Every breh I've met who complains about the dating field, has no rizz, don't project confidence, one tone of voice ass nikka, soft spoken

[africngiant]

life is boring and monotonous for the most part why should one have to constantly expect for their potential sig. other to not have a “boring appeal” and entertain them for no reason (ie the black community)? it’s only so much shyt to talk about and do in life. these hoes is rinsed by now anyway, if you can string a coherent sentence together as a man, i dont see what the problem is still in their eyes.

only the black community requires these prerequisites for mid ass hoes. im not tryna be a fukkin jester respectfully

 

[hood b. goode]

Op came on here on 7 am on a Sunday to get this post off

 

[SadimirPutin]

Meh

People are rarely charisma'ed into anything....

 

[Nymbus]

Nah you can gain and lose it at any time

Reminds me of the time I screwed up my shave and haircut 4 years ago. I was walking around bald faced with a fukked up fade for 2 weeks
Massive drop off in aura , it affected my confidence, even my coworkers noticed a shift in energy. My voice didn't have its usual bass

 

[Jazzy B.]

I find that many women (not all) gravitate to men who have a passion of sorts (i.e. entrepreneurial, philanthropic, volunteer work, etc.). That passion is sorta their rizz.

Naw You've got attractive and/or established women messing with bums and aint shyt brehs off LOOKS


This is really the reason why men are angered/complain.


They are being moral, playing by the rules and then seeing attractive women REPEATEDLY open their legs for so called "bad", "problematic" or "Toxic" men. Then these women ONLY circle back when it's time for a CLEAN UP MAN

 

[The Wolf Among You]

Naw You've got attractive and/or established women messing with bums and aint shyt brehs off LOOKS


This is really the reason why men are angered/complain.


They are being moral, playing by the rules and then seeing attractive women REPEATEDLY open their legs for so called "bad", "problematic" or "Toxic" men. Then these women ONLY circle back when it's time for a CLEAN UP MAN

I think the problem is that those brehs assume that those women are good based only on looks. Her dating a toxic bum ass nikka means she’s a toxic bum ass bytch herself.
Why would a dude with good intentions want to attach himself to a woman like that?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

So not a loud, attention seeking, fake ass nikka

 

[Mank1nd]

I dapped the OP but I disagree with "the whole, "you aint Gucci Mane stay in ya Lane trope". That is applied to the quality of the women you'd want to attract, not the appearance. As a man, you can bag any woman regardless of looks as long as she's feeling you. Its like you're a Urkel type breh but wanting a Lora type that does Myra type shyt. So now, you changed up to be Steffon, thinking this going to help you achieve that then when it doesnt you mad and confused . So, its not really stay in your lane but moreso, "you will attract what you are."

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

My grandma on my moms side was a teacher and owned a single family home with my grandfather in the 60s.

You still don’t need all the stuff OP listed in the 70s and 80s. A soft spoken bus driver with no swag could get married and start a family.

Maybe OP over exaggerated. But you still need to be confident and thats lacking in a majority of dudes who often complain about women.

 

[Jazzy B.]

I think the problem is that those brehs assume that those women are good based only on looks. Her dating a toxic bum ass nikka means she’s a toxic bum ass bytch herself.
Why would a dude with good intentions want to attach himself to a woman like that?

Well we are visual


Let's not act like a man with an attractive woman by his side isn't held in high regard by society.


+ In the BC it's upside down. In other communities the women for the most part date up and if they get dogged out it's by successful/established/career men. If it was primarily like this in the BC I don't think brehs would complain as there is a more logical reason as to why the women messed with the man in the first place compared to say a bum or aint shyt breh.

 

[Snake316]

I dont trust people who talk fast all the time

Right, there has to be a balance. Most great speakers throughout history talk steady and take necessary pauses. Talking really fast is off putting.

Listen to some of the great speakers throughout history. John F. Kennedy, Barack Obama, MLK, and Ronald Reagan. They do not talk fast ever.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

Women aren’t my priority

You gay?

 

[Scaaar]

Brehs ain’t want to face the truth so they focusing on the word “rizz”

Truth is you can say the word rizz in front of the hoes, yeah they might think it’s corny but it’s how you react to their reactions… as a man who got “it” you suppose to not give a fukk. Yeah I said rizz and I’ll fukking say it again

Dating game is rigged… make a thread about the problems of dating online and you got a plat on the coli… it’s like it never crossed the Coli posters mind you don’t have to play the rigged game


Some dudes complain about the dating process from stage 1 and then there are dudes who complain after smashing, like yo this chick crazy why she doing this or man guess all the stupid shyt she be doing…. Stage 1 dudes only the ones heated talking about they’re done like they been in a the game for 20 years as a hall of famer

And someone said charisma isn’t something you can learn. I disagree. It’s all relative. You don’t need to be the person everyone likes, the guy who talks to everyone to have charisma in my opinion.

You go to a party and all the girls clearly not into you… so what? You supposed to have the confidence to know that just ain’t your crowd. You supposed to know someone is out there for you that there’s a particular group that will fukk with you…

If you’re an anti-social dude who spouts holier than thou on the coli there’s someone still for you, there are anti-social girls who post goofy shyt on websites and what not too… you supposed to find your lane

Preaching breh! I would rep if I could

 

[VegetasHairline]

You gay?

Says the man who just wrote he'd rape me on my profile page.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

Says the man who just wrote he'd rape me on my profile page.

I meant it too