Also people just have different ideas on going out and what’s interesting. I was on and off talking with a chick who if asked would say her hobbies or going out was going to restaurants and shopping. So while I’m a homebody those two things aren’t even worth saying. Going to dinner, movies etc don’t even register but that’s just me. I generally do things for the people I’m with and less for the activity (except sports) but some people value the opposite.
Everyman I come across online is a....
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Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
I am home body, when I am outside my house I am either at the gym, playing soccer or hooping. I do like to hit coffee shop once in a while just to study for personal development. When I want to do events, I just do meetups.
The people that usually out for meetups and hobbies aren't really looking to find a bf or gf. Mutual friends may be a better idea.
The Prince of All Saiyans
Formerly Jisoo Stan & @Twitter
i don't talk about girls on here or twitter
it's just not worth it
i feel tho as a lot of people on here are very bitter
it's just not worth it
i feel tho as a lot of people on here are very bitter
Either of the 2 is occurring
Scenario 1#
OP you are just not ATTRACTIVE enough to most men to risk being seen out in public with...
You are probably what they call a BREAK N CASE of EMERGENCY BYATCH
A woman a dude resorts to just fukking cause he is out of options or don't want to be seen publicly with
Scenario 2#
It's a generational thing... What I've noticed is that most people under the age of 30 are NOT TRADITIONALY DATING
No going out for dinner dates...no movies....mofos aint even going out for just some wings and drinks
It's gotten so extreme...
That it's gone from Netflix and Chill to Firestick and Dikk
Sorry dear... Only suggestion I have is to date men over 30
Or start Carpet munching
Cause that's the only ones dating these days are the O.Gs and the DIKES..
also because they have the expendable income
because trust me....if that dude ain't taking YOU out...you best believe he finds somone ATTRACTIVE enough and WORTH SPENDING MONEY on to take out..
it's JUST NOT YOU
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ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
Never. I'm attracted to social men. It's pretty common sense though.How many times did you fall for it before you figured that out?
Lord_nikon
Veteran
home or on the computer is were the heart is
UpThruDere
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Most women are pretty boring themselves that’s why they always need some outside form of stimuli to compensate for it, they just have to be “doing something” just for the sake of doing it with no real purpose outside of bragging rights to their “friends(aka other women that they don’t even really like but just like to hang around)” or taking pictures of it
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
I've never dated anyone who claimed to be a person who likes to sit at home. Sorry to disappoint you. How many times has it worked for you?
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
OP sounds boring and intellectually unstimulating. You claim to meet people online- which means they may lack the desire to socialize in public settings or they need a very good reason to want to interact or go out in public bc they are secure enough with their own company. What do you have to offer? What are you contributing? I hope there’s more to you than what this thread suggest because the tone of your responses seem to lack any substance. Do they feel that you are a diminishing value or are you worth the return on their investment?? What are the alternatives ? Most people who say they are homebodies do so bc they don’t want the additional drama or disruption coming from negative people. Therefore, you may have to reasses some shyt about you.
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