Every man is homophobic, stop the cap

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Real story.

Worked in an office with a dude that was outted for being in gay porn by another co worker. Dude was on the cover of an adult film. shyt wasn't discreet, he was a pass around on camera. Disturbing shyt

A bunch of us would smoke joints after work. The gay dude would always try to join the cypher. Herein lies the issue. I can be tolerant and all but I refused to smoke with someone that is indiscriminately sucking dikks on their time off. I didn't care how the rest of my co-workers felt. This was also the time when I stopped passing joints around with people years ago. Nope...


Swap spit with other men and then try and have standards brehs
 

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Swap spit with other men and then try and have standards brehs
Ahh... you must be one of them fools that put his whole trout mouth on a joint and wet the filter. :scust:

That didn't happen in my story which was the point. Learn how to smoke without giving the blunt head homosexual. We got weed etiquette over here. I'm Harlem certified baby.
 

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But you must admit that you are an outlier among men because of your unique situation with your brother.


OP is right. The avg man aint trying to do all that. And before somebody comes in here saying some ignorant sht like “im not afraid of gay people” , you gotta keep in mind that the term homophobia has nothing to do with the suffix phobia like in other words (for example agoraphobia or acrophobia), but actually means a “dislike” of gay people In modern lexicon.


if you are not actively or willingly associating with a person, object, or idea then that behavior encompasses “dislike” of it.




And lemme preface that by saying i am perfectly comfortable admitting that gays have been discriminated against and i dont think they should actively be persecuted for existing; but despite all that; i cant shake a certain feeling bordering between discomfort or disgust when im with them. i personally dont hold any particular animosity toward gay people and have no intention of harming them or depriving them of resources , but i sure as fck am not trying to be friends with them and hang out. It is what it is. I like to think of myself as a product of my era. We were socialized a certain way.:yeshrug:




I think this will change in the future with zoomers. In my own lifetime, ive seen a gradual shift among men from outright hostility to a “i dont care what people do among themselves” and a subtle acceptance of gays. So id imagine general favorability is the next step for the zoomers and their future offspring.

True story.

One of my former real good friends is gay.

Hid it for years, I found out through the grapevine basically.

We're now former friends because breh disappeared into the mists of Atlanta, not because I found out his truth.

I'd still be his friend today if he was around.

Yet, just being honest, I wouldn't be comfortable seeing that ish around me.

Makes my skin crawl, both sides(lesbian/gay men).

Yet if you ask me, I'd vote yes for their right to marry, etc. Just because I don't want to see it, doesn't mean I'm gonna try and impede their lives.

That's what it should be. "You do you, because it doesn't involve me."
 

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It's a lot of mental gymnastics, and gaslighting goin on up in here. :mjlol:

Tryin to project the double-reverse onto to straight males, that you have some sort of repressed feelins, cuz you don't wanna chill around men, who take pipe...as if you're "insecure".


To articulate it clearly...I'm a straight male, could care less what another nkka does on his personal time, and have NO INSECURITY about a fruit-loop in my presence. As long as you keep it respectful, we're good. :birdman:

Wit that said...I'm still not out nd about wit no gay nkka. What you wanna do... chill wit another man, and have him catch feelins in conversation? Is that what dudes into now? :hubie:

Two different worlds, and "perception is reality". When it comes to gay men, now you repressed nkkas wanna move goalposts. And 9/10 females I've ever dealt wit, or been close to are gonna question you're sexuality. IDC how righteous they tricked you into thinkin they are. Behind your back, or once shyt goes sour, you're IMMEDIATELY getting labeled as :wrist:

I'm masculine energy. A gay nkka gonna eventually feel uncomfortable in my presence (the same way females would in a mens locker room). For some of y'all, it's obviously the other way. :dame:

I was raised amongst wolves (which is my comfort-zone). Maybe that speaks more to your nature, if your comfort-zone is in the presence of zesty, and flamboyant males. I'd have to question myself, and have a deep conversation. :mjgrin:
💯 to the bolded. But that's the Coli. Nggas use the same old debate tricks. It's sad.
 

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I have no ill will or any issues with homosexuals, i would have no problem whatsoever having a friend or buddy with one and hanging out just as i do with other friends as well. I hope people dont judge me as a black man on the worst traits and stereotypes of other black men and i will extend the same courtesy to other groups and people as well
 

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It was a joke!
Most men like p*ssy, some men like dikk, what's the big deal? :manny:

If you're Black at least, I'm looking at that first, IDC what adults do with other consenting adults
 

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Last thread was meaning of life is pointlesss n u hate everything.....:why:



now a homophobic thread........:childplease:

the pieces of the puzzle coming together......:jbhmm:


free yourself dawg......:blessed:


your whole perspective will change no doubt :lolbron:


live your truth :youngsabo:






.......












NBKI.gif
 

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amazing that we have this thread, then in another thread people are mad at me for saying eating ass is disgusting because theres no difference between a mans and a womans a$$hole.

which leads me to the conclusion that there are tons of homophobic brehs on here who eat ass

:patrice:

:ohhh:

Empty+coat+closets+with+hangers+ready+for+guests


come on out brehs
 

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I have gay friends who I’ve hung out with, and my brother is gay. It’s not a big deal. We aren’t hanging out talking about gay shyt. We’re at the bar watching sports, or at the game, or record shopping, or eating. Who cares.

you mean gay folks are just regular normal people just like us straights? :ohhh:
 

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People need to stop trynna regulate other people as if they’re our parents. If you don’t like the man’s content, block him. Stop trynna censor and block the man’s viewership because you’re an offended fakkit. :what:

You remember the time you were saying you were confused, and didn't understand why people say you're a shytty poster who says really stupid shyt all the time?
:unimpressed:
 

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I don't know any man that has given this that much thought. Who goes around calling themselves an "ally"?
 
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