuz they saw you as "cool". Then yea once you're out of high school you're in for some harsh realities.

But if you were just a popular person, talkative, an athlete, get money nikka, or whatever thats not gonna change when you get older.
you guys are confusing popular losers with actual popular people. Theres a difference.

I don't know where you're from but all these things you listed like being an athlete and going out drinking or failing at education are things that often crossover. It isn't one or the other. You can be an athlete and a complete failure in school. You can be an athlete and do very well in school. etc.

 

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Most people with status also have charm. People don't look up to you if they don't like you.

And status isn't something that automatically changes when you leave high school.

If you were a loser who got drunk all the time, flunked a bunch of times, and only had status among underclassmen cuz they saw you as "cool". Then yea once you're out of high school you're in for some harsh realities.

But if you were just a popular person, talkative, an athlete, get money nikka, or whatever thats not gonna change when you get older.
you guys are confusing popular losers with actual popular people. Theres a difference.

You got it all wrong son. A lot of popularity is contextual.

You take that loud frat boy and put him in an inner city away from all his bros and he's gonna be shaking like a mouse.

You take an athlete years after college when hes gotten fat and his hairline ain't as fresh and he's gonna be shyt out of luck

Take that get money nikka and remove the money and what do you have? Just another nikka.

 

[Paisley Darts]

In high school/college I was a pretty boy. Used to be at the club and broads used to pull me on the dance floor, I could be at the mall and broads would be choosing. Then the hairline started fading And while I'm still a handsome brother...I am not a pretty boy anymore. If I want women's attention I have to work for it. No more freebies. My body has improved tremendously since high school. I workout like crazy and my face still looks basically the same. I would say I haven't peaked yet...still in my prime. I don't plan to be until I'm 70 at least.

What I don't understand is how women go from getting copious amounts of attention in high school..I mean fine ass women...to status before the age of 30. That shyt blows my mind. 90% of the dimes I went to high school with are flabby and sick. How the hell do you let yourself go like that? Going from a dime to duck status has to have some kind of long term psychological affect.

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

For me I didn't get much play in high school really. My confidence was terrible and I could only show my personality and be funny etc. around people I knew well. I played sports but the other dudes were on another level. The way they'd talk to girls I'd just sit back and

In college I started to open up a lot more and find my way. Now it's like "what the hell was wrong with me back then?"

A lot of those same friends I had are looking pretty these days. Sitting around telling stories instead of creating them. I'm kind of happy how my life worked out now.

Interesting... that's similar to what happened to me too, but I never looked at it as a positive when I was younger.. only now that I'm older do I see the "advantage", for lack of better word.
And I for one am glad that it happened this way. Nearly half of my peers are officially - male and female. I'm still looking like I'm in my mid-low twenties, face and body.
No bragging, though..I know father time is undefeated and will hit me too.
But I wouldn't trade my having to go through that "awkwardness" back when everybody else was suave and mackin hard, with me being the suave and highly sought after one now today, for nothing in the world.
I'm glad things are working out the way they did. I have a 12-pack set of abs damn near lol(thanks karate , bank, and I seem to look younger in the face every year.
Although I honestly have to credit that to the fact that as each recent year has passed I've learned more about eating and my diet has gotten so much cleaner.

 

[the cool]

I didn't get fat just

Hairline receeded

Skin got duller and less clearer. Also started getting acne in my early 20s.

Eyes got beady and shifty looking.

Face got fatter and less defined

Under eye bags like a motherfukker
It's tiny milimteter changes to my face all added up

Got me looking like fat fredo

nikkas asking me if I'm tired all the time

better hit the gym and drink nothing but water

 

[Truth200]

 

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In high school/college I was a pretty boy. Used to be at the club and broads used to pull me on the dance floor, I could be at the mall and broads would be choosing. Then the hairline started fading And while I'm still a handsome brother...I am not a pretty boy anymore. If I want women's attention I have to work for it. No more freebies. My body has improved tremendously since high school. I workout like crazy and my face still looks basically the same. I would say I haven't peaked yet...still in my prime. I don't plan to be until I'm 70 at least.

What I don't understand is how women go from getting copious amounts of attention in high school..I mean fine ass women...to status before the age of 30. That shyt blows my mind. 90% of the dimes I went to high school with are flabby and sick. How the hell do you let yourself go like that? Going from a dime to duck status has to have some kind of long term psychological affect.

It does. Lot of bitter middle aged women out there.

Lot of women on anti-depressants as well

 

[Vonte3000]

The best way I can explain it is saying you sat on the bench on JV, but then got on varsity and started beasting. Its kinda hard to believe No bragging here....I lost my v-card in 9th grade. I could have got more in HS but, I was a sucka for love, only sleeping with girls I was in a relationship with. My boys were savages, fukking whoever whenever. I don't get dudes who sat on the sidelines growing up. They had to be lames. And.....you could have went up to any random chick in high school. There were chicks from the other schools in your town, chicks from the town over. Remember Myspace? ASL? I do. You weren't confined to your school pimp. The benefit to college is having your own place for the first time. That's great. But you should've got chicks in high school too You're basically admitting you were a real lame in your hometown, then reinvented yourself when you moved away

Yeah you seem to think I was talkin about me, this ain't no bragging session like you tryin to do bruh, I thought we were speakin in general here. College is far better for girls than high school, you the first nikka I've ever heard say the opposite. I didn't change when I got to college, still here actually, You tryin to prove somethin here bruh?

Turnin this into "I was cool in high school" story telling thread

 

[Malik]

Yeah you seem to think I was talkin about me, this ain't no bragging session like you tryin to do bruh, I thought we were speakin in general here. College is far better for girls than high school, you the first nikka I've ever heard say the opposite. I didn't change when I got to college, still here actually, You tryin to prove somethin here bruh?

Turnin this into "I was cool in high school" story telling thread

Not bragging. Just facts. I was cool in high school, cool in college, cool now.

I just don't believe dudes were Minkus in high school, then went to college and became Christian Grey Unless you got a six pack and grew five inches between 12th grade and freshman year it doesn't add up. You should have been getting skins back then too. And if you weren't it cuz you were a lame-o. And you got to college and reinvented yourself because nobody knew you there. Of course, its much easier on the ego to simply say "college is easier". Not talking about you personally though

And everybody doesn't go to college btw.

 

[Couth]

I don't know where you're from but all these things you listed like being an athlete and going out drinking or failing at education are things that often crossover. It isn't one or the other. You can be an athlete and a complete failure in school. You can be an athlete and do very well in school. etc.

First of all being an athlete and failing at school don't go hand in hand. Serious athletes don't fail classes. Serious athletes don't drink on a regular basis. And girls for the most part are only interested in the serious athletes cuz those are the ones they can tell are going somewhere.

And it doesn't matter if some of that stuff goes hand in hand. You're either a popular loser. Or you're regular popular. If you're regular popular being pushed out into the real world isn't gonna change that.

Popular people = charming people. Having charm is a skill that you learn. Most popular person at any given school is the nicest person. The person who gets along with everyone. You don't graduate and then suddenly lose the ability to charm people in the real world.

Same thing with girls. Most dominating nikkas get the most females. You don't leave high school and then suddenly forget how to dominate socially. Once you got it, you got it. Its like riding a bike.

You got it all wrong son. A lot of popularity is contextual.

You take that loud frat boy and put him in an inner city away from all his bros and he's gonna be shaking like a mouse.

You take an athlete years after college when hes gotten fat and his hairline ain't as fresh and he's gonna be shyt out of luck

Take that get money nikka and remove the money and what do you have? Just another nikka.

Whats the one thing that all those dudes would have had in common in their prime? Ambition. You lose all your ambition ofcourse you're gonna fail at life. You're basically depressed. You turned into a female, you have no go.

Majority of men don't just lose their ambition one day. The losers lose their ambition after high school cuz they were losers in the first place. The nikkas who were actually blazing trails don't just stop cuz they graduated.

And at the end of the day getting females and having true social status are both skills. Skills that you learn over time. And skills that most people either have, or don't. You don't graduate and suddenly lose that skill. You might graduate and lose your confidence like i said, but then your problem is your self perception, not sudden inability to perform.

Hard truth is most nikkas who peak in high school continue to peak for life. Most nikkas who don't peak by time they finish high school will never be able to catch up to the dudes who peaked before them. They might peak later in life, but they'll never have the same level of experience as the dudes who started earlier. And the most timid nerdy nikkas at the school usually never peak period. Cuz they're timid and nerdy and they never step outta their comfort zone so that they can make steps to change that.


#FACTSOFLIFE

 

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I don't think you even know what you're talking about anymore...