Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Apollo Creed]

This is precisely what it is for alot of these brehs. I don't encounter these types of women but I also don't put myself in proximity for it to even happen. Elevate yourself and then the type of women you encounter will elevate too.

you nikkas be saying any damn thing

 

[Apollo Creed]

Thats where I either feel like my time has passed for a seriously relationship or where I’m conflicted with dating younger.


Most these single women cooked… 18 and up. Just saw a chick that was trying to holla at me post she was in a relationship like a month later…


A whole month huh


Motherfukkers are desperate… not trying to get with a woman as her last resort, last option, you could be making well over 6 figures but in LAST place in the respect and care department, not bringing any drama or anything from the past (kids included)., etc.

Yet they want HVM, status preferences, height preferences, dikk policing, etc., just to be treated like the last option or beneath them somehow because I’m a bm

We have a cultural issue happening point blank there isn't an age range you can escape things. The issue is nikkas want to play stupid while Black Society and eventually rest burns to a crisp.

 

[Scaaar]

you nikkas be saying any damn thing

Hey if you keep running into mudducks out here. Maybe you're just a duck too. Don't have those problems or issues in my life. Dating is going just fine on this end

 

[Scaaar]

its not....

unfortunately im in these streets.....

there are some of old broads with some sense.....granted...they arent the majority....but there some out there

He one of those pessimistic people that just think dating is trash and tries to poison the well for others. Because his situation sucks he wants to ruin it for other brehs. Even with you telling him not all women are bad he still goes against it because it doesn't fit his narrative. But like I said if all you keep running into is trash women. You need to look in the mirror and reevaluate yourself. Because there's a reason that type of women is attracted to you and it's not because you're a good upstanding catch.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I got an unfathomable amount of cooch in my late teens to mid thirties. Talking literally hundreds of bodies over 18 years…and they all start to feel like a blur and all start to feel the same, because these bytches are. All emotionally and mentally unstable and a fukking drain on your resources as a man…your money and, more importantly, your time and mental health. They’re ultimately not worth it…There are some rare, very special women that are worth giving the world to, I’m sure of. But good luck ever finding her now, in my mid forties, I’m over shyt. I view dating as completely pointless and a massive waste of my time…I spend every waking moment on self improvement. Always in that gym, working on my mental health, staying out of the way, stacking this money, etc. I had fun. Done laid down some of the finest women California done had to offer. And Lord knows they was fine

But even Michael Jordan eventually had to hang em up Can’t play forever…everything is temporary, including this life itself….gotta transition and focus on self…a woman will destroy everything you’ve built if you let her.…don’t lack dikk discipline and mental clarity and focus…no p*ssy will ever be worth that….stay moving onward and upward gentlemen…

 

[Scaaar]

taking the time to think about that being happy

He walking around with that in his mind when he encounters women and wonder why it's looking shytty out here... Brehs defeatist attitude and worrying about what the next breh did is some weirdo stuff

 

[Human Torch]

Thread was a lot darker than I expected.

 

[Scaaar]

You dudes stay crying gah damm.

Op has been miserable the entire time he been posting here.

He stay getting you dudes to post about how sad and lonely yall are.

Then these be the same brehs swearing they're some HOH generals in here crying and whining. That's all these brehs do and I see why the chics ain't respecting them and treating them like tricks

 

[Ohene]

That sweet spot I think is 30. I think psychologically a lot of women feel the pressure at that age and tend to be a lot more cooperative. I fukked it up with 2 women who had great careers, early 30s, great rapport, bodies were right, no kids, etc... I just didn't put all of my chips in and subsequently fukked it up because I was chasing other chicks simultaneously.

I'm trying to learn to be content by myself until I find another gem like that, it's just so few and far between... I did it before. Not sure why I have have this chronic compulsion to keep dating everything lately. The irony I'm finding is, women with kids tend to even be less cooperative then women without.

like you said its a catch 22.

my disposition is to focus on one girl, and to be intentional / consistent. The unfortunate reality though is that most of these women don't reward that behavior. Yall will have attraction to each other, banter, fun dates etc. and they will still be holding back to the point where I feel like I am being taken advantage of and self destruct. Then the times I play it cool and just go with the flow, the woman gets mad over some bullshyt and ends up self-destructing or cutting me loose. This kinda flaky behavior makes me feel like one-itis only makes shyt worse. But like you said, juggling women can lead to conflict too because you spread yourself thin.

 

[Scaaar]

I been married and out the game awhile and the last of my nikkas who really doing something in they life just got engaged on some spin the block shyt like a couple weeks ago. So I can't pretend to fully know the dynamics of what nikkas is going through now, but in general I gotta call it like I see it based on what I saw with him and the shyt I see online. nikkas is just not realistic about what they should honestly be seeking in a relationship, and how they gotta go about getting it.

Its like these days dudes is almost as susceptible to dreams being sold to them as broads are. Living and dying by all these podcasts and shyt, and believing every nikka with a mic in front them telling them what they wanna hear.

I still remember years ago Irv Gotti got on a podcast talking about "I just want a young bytch who will love me for me and not ask me for any money" nikka WHAT You should have kept your bytch son, wtf would these young hoes want with you if money wasn't on the table? Like be for real my nikka.

Too many cats operating off wishful thinking. These chicks are smart breh. They are not going to agree to a bad deal, just like you ain't. You gotta assess what you're able/willing to give, and what you're asking for in a relationship. The likelihood of you being a 40 year old nikka pulling a 21-25 year old who wants you for you, will have your kids, and will split bills 50/50 and all that shyt is slim. Plan your dating life and act accordingly. You 45 and can provide a middle class lifestyle for a family. The 38 year old chick who ain't had kids yet but know her clock is ticking might be a better fit for you.

Thank you for speaking the truth breh! When I tell these brehs this they say I'm crushing their dreams just like the females say. I told yall that some of these brehs are just as delusional as the females they speak down on. Two sides of the very same coin. Lol

 

[africngiant]

all the shyt that you fantasized wanting to spoil and excite them with they already experienced 20 dikks ago.

all interactions now at this age are soulless and no longer pleasurable/self fulfilling. especially if you’re a late bloomer like i am

 

[Traveler]

Do not be a step dad. That's years of misery just waiting for you.

 

[Json]

I’m still confused as to why any man would let an age gap get in the way of finding the right woman… who gives a fukk what anyone says? Better to get them young before they’re cynical and jaded.

But are we the ones turning these 20 something into burnt 30 somethings…..

 

[Scaaar]

But are we the ones turning these 20 something into burnt 30 somethings…..

Exactly! They don't even realize they're the symptoms to their own problem. They don't even want to marry these young 20s chics just smash them and create the same jaded 30yr old women they're complaining about...smh

 

[Vandelay]

like you said its a catch 22.

my disposition is to focus on one girl, and to be intentional / consistent. The unfortunate reality though is that most of these women don't reward that behavior. Yall will have attraction to each other, banter, fun dates etc. and they will still be holding back to the point where I feel like I am being taken advantage of and self destruct. Then the times I play it cool and just go with the flow, the woman gets mad over some bullshyt and ends up self-destructing or cutting me loose. This kinda flaky behavior makes me feel like one-itis only makes shyt worse. But like you said, juggling women can lead to conflict too because you spread yourself thin.

Dog... They definitely... DEFINITELY don't reward that behavior. And I get every woman is different, but in 4 out 5 of them I can call it like clock work when they fall off. You show some vulnerability, indicate a stronger interest, or come off like you're not dating/capable of dating anyone else, something will self destruct and go awry and back to square one you go. And it's fukking beyond annoying.

This other chick I was talking to that I actually started to have interest in, we had a falling out 2 months ago, and it started with me and her starting to feel around what we were doing. shyt completely fell apart on some "should I be dating other people" "I need some space". And it wasn't me bringing the convo up, it started from some trivial shyt like I didn't hold the door open when we went to a dinner date... after 4 other flawless dates. I bring her up because she hit me up a little over a week ago and we started to go down the path of linking up again, but then I guess I told a corny "joke" and shortly self destructed again. Told her last week, I'm digging you but I'm not walking on eggshells in every interaction we have and left it like that.

To your point, I have to find one that I'm really interested in, put my effort in her and take a gamble. It sucks, because it can unravel... but at least I know I'm putting my best foot forward in that interaction.