Ever go through periods of your life where it just feels like nothing is going right?

[flah_neon]

i literally jump from job to job to job to job i'm unsatisfied.............that's all i got besides that i guess my life ain't so bad.......i make bad decisions but whatever don't we all

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Yeah but I have to remember its not me thats fukking up its the people around me.

I RARELY fukk up in life. if something goes bad its either something beyond my doing or directly caused by what someone else did that affects me.

Do you actually genuinely believe this?

Nothing is ever your fault..?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Focus on what you can control. What can you do, even if it's a tiny little thing, to improve your life?

Also, reflect on what you might be doing that actually makes things even worse. How might you be sabotaging your own life?

Think of it this way, breh. If you took the happiest person on earth and you gave him your lifestyle, your sleeping habits, your drinking and eating habits, your tendency to ruminate over the past and all types of other things that you can't do shyt about anyway, would that person still be happy?

You need to take a step back and try to see the big picture.

Breh posts the most random things on the daily and out of nowhere:

super good life advice for everybody

Really well-written, practical advice with a great example in there too. Props breh.

 

[Silkk]

And what did you end up doing in the end?

Becoming a 6 cert 6 figure nikka

Took me until about 23 though, was a long hard journey

 

[ThaRealness]

Yeah, its my fault though. My immaturity and selfishness brought me to depression. Im cutting out negative energy from my life and working towards concrete goals... Trying to keep my sleep schedule locked in, stop eating shytty food and stop listening to negative/nihilistic music .

But the truth is a motherfukker man

Im out here 24 with no friends in my city, getting no p*ssy... working a shytty job. Experience is the best teacher and I have next to zero. my social skills lacking, and I dont have enough time to do what I want with music. My room only has 3 posters because I got a weak ass adhesive. I never clean this motherfukker. Eating ramen and work food. Still addicted to nicotine pills, still addicted to caffeine. Im out of shape... havent balled in 6 months. I got dental bills... ADD getting worse and worse. Insecurities building up.

But Ive got the mental and spiritual strength to succeed. I see everything for what it is including both the positives and negatives. Ive taken serious steps forward, and its just a matter of seperating lifestyle flaws from personality flaws. Some things can't be changed, but Imma do everything thats in my control



because the truth is you'll never wake up one day and be a completely different person. I used to wait for that day and it never came

No cavities, takin much less nicotine, less caffeine, stopped listening to negative music, I got time to work on some dope shyt. Lifting regularly and putting on some muscle.

I got more poster probably a week or 2 after I posted this.

But my mind never takes a day off. Life still just as stressful. I still aint getting p*ssy even though Im much more confident with women. And making music aint the same as selling music. I seperated the lifestyle from the personality flaws. My personality flaws gotta be worked on though

 

[RisingSon]

Yea, that shyt sucks major balls. Gotta keep on keeping on tho.

 

[bucks3115]

1st of all Im african , i dnt live in USA

I hate comparing my life to people
But my friends are getting married , started a familly


im 28
With no girl at the moment (just random smash)
Broke up with gf like a year ago

I have degree in IT network but still have no career ( i dnt worry much abt cuz i already got the knowledge)

In 2 year i will be 30

When u 30 , u shuld have ur shyt together

 

[shadowking]

1st of all Im african , i dnt live in USA

I hate comparing my life to people
But my friends are getting married , started a familly


im 28
With no girl at the moment (just random smash)
Broke up with gf like a year ago

I have degree in IT network but still have no career ( i dnt worry much abt cuz i already got the knowledge)

In 2 year i will be 30

When u 30 , u shuld have ur shyt together

Have you tried migrating

Don't worry about wide and kids now.
It's more important to have at least a year savings before settling down

Start dating with marriage in mind. Your options are girls with a lot of culture so it's easier

 

[semicko82]

1st of all Im african , i dnt live in USA

I hate comparing my life to people
But my friends are getting married , started a familly


im 28
With no girl at the moment (just random smash)
Broke up with gf like a year ago

I have degree in IT network but still have no career ( i dnt worry much abt cuz i already got the knowledge)

In 2 year i will be 30

When u 30 , u shuld have ur shyt together

Damn dude you only 28 you'll be ok. You got a degree and family support. You got it better than most people. By the time I was 30 my parents were dead and stuck at a dead end retail job

 

[semicko82]

Have you tried migrating

Don't worry about wide and kids now.
It's more important to have at least a year savings before settling down

Start dating with marriage in mind. Your options are girls with a lot of culture so it's easier

Good advice. Listen to this man get your finances in order.

 

[Software]

or everything is unnecessarily complicated, a struggle, annoying, etc.

Its literally how I feel today. Everything is difficult from traffic, people (being in the fukking way more than anything), parking, family members, etc.

I even pulled up to my favorite sushi spot to get some food/sake and chill then the chick straight up looked at me and said "we don't serve sake here" like I was crazy.

Im like I literally came 2 months ago and yall had the shyt

Relationships are whatever as well.. I literally feel like dipping out on everyone for awhile.

Even my electronics are fukking up.

Don't do that
Thats how people end up taking their own lives.
Find someone you trust tell them how you feel. Write out all your problems and figure out what is making you feel this way.
Then make a plan to fix it.
Life gives you a lot to worry about but if you think about it you really only need to work on one thing at a time.

Live in the moment but have goals. I promise worrying goes away when you do that

 

[semicko82]

Don't do that
Thats how people end up taking their own lives.
Find someone you trust tell them how you feel. Write out all your problems and figure out what is making you feel this way.
Then make a plan to fix it.
Life gives you a lot to worry about but if you think about it you really only need to work on one thing at a time.

Live in the moment but have goals. I promise worrying goes away when you do that

I agree with you but it is ok to dip out if you are getting your shyt together. Clear your head for a little than get back at it.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Don't do that
Thats how people end up taking their own lives.
Find someone you trust tell them how you feel. Write out all your problems and figure out what is making you feel this way.
Then make a plan to fix it.
Life gives you a lot to worry about but if you think about it you really only need to work on one thing at a time.

Live in the moment but have goals. I promise worrying goes away when you do that

This was months ago... I haven’t dipped out... yet

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

or everything is unnecessarily complicated, a struggle, annoying, etc.

Its literally how I feel today. Everything is difficult from traffic, people (being in the fukking way more than anything), parking, family members, etc.

I even pulled up to my favorite sushi spot to get some food/sake and chill then the chick straight up looked at me and said "we don't serve sake here" like I was crazy.

Im like I literally came 2 months ago and yall had the shyt

Relationships are whatever as well.. I literally feel like dipping out on everyone for awhile.

Even my electronics are fukking up.

People out here struggling to live, homeless, dealing with diseases and wondering how to put food on the table. Yet, your trippin off of traffic, rude people, parking, no sake at a sushi restaurant and your electronics not working?

Talmbout you need to get away?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

People out here struggling to live, homeless, dealing with diseases and wondering how to put food on the table. Yet, your trippin off of traffic, rude people, parking, no sake at a sushi restaurant and your electronics not working?

Talmbout you need to get away?

FOH nikka idgaf about what other people or going through

Thread was about shyt not going right, and at that time it wasn’t. At that time I was putting my life on hold to help take care of my dying grandmother, on top of other shyt, so I wanted to vent about whatever tf I wanted to

Hop off my dikk nikka