Every breh I've met who complains about the dating field, has no rizz, don't project confidence, one tone of voice ass nikka, soft spoken

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I said this before but honestly I feel as though black men are the only group of men on the planet who get stigmatized for being regular, if we are not super extrovert and charismatic, being a jester and entertainer towards people then we are automatically labeled “swag less” and lame.

Nobody should have to change who they are to impress anyone, there’s a lane and avenue for every man out here. Granted it’s never good to become bitter about your situation.

Christ died for you all, there’s no reason for anyone to feel bitter and down about themselves. If you have Jesus then all is good and anything is possible.
 

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I said this before but honestly I feel as though black men are the only group of men on the planet who get stigmatized for being regular, if we are not super extrovert and charismatic, being a jester and entertainer towards people then we are automatically labeled “swag less” and lame.

Nobody should have to change who they are to impress anyone, there’s a lane and avenue for every man out here. Granted it’s never good to become bitter about your situation.

Christ died for you all, there’s no reason for anyone to feel bitter and down about themselves. If you have Jesus then all is good and anything is possible.
Regular black men get women all the time. It’s the socially maladjusted that don’t.
 

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But in the animes you can train your power level and increase your aura :lupe:
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Listening to podcast and going through “Alpha” boot camps is like training in an hyperbolic chamber.
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Dating is different from a relationship.
That's where the issues start with ppl nowadays

I'm handsome gang and in shape and have no problem getting dates.
 

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I’ve frequent message boards for the last 20 plus years. Always been my preferred form of “social media.” I’ve defended this particular board for years, tried to explain to others that it’s like this and not like that etc. While I maintain a life outside of this, it’s amazing how pathetic some of you sound. Maybe because I’m from where I’m from, done what I done, been where I been that I can’t relate but why people “struggling” with women? Why are people struggling with a “career” etc.

Pardon my rant, I’m overwhelmed with the amount of bytch ass ness on here sometimes. Fukk

Go out and get it! If not, shut the fukk up and figure it out
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I Thinks it's still entirely based on looks. That's a cope.

It's more of a case where people who look good Happen to be engaged in passionate work , and get women because they look good. It's not a case of a passionate person pulling women like a magnet because of their passion. I've been involved in nonprofit work where ugly brehs still crashed and burned :mjlol:


If a moldemort looking breh literally ends world hunger, I gauruntee you that ain't no women gravitating in his direction.

No it's not, some brehs just be boring
 

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Breh, you pulled this shyt out of my mind. I was thinking this yesterday while reading one out of the hundreds of threads made daily crying about dating.

If I’m being honest, there is literally no reason why a man shouldn’t get some form of p*ssy. Even if he looks like Quasimodo, ugly ass parents had to fukk for that motherfukker to be here. But dudes are constantly trying to bite shyt that their teeth can’t chew. If you’re ugly, sorry, the odds of you getting a chick that looks like Megan thee Stallion or Karruche is slim to none( unless you’re rich or famous or lvl 1000 charismatic). You may have to fukk on a chick that looks like Monique or Luenell until you get those stats up

I met a passport bro today

It all made sense
 

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OP made a lot of good points, but y'know, there's a segment of dudes on here stuck in their ways, as well as being jealous of other guys they perceive to be doing better than them in terms not only of looks, personality, etc, but especially of them having healthy relationships with women, whether that's platonically, or romantically.

Some of the guys on here never had a real girlfriend, they might've smashed a few girls, but don't really know what it feels like to be in a warm and loving relationship with a woman that isn't just based on sex so when you're speaking on stuff like this they get a little aggravated 'cause they can't relate.

It's unfortunate, but sadly, that's the case with some brothas on here; they're still learning or searching for late into adulthood, what it's like to be in a healthy relationship with a woman.
 
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