Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

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Lol

You're right, he didn't lol

Well it's too bad that you disagree, because you did and that is part of the sentiment around this discussion from anyone on your side of the argument.

If the family unit is no longer the end all be all, then trying to use that as a manner to judge another man is contradictory, which you are in fact doing, judging, between that notion, and "laughing" at men on my side of the table.

While I think a single man signing that contract in the 21st century is doing himself a disservice, I and most cats will hope for them to be above the odds. It's always y'all with the judgement.

Breh… you’re the one who came with the “laugh at that logic” energy and now you’re playing the victim when a mirror is held up to you.

:martin:

Grown men who type “lol” are usually passive aggressive or flirting. You may fall into a third, lesser known category that I’m unaware of, so I’ll reserve judgement, even though you jumped out the window initially trying to judge me and men who value traditional families.

Let’s call it an agreement to disagree at this point.

:hubie:
 

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Most single men/women over the age of 28 are single for a reason.

The most stable relationships with two good partners, college educated, by the time they’re 28 are already an into it a few years and maybe have 1 or more kids they’re raising together.

You aren’t going to keep up with them happy couples who have a solid foundation.
 

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all the shyt that you fantasized wanting to spoil and excite them with they already experienced 20 dikks ago.

all interactions now at this age are soulless and no longer pleasurable/self fulfilling. especially if you’re a late bloomer like i am
Exactly

These chick done been “In love” like a hundred times by now…



All with aint shyt nikkas though, so it’s never them :unimpressed:




We supposed to be satisfied with the scraps of themselves thats left that they say they are bringing to the table. :unimpressed:
 

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Any girl advice for the brehs @Buckeye Fever ?
Just know who you are dealing with and act accordingly.

Don't waste romantic poetry on women who ask if you want some head instead of asking if you want anything to eat.

Know the type of dudes she has dated. If she has been with sex fiends, take her away for the weekend, get a hotel room, but DON'T have sex. Just hold her. She'll tell herself "Oh, he different different"
 

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Too many failed relationships and too much deadend dating.

Too many sexual experiences with too many different partners.

Still on and off with our exs.

Too much social media has warped your perception of what love and a relationship is.

Too much red pill or feminism.

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with. You're to bitter and stuck in yours ways and your standards from your prime.


There's a reason people got married so young, we weren't meant to date and sleep with so many people.





There are No happy endings for most of us . :mjcry:


Provocative Posting
 

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Breh… you’re the one who came with the “laugh at that logic” energy and now you’re playing the victim when a mirror is held up to you.

:martin:

Grown men who type “lol” are usually passive aggressive or flirting. You may fall into a third, lesser known category that I’m unaware of, so I’ll reserve judgement, even though you jumped out the window initially trying to judge me and men who value traditional families.

Let’s call it an agreement to disagree at this point.

:hubie:
I'm pretty sure you're the first person to bring up laughing at someone with a different perspective than yours.
fukk all that.

Glad I’m not out there looking for a partner at my Larry Holmes age.

:flabbynsick:

Glad I got all the p*ssy I wanted in my 20s and 30s and got that cheating itch scratched and survived with my wife by my side too.

:whew:

Even in my 30s these women were burnt to a crisp looking for that one last fantasy fling before they fully embraced flabby and sickville. I can’t tell you how many newly separated and divorced pools I took a dip in. I had a helluva run.

:sas2:

I laugh at the brehs talking that dumb shyt about brehs “settling” because they’re afraid to be alone. When they get to 40+ and that blood pressure starts hitting a lil different and health starts to become a ticking clock, they’re gonna wish they had some children around them who love them and a woman down like 4 flat tires.

:sas1:

A whole generation tricked into a lonely old existence.

:francis:
I typed lol because dude came with a book chapter of male feminist drivel that he usually comes with and is beyond giving a worthy response to. You seem to be falling into that category yourself at this point.

You keep harping on judgement as a projection point because that's exactly what you did with your post and feel some type of way about someone coming the exact way on the opposite side.

Have the last word because I'm making sure I won't be able to see what it is, though I'm sure it'll consist of some side of the neck implication about me that wouldn't be said in person over a topic that is clearly going through a radical change for a wide net of Western men, relative to the generations for which it was upheld.
 

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Most single men/women over the age of 28 are single for a reason.

The most stable relationships with two good partners, college educated, by the time they’re 28 are already an into it a few years and maybe have 1 or more kids they’re raising together.

You aren’t going to keep up with them happy couples who have a solid foundation.
Man's path is different and the hill is steeper with COL and certain opportunities being automated out. 28 is too young to try to say that about a man.
 

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If you're 30+ or 40+.

You should be running around universities, doing morning runs around the Hudson River Pier, or Santa Monica, or wherever you live.

Should hit a book club or movie club in the city.

Go to Patagonia stores. Go to jazz shows.

Hit up dance classes in the city.

Get into cultural centers.

Go places where women generally have it together.

Wildcards
Foreign girls who have it together and come from decent families. Dutch, German, Swedish, Chinese, etc.

Find a first round pick
You can find a first round pick. This is an amazing girl who got into a relationship early with another first rounder and then kind of realized that wasn't for her and is now looking for something real.

Second/Third Rounders
These are girls who didn't have it together early on but are now wise enough to understand what it takes.
 

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Most single men/women over the age of 28 are single for a reason.

The most stable relationships with two good partners, college educated, by the time they’re 28 are already an into it a few years and maybe have 1 or more kids they’re raising together.

You aren’t going to keep up with them happy couples who have a solid foundation.

You basically have to come from that for that to work.

If you come from a stable two parent household where the parents actually did the job of raising you, its much easier to find that person in college.

But those are first rounders or lottery picks.

If you didnt have that, years of figuring shyt out.
 

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Man's path is different and the hill is steeper with COL and certain opportunities being automated out. 28 is too young to try to say that about a man.
Truth is, especially in America it’s really hard to get it going in your 30’s without a great support system and people being patient with you. Like 30’s without your shyt together and you’re really behind many people at that point.

You basically have to come from that for that to work.

If you come from a stable two parent household where the parents actually did the job of raising you, its much easier to find that person in college.

But those are first rounders or lottery picks.

If you didnt have that, years of figuring shyt out.
Yeah, this basically.
 
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