Every breh I've met who complains about the dating field, has no rizz, don't project confidence, one tone of voice ass nikka, soft spoken

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Bro please. If you think every "Bob from accounting" had rizz, you brazy

My Father is bout 5' 9'', high yellow, zero tattoos, not gang affiliated NOR "6 certs", likes jazz music and tennis. You know damn well the average black women would call a breh like that corny in 2025. My Father got married right before crack/gang culture really took hold, so the concept of a breh being corny or lame didn't even exist like that.

Your pops didn't have tattoos, liked jazz which was still super popular at the time, and like tennis which was popular amongst black people i.e Arthur Ashe. Back then he wasn't lame or corny.

The fact that people consider basic social skills "rizz" is why women think men are lame and corny.

Mfs are just socially inept. You can understandably point the finger at media. Look at tv and movies and see how many mumbling, stuttering fukks are "introverted" and "eccentric" and can't look people in the eye. They highlight pauses and idiosyncrasies as a form of humor and the character trope of being awkward or shy went from side character to main character.
 

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Again, as I told the other poster, in the BC having an attractive woman is highly praised.


i don't know why y'all are now in here playing dumb.


Anytime there's a discussion whether a breh should leave his woman who isn't treating him right it's led with "you/he can get a badder woman"


No better example than this than - WILL SMITH and Jada.
If you base your value as a man on having an attractive woman than you're already down bad and deserve whatever happens. How low is your self worth that others self validation factors that much into how you choose to operate in life?How about having actual solid woman that's there for you and supports you and your vision?

Why are you using a celebrity relationship like Will and Jada as a basis for how you move in life?! Y'all don't sound centered or grounded as men at all! just going along with the wind and changing the way you operate based on which direction it's pointing that day. If you stand firm in who you are as a man you don't have these types of problems.
 

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It’s true. There are some men out here that can’t have a basic conversation, or they spend the initial getting to know you stage talking manosphere babble. What woman wants to hear this? Who wants to have dry ass conversations? They don’t want do anything but expect the most.
 

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It’s true. There are some men out here that can’t have a basic conversation, or they spend the initial getting to know you stage talking manosphere babble. What woman wants to hear this? Who wants to have dry ass conversations? They don’t want do anything but expect the most.
Facts! Some of my cousins fell down that manosphere rabbit hole. Couldn't even go to the bar or house sets because they would kill the vibe talking that BS and scaring the hoes and ruining the night:francis: :francis:
 
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Says the man who just wrote he'd rape me on my profile page.
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He has diddly in his name :takedat:

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If you base your value as a man on having an attractive woman than you're already down bad and deserve whatever happens. How low is your self worth that others self validation factors that much into how you choose to operate in life?How about having actual solid woman that's there for you and supports you and your vision?

Why are you using a celebrity relationship like Will and Jada as a basis for how you move in life?! Y'all don't sound centered or grounded as men at all! just going along with the wind and changing the way you operate based on which direction it's pointing that day. If you stand firm in who you are as a man you don't have these types of problems.

I am simply telling you how the BC runs.

I used will and Jada as one example, and I CLEARLY SAID:

Anytime there's a discussion whether a breh should leave his woman who isn't treating him right it's led with "you/he can get a badder woman"

Go and search every coli thread about whether a breh should leave a woman and it's led with the above.
 

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Your pops didn't have tattoos, liked jazz which was still super popular at the time, and like tennis which was popular amongst black people i.e Arthur Ashe. Back then he wasn't lame or corny.

The fact that people consider basic social skills "rizz" is why women think men are lame and corny.

Mfs are just socially inept. You can understandably point the finger at media. Look at tv and movies and see how many mumbling, stuttering fukks are "introverted" and "eccentric" and can't look people in the eye. They highlight pauses and idiosyncrasies as a form of humor and the character trope of being awkward or shy went from side character to main character.
I get what you saying but the fact you are lowkey using "introverted" as an insult (which I've seen multiple people do on this board) is a sign of our modern culture. Believe it or not, in some places a man being introverted won't necessarily hold him back. Not every country is as chatty patty as America, only Mexico and Italy are close IMO.

I think there were more spaces for people to congregate back in the day so dudes didn't have to rely as much on DMs and cold approaches which rewards dudes with certain types of dispositions
 

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Yeah the women circled back. They didn't club the dude over the head. He willingly chose to get in a relationship with her even knowing her past. So he chose to be the cleanup man so it says a lot about him. You can't blame the woman for putting yourself in that role :childplease:

Again, what in the hell are you talking about? :dahell:


THIS is what I said

Then these women ONLY circle back when it's time for a CLEAN UP MAN :picard:

My statement was regarding the action of the women and why men feel a way.

Also these millionaire brehs you mentioned are also lames. They just have bread which gives them an easier lane to encounter those women y'all lust after. But they act the same as some of these whiny coli brehs. That's why they get treated like the sucka they are and drained for all of their bread on top of it too. :mjlol:

Your point was men who are on the internet complaining aren't seen as "that dude". I told you celebrity men are also complaining on the internet. You are now calling them "lames" yet women see them as "that dude"
 

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Mfs really think this guy
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is lame and corny. And let's face it. He is. All them books he has he, needs to finish reading because he obviously doesn't have the knowledge to understand why a woman wouldn't like him over any other guy. This guy isn't a man. He doesn't have the knowledge and confidence to make it in the world. He's literally physically not built for survival. Look at his posture, slouched shoulders, head down, weak, timid, unsure of himself. This dude ain't in his final form, he's a work in progress. He really shouldn't be looking at women, he needs to finish them damn books. He ain't even read the books he's just struggling to hold them. Now isn't his time. And just because he wants her, or people make fun of him doesn't mean it's his time.

Now look at this dude
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proud of his appearance, already rocking jewelry, has tattoos...maybe even works out. That's a dude who has it right now. Not someone who's working on getting it. This dude has money or is getting it. This dude punches people in the face or is willing to. This dude knows what he wants and goes for it. He looks people in the eye, talks with confidence, not a wavering low tone. What they never show is this guy before the tattoos, before the jewelry, before the abs and pecs. That dude was the same as the book nerd- he was a work in progress.

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This guy, supposedly the final form. Stands up straight. Eyes sharp. This is a guy with knowledge and experience, one who has defined himself and isn't timid and shy. It's only now he is ready to get the broads.

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These two guys are the same type of guy. They aren't shy, aren't timid, know who they are, and know their worth. They are ready to play, right now. Not sitting on the bench hoping for a future opportunity.


Broads want a dude ready now. Not some dude working his way up. Not some dude getting ready. Not some dude getting ready to get ready. Cats are out here holding books but want the same props as the people who've read them, lived them or applied them.
 

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I get what you saying but the fact you are lowkey using "introverted" as an insult.
I'm not using introverted as an insult. It's not a bad thing. Neither is being stoic.

Being introverted doesn't mean not being able to navigate through daily life. You can be introverted but still have normal to advanced social skills.

A lot of people who actually showcase advance social skills or abilities (public speaking, entertaining, working with others) are actually introverted people.

The new people (men and women) just don't have the skills, don't have the tools. You have to be taught the skills and given the tools at a young age.
 

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If you a man and you don’t have a gang of women in your 30s you’re just socially awkward. As men become secure women become more desperate. If you a man with yourself together you should be eating unless you’re weird.:yeshrug:
 
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