Ozymandeas
Veteran
I been talking to a 43 year old. Bih got 3 kids and 3 grandkids. Had the audacity to tell me she was the prize. These broads is burnt out and delusional![]()
Dating a woman with grandkids is wild

I been talking to a 43 year old. Bih got 3 kids and 3 grandkids. Had the audacity to tell me she was the prize. These broads is burnt out and delusional![]()
That trope is outdated. Either that or i’m spoiled being in the dmv. Bc these chicks nowadays are so self centered with their traveling and eating—-plus in the workforce more——they don’t even want kids.there’s PLENTY of 30 even 35+ women with no kids to chose from
That's most women nowawdays considering Gen X and Millennials are also on social media. Remember social media has been out a good 20 years now. Have you not see the 38 year olds posting like they still got it? Hell it's 55 year olds posting like they still got it.
Most divorces happen over finances. All women want money. All women want to be flew out. All women want a provider. It don't matter the age.
There’s healing brother. The problem is it takes a LONGGG time, talking a minimum of a year to years, to properly heal from emotional damage and the average woman can’t sit still long enough to recover. Today’s woman will not sit and be alone for months or years.
They not built like that. Men are forced to sit down somewhere after relationships end because finding a new woman takes a lot of effort and time. They just gotta be moving and doing something with someone. Chasing the feels trumps being mentally healthy and that’s a fundamental problem with dating.
That's most women nowawdays considering Gen X and Millennials are also on social media. Remember social media has been out a good 20 years now. Have you not see the 38 year olds posting like they still got it? Hell it's 55 year olds posting like they still got it.
Most divorces happen over finances. All women want money. All women want to be flew out. All women want a provider. It don't matter the age.
Exactly. I think the 30+ are more delusional.
Seems the 20 years old realizing how hard the economy is and finding a good job. All that independent women shyt is getting quieter. These young girls aint trying to be independent women.
taking the time to think about thatJust think about what a 35 year old has been up to these past 20s years?
All the flings and different men, all the highs and lows, the emotions roller-coaster. Being a baller's light night jump off. Getting the shytted fukked out of them by a unemployed freak. Getting cheated on. Sadly a lot of women's trust has been broken forever.
You describing a sugar baby bruh
Yea they DO know it’s hard out here so while they living at home they doing what we was doin 15 years ago: out in the clubs 4 days a week. She at Focus![]()
Nggas competing with the YN’s. That’s the women yall saying to go after??![]()
You describing a sugar baby bruh
Yea they DO know it’s hard out here so while they living at home they doing what we was doin 15 years ago: out in the clubs 4 days a week. She at Focus
Nggas competing with the YN’s. That’s the women yall saying to go after??![]()
What is she missing in your opinion? Are you not that attracted to her?I'm 41 dating a 28 year old. Not sure how long it's going to last. I know she wants a relationship, but I'm not there with her. She's cute, freak in the bed, but mentally were in 2 different places; she still trying to get a singing career popping. Granted she's actually nice, but I'm not on board for that shyt. If she was coachable I probably would see where we could go.
I been all over the spectrum in this last year, and it's all ended the same regardless if they liked me or I liked them.
It's a shytshow fellas. Dating in general is a shytshow now. It's a race to do the least, smash the fastest, get the most out of someone without being genuine, and then cutoff with no explanation or resolution.
I'm not jaded, because for what it's worth I'm trash too. I'm trying to make it a point to be more intentional in my dating, because I ultimately want to be back in something real. I've juggled women, because women are so fukking flakey. And the catch 22 is, that's probably why I'm still single; not putting my effort in one person and risking that they fall off. Doesn't matter if they are 25 to 52, I've literally dated everything in between and every shade and it all ends in someone flaking out.
It's your location and social circle. I'm not saying you're wrong, it just depends on the tax bracket you hang around. There's plenty of 30 somethings who are broke and nothing to show for it looking for a free ride.
Again, most divorces happen over finances. As far as I'm concerned, every woman wants a provider whether she's 23 or 33. It don't change. Was listening to the radio and some older women called on saying they're going for the bag in the next marriage.