Do we mean full on penis to ginie tag action? a lil head? or a kiss.....

there has to be varying degrees right?
Feminism 3.0 says if you've ever watched porn, you've cheated.
So no need to even ask about "degrees". We're already guilty in most Women's minds and why fight it? They fuel it themselves.
In the 1950's you'd have to seduce a housewife for MONTHS before she would even think about inviting you over when her husband is not home. I am not saying exceptions did not occur or there wasn't fukkery. But the level of it was controlled which reduced the motivation for most Men and the quantity of events.
You had wives who refused to fukk other Men while their husbands were off in War before WWII ended. You had wives who never fukked another Man again after getting word their husband lost their life serving this nation.
Today, a young nikka just needs to give a MILF some weed and he's in the p*ssy. Sure she can have a baby daddy but the closeness of her relationship with him will depend on that time of the month, what drug that other nikka is supplying and how agitated she is with child rearing a child she
CHOSE to bring into this world.
So there is really no point in talking about "cheating" because Women's sexual liberation means she gets to fukk all the big dikks she wants and you just have to accept it. Meanwhile if she sends a man a text message of her p*ssy "She's just exploring her boundaries".
This is why I have unapologetic masculinity. It is the only appropriate response to their unapologetic feministing bullcrap being spouted on the daily basis.