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If you can't tell a woman from a woman and a man from a man, in the flesh, then something's wrong with you. Y'all are not using your brain/instincts, too thirsty, rather thinking with your (pause), now speaking for myself, I'd notice the difference between a man in drag/dress and an actual woman in dress based on tone, characteristics, body language, etc.

Y'know, pay attention to detail.

As far as the name goes, some names are unisex, for example, Leslie, Adrian, Angel, and many more names commonly used for baby girls are also used for boys. Sometimes the names may be spelled differently to point out the gender differences at birth.
 

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I cut it off with them amicably :mjgrin:


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How do you ask a girl



I know I'm putting myself in a vulnerable position
(:dame:) just making this thread, but go ahead and get ya jokes off :francis:



Was at a concert last night and it was dark and indoors. Saw a THICK woman at the bar :banderas: and gave her a compliment. We vibed and her friend surprisingly didn't cock block.



We exchanged names and she tells me it's "Deshon", (pronounced, "Deshawn"). Kinda weird name for a woman, but I don't think much of it until I see her really high cheek bones and my mind is possibly making connections. I reserve my judgment until I'm absolutely SURE. I hug her (him? Them?) and their DEFINITE female friend and I call them two very beautiful ladies. The friend then gives a little side-eye like this



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Now idk if this is because I called them both beautiful or because she knows her friend isn't a "woman" :patrice:. I leave and now I'm mind fukked about the whole thing and I'm trying to figure out if there's a way to find out if she's trans :jbhmm:



I can't just ask her because it'll be offensive if she ain't....so do y'all have any ideas?

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Nah, but did you confront her though?
:patrice:

They can't be out here all Willynilly not saying shyt...some of them feel like it's not their right to say anything... BULLSHYT!!

:damn:
After they gave me their IG, they sent this text:

"I think you're very very VERY handsome, and getting to know you would be awesome, however may I be very candid with you about me...?"

I replied with

"No, it's okay. I had a suspicion, but didn't want to be rude. Anyway, I wish you the best. No harm, no foul 🙂"

I guess I know why the friend side-eyed me like that now :mjcry:
 
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