Ever had a best friend turn into a stranger? (life rant)

[JamilALAmin]

Bro, I am not crying over nothing. I am just seeking advice on shyt people go thru life everyday. No one's life is perfect or near that. Seeking advice makes me a sucker tho?

You want advice? You come in this world by yourself you leaving this bytch by yourself.

 

[Payroll]

 

[8====D]

Yes. It is what it is.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Like what Nas once said, "sometimes best friends become strangers."
Ever been into this kinda predicament? Whats your situation?

Here is my story.....best friends since 10th grade till the late 20s when things started to drift apart. Me and him are totally different just like two sides of a coin. He is more of a pretty boy/ladies man. Loves putting p*ssy on a pedestal and can turn into an ass when he is wasted. He has never been single. If he breaks up with a girl this week, in a week or two he will be in a new relationship. He relates p*ssy to power; Don't get it twisted......life has objectified p*ssy to power (to many dudes) but for me my power symbol is and will always be money.

I am more of an entrepreneur. Very outgoing and into cars. I have never been a relationship kinda guy.

The friction started when he mentioned something like; I am a loser and thats why I never have a girl (Not the same exact quote but along the lines). Then iit turned into a jealousy kinda relationship. It wouldnt sit right with him if I told him I just got a new job or traveling to a new country. You could tell he wasn't happy about it as a friend. The relationship turned from being cool into Jealousy and competition.

Anyone been here.....can't be the only nikka thats been thru this kinda soap opera drama

Yep.
Last remaining cac friend got ghosted just last year.
Been friends since 10th grade, college, came to my wedding...everything. This guy was tragically single since I've known him back in high school. Never could keep a relationship going with anyone...for decades.
Then two years ago he meets this white chick, marries her...and all of a sudden he's a tRumper.
Told him good luck with life, lose my number.

Haven't spoken to his ass since and won't ever.
He's dead to me. And if facing down across paths, I will put a bullet in him.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Yeah, everyone had to go

I just gave the last homie walking papers because he threw some shyt that I told him back in my face. That's automatic bushes to me because that's the type of shyt girls do when they're mad

 

[Kinguno]

Average friendship is seven years

All the cells in your body regrow and reset in seven years

Y'all both different than who y'all were so long ago

 

[8WON6]

A lot of people keep others around because they think you under them. You start making your own way and they be in their feelings. It is what it is.

 

[FSP]

You want advice? You come in this world by yourself you leaving this bytch by yourself.

Lame

 

[flea]

All of my friends have kids. I have none. Naturally I drifted apart from them because we no longer have anything in common.It is what it is. We still cool though. My best friend died when I was 20 and I never really picked one up after that.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I've learnt my former best friend got up in his feelings because I got the chance to move overseas to a new country to work in film. My wifey at the time said she felt this vibe from him as me and her got the opportunity. That he wasn't too happy about it. Despite the smiles. This guy didn't even turn up to our farewell meal.

Two years prior, This cat had a once in a lifetime opportunity to move to LA to work in film, with guidance with top producers and directors. I'm talking directing, writing & learning the business.

And sadly he cratered badly under the pressure and his own stubbornness. And so it became one of those situations where if he couldn't do it he was salty about anyone else chasing dreams.

I've tried to reach out to him to no avail. So I've left it. I still consider him a friend but most of that brotherhood has vanished.

 

[Somewhere For Me]

Yes. That's life. People grow apart.

 

[TRFG]

I had one best friend, the only other black dude in my dorm freshman year after college we just shifted best friends and friendship only happen out of opportunity.. it is what it is

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Yep..
And if I ever see him again..

On sight..
Told my girl to have bail money..
Literally going to knock his head off his shoulders..
On god

 

[Darkslayer]

I used to trap with my best friend around the time I was 17-18.... I'm 23 now. We ran up so many checks together.... and we had the same entrepreneur mindset and that's how we came together and made moves, but as I gradually transitioned to legal hustles and making legal money as an entrepreneur - he's still Trappin to this day so we kind of drifted apart naturally...... I had to cut him off.


Hopefully one day I'm in a position where I can fully bring him out of that life... But I gotta focus on solidifying myself first.

Thats my bro tho.... 10+ years

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