It's a lot of mental gymnastics, and gaslighting goin on up in here. 
Tryin to project the double-reverse onto to straight males, that you have some sort of repressed feelins, cuz you don't wanna chill around men, who take pipe...as if you're "insecure".
To articulate it clearly...I'm a straight male, could care less what another nkka does on his personal time, and have NO INSECURITY about a fruit-loop in my presence. As long as you keep it respectful, we're good.
Wit that said...
I'm still not out nd about wit no gay nkka. What you wanna do... chill wit another man, and have him catch feelins in conversation? Is that what dudes into now?
Two different worlds, and
"perception is reality". When it comes to gay men, now you repressed nkkas wanna move goalposts.
And 9/10 females I've ever dealt wit, or been close to are gonna question you're sexuality. IDC how righteous they tricked you into thinkin they are. Behind your back, or once shyt goes sour, you're IMMEDIATELY getting labeled as
I'm masculine energy. A gay nkka gonna eventually feel uncomfortable in my presence (the same way females would in a mens locker room). For some of y'all, it's obviously the other way.
I was raised amongst wolves (which is my comfort-zone). Maybe that speaks more to your nature, if your comfort-zone is in the presence of zesty, and flamboyant males. I'd have to question myself, and have a deep conversation.