Ever had a best friend turn into a stranger? (life rant)

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Like what Nas once said, "sometimes best friends become strangers."
Ever been into this kinda predicament? Whats your situation?

Here is my story.....best friends since 10th grade till the late 20s when things started to drift apart. Me and him are totally different just like two sides of a coin. He is more of a pretty boy/ladies man. Loves putting p*ssy on a pedestal and can turn into an ass when he is wasted. He has never been single. If he breaks up with a girl this week, in a week or two he will be in a new relationship. He relates p*ssy to power; Don't get it twisted......life has objectified p*ssy to power (to many dudes) but for me my power symbol is and will always be money.

I am more of an entrepreneur. Very outgoing and into cars. I have never been a relationship kinda guy.

The friction started when he mentioned something like; I am a loser and thats why I never have a girl (Not the same exact quote but along the lines). Then iit turned into a jealousy kinda relationship. It wouldnt sit right with him if I told him I just got a new job or traveling to a new country. You could tell he wasn't happy about it as a friend. The relationship turned from being cool into Jealousy and competition.

Anyone been here.....can't be the only nikka thats been thru this kinda soap opera drama
 

Solomon Caine

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I’m that friend that turned into a stranger at one point. Sometimes your life starts moving in a different direction and you gotta get away from good people out of respect..

You wouldn’t go do dirt wit your blood brothers, so why would u drag ur good friends into anything.

Once you over 26 tho you realise which friends to keep around and wich ones to bush..
 

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I used to trap with my best friend around the time I was 17-18.... I'm 23 now. We ran up so many checks together.... and we had the same entrepreneur mindset and that's how we came together and made moves, but as I gradually transitioned to legal hustles and making legal money as an entrepreneur - he's still Trappin to this day so we kind of drifted apart naturally...... I had to cut him off.


Hopefully one day I'm in a position where I can fully bring him out of that life... But I gotta focus on solidifying myself first.

Thats my bro tho.... 10+ years
 

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The fukk is wrong with you. Your previous quote was some real shyt then u drop this dumb ass comment.

He got a point tho fam. We’re all grown men here, some things you have to accept and KIM. My best friend got killed almost 15 years ago, I still wake up and cry about that shyt sometimes. No after that fact “oh that was my dude” type shyt cuz it sounds good and looks cool on a shirt. Nah. That was my ace, anywhere you saw him you saw me. For years after he passed folks who didn’t know would see me and be like “yo where ***** at”. I can’t look back and wax poetic about my first blunt or the first female I pulled without seeing him in my memory. He’s there like a ghost breh. Then to add insult to injury he left this planet a week before he was going off to college. That man actually wanted to do something with his life. And I’ll never see that man again breh. EVER!!! And I rarely mention it on here, let alone make a thread about. Stop crying and grow up. Life ain’t fair and it ain’t easy. Get used to it.
 

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MF Dooom said it best.. 'sometimes you gotta cut nikkas off like a light switch.

I've had to cut folks off over females... cats I've known or years that want to act brand new around females or want to turn bytch made when you get some money. friends, cousins ,etc. fukk em.
 
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He got a point tho fam. We’re all grown men here, some things you have to accept and KIM. My best friend got killed almost 15 years ago, I still wake up and cry about that shyt sometimes. No after that fact “oh that was my dude” type shyt cuz it sounds good and looks cool on a shirt. Nah. That was my ace, anywhere you saw him you saw me. For years after he passed folks who didn’t know would see me and be like “yo where ***** at”. I can’t look back and wax poetic about my first blunt or the first female I pulled without seeing him in my memory. He’s there like a ghost breh. Then to add insult to injury he left this planet a week before he was going off to college. That man actually wanted to do something with his life. And I’ll never see that man again breh. EVER!!! And I rarely mention it on here, let alone make a thread about. Stop crying and grow up. Life ain’t fair and it ain’t easy. Get used to it.

Bro, I am not crying over nothing. I am just seeking advice on shyt people go thru life everyday. No one's life is perfect or near that. Seeking advice makes me a sucker tho? :gucci:
 

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Like what Nas once said, "sometimes best friends become strangers."
Ever been into this kinda predicament? Whats your situation?

Here is my story.....best friends since 10th grade till the late 20s when things started to drift apart. Me and him are totally different just like two sides of a coin. He is more of a pretty boy/ladies man. Loves putting p*ssy on a pedestal and can turn into an ass when he is wasted. He has never been single. If he breaks up with a girl this week, in a week or two he will be in a new relationship. He relates p*ssy to power; Don't get it twisted......life has objectified p*ssy to power (to many dudes) but for me my power symbol is and will always be money.

I am more of an entrepreneur. Very outgoing and into cars. I have never been a relationship kinda guy.

The friction started when he mentioned something like; I am a loser and thats why I never have a girl (Not the same exact quote but along the lines). Then iit turned into a jealousy kinda relationship. It wouldnt sit right with him if I told him I just got a new job or traveling to a new country. You could tell he wasn't happy about it as a friend. The relationship turned from being cool into Jealousy and competition.

Anyone been here.....can't be the only nikka thats been thru this kinda soap opera drama

ALL of em.

Henry county Atlanta will do that to ya

:francis:
 
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