All of this! Take this rep, man!Whenever you are truly bothered by something, (not like a full on breakdown, seek help, or suicidal), but like a bad moment/bad day offer to help someone, a stranger, if you can.
What it does is take you out of your own world, creates good feelings, makes you connected with people, even if for a moment.
I remember having that kind of day, and I was sitting in some park, in the hood, by myself, and I just offered to help this woman, who was setting up a family birthday party. Just to be of service, and she was like "i got this but I appreciate you", and just that small moment, I felt a little better.
Keep a gratitude list and read it over when you have that anxiety, depression, whatever
Try to keep a real and accurate sense of your OWN life, and see how far you've come. I try to do this. First, acknowledge you are fukked up, momentarily, for the day, for the hour, whatever, and then this, well, 15 years ago I was in jail. I was riding the bus.
Whole time the new dude she with was playing "Is that Your Chick?"20 years ago I broke up with my girl and I was kinda going thru it. Then I bought a CD player for my bathroom and every morning I played "99 problems" as loud as I could get it on repeat while I went through my morning routine. I was good in like a week
Started jump roping. Trying to master the mayweather jump
That cardio high is real. Helped me quit smoking trees.
Can you recommend some style page/people?- Moved away from my hometown (being stuck in the same cycle for years will depress anyone)
- Got a skincare routine
- Got an exercise routine (exercise is the #1 antidepressant)
- Started following style pages/people I found fashionable on social media, found cheaper alternatives to what they were wearing lol and got my wardrobe better (when you look good, you feel good)
I feel like this should be mandatory in this country. It would solve or at least mitigate a lot of our societal problems.2. Joined a group that did charity/volunteer work
Whole time the new dude she with was playing "Is that Your Chick?"
The life cycle continues![]()
Why not do both?