Ever have a dream about a deceased loved one?

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Did it ever feel like yall "said goodbye" in your dreams?

I had a very vivid dream one time & I swear it mafe me feel at peace about my moms death

No, it was like my dreams were trolling me, i'd be like 'i thought you was dead ' and im all happy not knowing im dreaming and then i wake up and the reality hits me like but its been a few years and im not traumatized about the losses no more so it doesn't happen. And fortunately i haven't lost any close family yet not even grandparents so i haven't experienced that feeling of needing closure.

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

I have lucid dreams most nights as well.

I actually had a similar dream to @patscorpio recently. This girl that used to be a good friend of mine and I have lost contact with, haven't spoken to her in years.

I dreamt I was speaking to her and halfway through the conversation I realized she was a demon. I woke up right then, I was kinda shook.

I'm afraid whats gonna happen when I lose someone really close, gonna wake up straight :cry: status

As much as I loved my grandma I felt like that wasn't too hard to get over. But moms and pops or my siblings

 

[AZBeauty]

One of my best friends. He was killed shortly after I left him. He kept calling my phone asking me to come back (I told him I'd be back) but I didnt and a few hours later he was killed. I have dreams about him all the time. In one dream, we were talking and he told me it was my fault he died. He told me he waited on me as long as he could. I know it was my own conscious though.

 

[Pack2]

One of my best friends. He was killed shortly after I left him. He kept calling my phone asking me to come back (I told him I'd be back) but I didnt and a few hours later he was killed. I have dreams about him all the time. In one dream, we were talking and he told me it was my fault he died. He told me he waited on me as long as he could. I know it was my own conscious though.

Damn...that's fukked up. That would bother me like crazy. Glad you're together enough to realize it is your conscious and not blame yourself based on that.

 

[AZBeauty]

Damn...that's fukked up. That would bother me like crazy. Glad you're together enough to realize it is your conscious and not blame yourself based on that.

Initially, I blamed my husband because he is the one who didn't want me to go back to hang out. We were upset with each other so I went to a card game with my friend. My husband called asking me can I meet him at home and I did but ended up staying in for the night. My friend called me at least 5 times telling me to come back out saying I was wrong for bouncing on him. He ended up getting really drunk at the card game, got into with someone and they killed him a few hours later.

 

[Pack2]

Initially, I blamed my husband because he is the one who didn't want me to go back to hang out. We were upset with each other so I went to a card game with my friend. My husband called asking me can I meet him at home and I did but ended up staying in for the night. My friend called me at least 5 times telling me to come back out saying I was wrong for bouncing on him. He ended up getting really drunk at the card game, got into with someone and they killed him a few hours later.

that's some sad shyt...can't blame yourself or your husband for those circumstances. I know that's gotta be hard on your conscious though. Sorry to hear that and wish you the best in dealing with that.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Initially, I blamed my husband because he is the one who didn't want me to go back to hang out. We were upset with each other so I went to a card game with my friend. My husband called asking me can I meet him at home and I did but ended up staying in for the night. My friend called me at least 5 times telling me to come back out saying I was wrong for bouncing on him. He ended up getting really drunk at the card game, got into with someone and they killed him a few hours later.

They shot him?

 

[AZBeauty]

They shot him?

Yes

 

[Roberto Dinero]

I'm afraid whats gonna happen when I lose someone really close, gonna wake up straight :cry: status

As much as I loved my grandma I felt like that wasn't too hard to get over. But moms and pops or my siblings

When my grandparent's died (on my moms side, pops side they still alive) it didn't affect me that much cause they were old and had lived full lives. If someone closer to me dies it would be harder to deal with, luckily it hasn't happened, at least not yet.

But this girl I dreamed about, I haven't spoken to her in over 10 years. Sometimes I wonder if she's still alive. She's my age so she should be OK but in life, u never know.

I dream about her often, I don't know why. But that dream I had where I saw her as a demon was scary cause I had never seen her that way before.

 

[the artist known az]

The couple of dreams I had of my friend that died it felt like when you haven't seen someone in a while & you just hang out and catch up. The last dream I had of him I remember saying that he was alright when I asked him, but he didn't seem happy. Almost like you can tell something was bothering him. I also remember that after a while of talking he said that he had to go & that's when he looked like he was sad. That dream was so damn real

 

[Harry Sax]

Initially, I blamed my husband because he is the one who didn't want me to go back to hang out. We were upset with each other so I went to a card game with my friend. My husband called asking me can I meet him at home and I did but ended up staying in for the night. My friend called me at least 5 times telling me to come back out saying I was wrong for bouncing on him. He ended up getting really drunk at the card game, got into with someone and they killed him a few hours later.

u was fukkin him???

 

[jmegamar]

Whenever a close family member dies i always without fail have a dream about hanging with them and saying goodbye. This always happens at the moment they past. There usually in the hospital and I'm at home. The one about my dad got to me so bad, I couldn't tell my mom about it that night.

 

[AZBeauty]

u was fukkin him???

No, of course not. He was my friend. We were friends from grade school.

 

[RealestSinceKumbaya]

I had a dream with one of my uncles who got murdered while on vacation like 2 weeks after his death... He didn't say anything though he was just there. Same thing with one of my childhood friends who killed himself back in 07.

The other night, I had a dream and my grandmother was in it, she died about 5 years ago. She was trying to tell me something but I couldn't understand her for shyt. Woke up feeling really weird

 

[Mantle Drunk]

I was having dreams almost nightly of my friend after he died but in one of them I was hanging out at a party and he was there it freaked me the fukk out and he was trying to talk to me but I would respond because I thought I was seeing things and my other friends at the party would think I was crazy. He looked so dejected when I wasn't aknowleding him. Then I fell to my ass and felt real dizzy and woke up.

One of the next nights I had a dream we were at a bar and me and him were sitting there talking having a good time when it came to me he was dead and I said I miss you and we hugged and he said he missed me to and you could tell he knew what I ment by that. Since then I maybe have had 1 or 2 dreams with him in it.