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OP what's your scene? What are some things you are into?

Also consider, sometimes opposites attract. Some of my married friends are complete opposites when it comes to this type of stuff.
One couple I know the husband is a homebody and his wife is the life of the party. She has a pretty wide social circle and he is good chilling at the crib or inviting some of his friends over. It works for them.:yeshrug:
 
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True.

Us women have to be extremely careful not to internalize and take personal the moves some of these men make. They do what they do because they get results from other women. Simple as that.
Also, we think if we carry ourselves a certain way that it should speak for us. Not always the case.
They understand actions and they do play the hell out of themselves. By the time they realize their errors, regroup and strategize they have killed all kinds of opportunities. You have the men who know this so they try to limit "get more acquainted" conversations, platonic meetings in public, etc and rush in effectively blocking himself, lol.

for sure, but for me, smart is my favorite type. it takes a smart person to know that you can't approach every situation the same even if that approach has worked before. it might be different if i was the one pursuing them, but it was the other way so of course i'm going to be more judgmental :yeshrug:
 

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for sure, but for me, smart is my favorite type. it takes a smart person to know that you can't approach every situation the same even if that approach has worked before. it might be different if i was the one pursuing them, but it was the other way so of course i'm going to be more judgmental :yeshrug:
Right.
 
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