I dealt with some shyt like that until a couple months ago.
My BM lived across the country. She was supposed to move with me once I made some decent money. Well she basically had excuses for two years why she couldn't move, some actually valid. We started growing further and further apart. At some point while visiting her she got off work. I put our girls to sleep by 9 and was waiting to spend time with her. She didn't come home until like 3:30 in the morning. Her excuse was she went over her best friend's house for dinner and fell asleep.
Finally I said fukk it you either need to move or we done. So she said we're done. She was on my phone plan so I changed her voicemail password. I figured I'm cutting it off so can't hurt to listen in and see what's going on. It was some other nikka on there talking about how he loved her, how he didn't want her to have that abortion, and how him her and my daughters would make a great family.
So I call homeboy up and he tells me they've broke up and how she's fukking with some new dude now. All I wanted to know if she had brought my daughters around him which he said she hadn't. But he did say they had been seeing each other for two years. He worked at the mall with her (which explained another incident).
We ended up back together a few years later. Same distance between us. She got in a car accident and had her ex pick her up. I'm blowing up her phone to see if she's alright and she ignores it until after he's dropped her back off late in the morning. I check her myspace messages (I had her account info) and she's telling her brother how her and the ex have been seeing each other again and how she's fallen back in love with him and that I could never make her as happy as he does.
Sadly tried to get together about a year ago and was actually living together. eventually I came to my senses and realized I really did need to cut my losses and that I could never bring myself to a point that I could trust her again. Kept giving it a shot for my daughters but that's no way to live.
Damn shame what a pretty face and crazy sex game will have you convincing yourself of though.
i was going to feel sorry but this is what oyu get for messing with a single mom i hoped you learned your lesson, baby dad always will come before you
Sorry to hear that. Just kno this breh. If you are able to get a bytch to break off with her boyfriend. Then a nikka should be able to get a bytch to break it off with you.![]()
I wouldnt call it bein cheated on cuz we was just fukkin, but I was tappin this black bytch at the job, so one night the crew from work went out for drinks n shyt. We playin pool and she keep tellin me she wanna have my baby(i only hit once at that time), and im like
We get ready to leave and a white dude we work wit needed a lift home cuz he was to twisted to drive. We get to his street and he yells out "MARY'S fukkING MARCUS!"
I look like "really" (marcus was our supervisor)
He gets out the car and i pull off drivin, lookin like![]()
did u ever find out
Originally Posted by threattonature View Post
I dealt with some shyt like that until a couple months ago.
My BM lived across the country. She was supposed to move with me once I made some decent money. Well she basically had excuses for two years why she couldn't move, some actually valid. We started growing further and further apart. At some point while visiting her she got off work. I put our girls to sleep by 9 and was waiting to spend time with her. She didn't come home until like 3:30 in the morning. Her excuse was she went over her best friend's house for dinner and fell asleep .
Finally I said fukk it you either need to move or we done. So she said we're done. She was on my phone plan so I changed her voicemail password. I figured I'm cutting it off so can't hurt to listen in and see what's going on. It was some other nikka on there talking about how he loved her, how he didn't want her to have that abortion, and how him her and my daughters would make a great family.
So I call homeboy up and he tells me they've broke up and how she's fukking with some new dude now. All I wanted to know if she had brought my daughters around him which he said she hadn't. But he did say they had been seeing each other for two years. He worked at the mall with her (which explained another incident).
We ended up back together a few years later. Same distance between us. She got in a car accident and had her ex pick her up. I'm blowing up her phone to see if she's alright and she ignores it until after he's dropped her back off late in the morning. I check her myspace messages (I had her account info) and she's telling her brother how her and the ex have been seeing each other again and how she's fallen back in love with him and that I could never make her as happy as he does.
Sadly tried to get together about a year ago and was actually living together. eventually I came to my senses and realized I really did need to cut my losses and that I could never bring myself to a point that I could trust her again. Kept giving it a shot for my daughters but that's no way to live.
Damn shame what a pretty face and crazy sex game will have you convincing yourself of though.
you're just fukkin stupid
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That's foul breh. And he opened his story tryin to relate to your plight![]()
'06: girl breaks up wit bf
Her and i start kickin it immediately for 6 months.
In july, that shyt stopped IMMEDIATELY.
No texts, calls, nothin from her
So, i go on her myspace page(that i helped her design btw)and her and the dude that broke up wit her havin a very friendly back n forth
I see her status and it says "in a relationship"
I turn my computer speakers up and her song on her profile is ciara and 50 cents "i cant leave him alone"
Eventually, she found out he was STILL fukkin other broads
Even tho we married, that shyt still puts aches in my chest to this day. Partly the reason im a jerk and an a$$hole now.
Guess what I was when we kicked it in 06 b4 i got kicked to the curb? Yep. A gentleman.
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