Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

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I’m 31 and my girl is 30. We plan on getting married in August. :wow:
16 years and counting twin :wow:

everytime I think of my past life and soil royal oats 5 star mating general steez...I get reminded by these threads that GMB is official like a ref with a whistle :wow:
 

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Women will try and knock you for that and say you need a woman to take care of you or to have a companion.

And yes, it is dope as hell to come home to a nice cooked meal and all of that, but she has got to carry her equal share

Facts. If I met a woman that was cooperative, laid back and peaceful I’d consider it. Most these chicks are damaged and wanna cause chaos. For now I’m chilling and not that worried
 

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Just because you mature faster don't mean you more intelligent.

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Don't buy into weak game and sell y'self short, too many crash outs actin' like they grown 'cause they ballin' out gettin' a little trim.
Smashin' ain't the way to maturity for no man, but I can see how young brehs got it twisted just 'cause they mouthpiece got 'em the pass to get the drawers. Fair exchange ain't no robbery, but the woman talk nice... is you really makin' a fair trade?

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Have a moment with y'self and choose righteousness, beloved.
 

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I'm 41 dating a 28 year old. Not sure how long it's going to last. I know she wants a relationship, but I'm not there with her. She's cute, freak in the bed, but mentally were in 2 different places; she still trying to get a singing career popping. Granted she's actually nice, but I'm not on board for that shyt. If she was coachable I probably would see where we could go.

I been all over the spectrum in this last year, and it's all ended the same regardless if they liked me or I liked them.

It's a shytshow fellas. Dating in general is a shytshow now. It's a race to do the least, smash the fastest, get the most out of someone without being genuine, and then cutoff with no explanation or resolution.

I'm not jaded, because for what it's worth I'm trash too. I'm trying to make it a point to be more intentional in my dating, because I ultimately want to be back in something real. I've juggled women, because women are so fukking flakey. And the catch 22 is, that's probably why I'm still single; not putting my effort in one person and risking that they fall off. Doesn't matter if they are 25 to 52, I've literally dated everything in between and every shade and it all ends in someone flaking out.

I'm very similar to you bruh. I just date, some last months, some weeks, some years.

I always tell women I date, once we both in our 50s and have slowed down and the kids are grown. We'd be together for real.. right now we're are still dreaming of one last magical connection
 

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Being 40 and being around women 36-50, i clearly see why majority of them outta of here in the dating market for men

1. They stuck in they ways with no changing

2. Kid or kids by either bum nikkas or ex cons but still in they mind they are first round draft picks and expect u to be making bank

3. Clearly the body is sloppy and only look decent with clothes on

4. These older broads stay jealous at younger girls and it’s a cycle thats been going on for decades
 

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What is she missing in your opinion? Are you not that attracted to her?
She doesn't hold stable work and has an erratic schedule because she's in "the life". I'm mid-level management in the corporate world who could easily be running an entire business unit in 3 years if I really wanted to. Looking for someone to compliment me and be a little more consistent. Not at Industry Tuesday's hanging with a bunch of people I don't know in the middle of the week.
 

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I'm very similar to you bruh. I just date, some last months, some weeks, some years.

I always tell women I date, once we both in our 50s and have slowed down and the kids are grown. We'd be together for real.. right now we're are still dreaming of one last magical connection
That sweet spot I think is 30. I think psychologically a lot of women feel the pressure at that age and tend to be a lot more cooperative. I fukked it up with 2 women who had great careers, early 30s, great rapport, bodies were right, no kids, etc... I just didn't put all of my chips in and subsequently fukked it up because I was chasing other chicks simultaneously.

I'm trying to learn to be content by myself until I find another gem like that, it's just so few and far between... I did it before. Not sure why I have have this chronic compulsion to keep dating everything lately. The irony I'm finding is, women with kids tend to even be less cooperative then women without.
 

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Being 40 and being around women 36-50, i clearly see why majority of them outta of here in the dating market for men

1. They stuck in they ways with no changing

2. Kid or kids by either bum nikkas or ex cons but still in they mind they are first round draft picks and expect u to be making bank

3. Clearly the body is sloppy and only look decent with clothes on

4. These older broads stay jealous at younger girls and it’s a cycle thats been going on for decades

yoooooo

Number three is crazy! There have been a few joints I have seen that look 10 times better with their clothes on. And it’s not to be mean but they think they are still popping like they were 23 and they are 51 and the other is 49… :lolbron:

But I guess it’s partly men’s fault and that since so many thirsty dudes will gas up just about anything
 

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If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with.
What's wrong with this?

There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. Humanity has evolved to the point you don't need to have a partner anymore. If you want sex or companionship you can just pay an escort, get what you want, and be done with it.
 

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Too many failed relationships and too much deadend dating.

Too many sexual experiences with too many different partners.

Still on and off with our exs.

Too much social media has warped your perception of what love and a relationship is.

Too much red pill or feminism.

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with. You're to bitter and stuck in yours ways and your standards from your prime.


There's a reason people got married so young, we weren't meant to date and sleep with so many people.





There are No happy endings for most of us . :mjcry:


What is the end game dawg
Marriage
Kids
House
Good job
401k with %100 gold
 

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I don't understand this thread premise.

Alot of these women are fuked up because of their life choices. They choose to invest in a man that wasnt worth a damn and don't heal from the hurt that inevitably comes.
Alot of these men gotta finesse their way into some pu$$y which means they are contributing to the problem of women's head being fuked up, but those are typically the same guys that complain about her head being fuked up.

I'm not running across a bunch of broken women (not saying they dont exist), but maybe it's a perspective thing. If I see red flags I leave her alone immediately. no need to make a thread about it and since there are millions of other women out here I just move around.

Alot of yall have a standard for a woman you don't embody or you have such a low shot at females that you take whatever comes along and complain about it.
Its plenty of 6 figure women with good values, that take of themselves and are down to cook you a meal and spend time without you needing to finesse or spend hella money.

But if all you bring to the situation is your d!ck and a wallet that just makes you a jon (which alot coli brehs seem to be) and youre going to attract h0es and opportunists.
 
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End result of dating for the next best nut and not companionship. People will always be looking for a better deal and burning bridges. End result of adopting gay relationship norms :yeshrug:
 
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